I wish I were single

I've heard so many people saying these things to our youth group. Thanks for your advice! I will never rush onto it, just because I have a mad crush on someone. I trust God that He'll take care of my love life.

Based on experience, well, I think everyone would like to be in a relationship, but none of them would like to give up their single ways. The grass is always greener on the single side, but then, on your side, you can get naked, not wear make-up and fart and your side won't even mind. :)

being single is not something, that I asked for, as it was thrust upon me, when my husband at the time, said we weren't compatible, and that we should divorce. I was devastated at the time, as we had been married for 35 years, going on 36, and I just wasn't ready to be alone. I have been alone for six years ow, and it is still hard at time to be on my own, but I have learned to deal with it, as we aren't getting back together,and that is fine by me. I have my independence and don't have to account to anyone for what I do or where I go, and I like that part of it. It did take me awhile to deal with the situation, but I realize now, that he did me a favor by not wanting to be with me anymore. I am having wa to much fun to feel otherwise. Take care, and have a great day.

I guess there are some people out there who like to be single forever because they fear commitment and they also like every girl/boy they see. My brother is the type of person that falls in love--(or so he says)-- with every women he meets. As for me, I am single and I am looking for somebody to share my life with. I don't want to rush things because I am still young, but my life will be better if I have somebody to be there for me, or perhaps I just need a friend. When you don't know what you want, you can't find it.

I agree with you Yan!. But its sort of pleasure feeling when you have your own kids and you have someone who is going to wait for you to reach home from office. I know there is lot of freedom when you are not married as one has least responsibility unlike when you get married but there are certain other things which unmarried people would get only when they get married.

It is something like comparison between a service and a business. In both the cases people are happy and sad, earning and not earning or less earning. In business profit is entirely yours no body else to share it but at the same time nobody to share losses too. In service the salary is limited but permanent and every month you get it. Again there are ups and downs in both the cases. Due to some mishap industries may have to close down and then no salary and not profit. Likewise there are good things and bad things in single and married. It's a matter of debate after all. Anyway i don't want to break my head. I am married and i don't think i have lost my freedom and i have taken a wrong decision.