some time
@louislouislouis (7)
Philippines
December 22, 2012 1:29am CST
Me and my bf is in ldr. Weve been together for almoat a year and we meet every month or before 2 months. He is been bisy with hia work nowadays and planning with a new business. He told me that he is so tired and stress about it. We just met last week and we barely talk tho we dont really talk that much. And last monday, i noticed that he is getting cold. But i dont know... I open that to him and he told me that he is not cold or what. I just finished my exams thia week and im so stress. I have been so negative these days and paranoid. then last tuesday, he got tired of my dramas. He told me that im beong so nega and stress and depresssed these day so he asked me to have sometime with each othere.. Its jard for me. I dont know if he is still love me and if he is just stress with his work and new business. I also texted him last night and doing some drama but he told me that he still doesnt want to talk to me and just leave him alone. He also told me that he is so stress with work. What do u think will happen? Is he about to break up with me of what? :(
3 responses
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Worst comes to worst, you must accept it... Surely there are some reasons for your boyfriend's aloof mood. You are the one who knows him better... How old are you and how old is he? How did you get together in this relationship? It is so hard to analyze your situation because you did not state more facts about this dilemma of yours. But most often, that attitude of your boyfriend towards you is leading for something. It could be for break-up or it could be that he just want to have more space because he is so busy.
@louislouislouis (7)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Well, he used to be my internet friend last year and i also teach him english. When we met earlier this year we're just friends but something happened that when he is about to go back in his country, we decided to be in a relationship. I think we fell inlove? Lol
Anyway, he is korean. So sometimes i think its just about our culture differences. Im a type of girl who is needy, dependent to him. Which makes me a high maintenance gf. So when he wasnt able to call me when he told me that he will call me, i will get angry. Then say sorry after few hours like that. He told me that he is getting tired of that attitude..but i dont know why he cant understand that its the only thing im helding coz as what ive said we are in a ldr. So i always want communicate with him. So yeah...
I tried to talk to him last monday, and told me to leave him alone. He said that he want to JUST focus with his work and business. I also open up about breaking up thingy but he doesnt want to talk about that. I know him... But it makes me depressed that we are not talking.
Im turning 19 and he is 28.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Culture really matters and also the age gap between you matters too... You are so needy as you are saying but I understand it because of your age. But keep on remembering that true love last but it should be mixed with understanding. If you want him to understands you then you must show him that you understand his situation too. Long-distance relationship is one of the toughest thing that you are now into for time is not the only problem you will face but also the distance. Well, if your love is true then it is worth the sacrifice but if you think that this relationship will not work anymore then stop delaying the dilemma. Let yourself and him find happiness for it is one thing we can't buy...
@louislouislouis (7)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Yeah. Im not saying that we are not happy anymore but i think we should do our priorities first. As what he had said to me that i should so my best and study hard then he will work hard. We are living in a same country now but its still far to meet everyday or every week.. My problem is juat that i was used to talk to him everyday almost the whole day for almst one year then suddenly we will not talk.. I dont know why im like this i seems so childish but this is what i just feel. Im not close to my family so i cant open all my problems and whwn im stress, its just only him that im talking with those. I juat want some advice. Anyway, thank you for comenting it helps me a little.
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
28 Dec 12
Maybe be busy is just the excuse to escape from you,but I think maybe you two need to have a talk or just keep cool and be aparted for some days.It is time for both of you to have a break.
@louislouislouis (7)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
Yes right. Thats what we are in now. We dont talk with each other for almost 2 weeks but sometimes i cant help it so i send him a msg but ww are still not okay. Maybe we will be soon. Im hoping.
