The Love that is hard to give up!!!
By rhodzptc
@rhodzptc (1317)
Philippines
December 22, 2012 1:00pm CST
Which love is it hard for you to give up? A love that counts the number of times you've been hurt but still you hold on to each other? A love the faces all the adversities to be together? Or the love that had gone once then it grows back again after seeing each other for a long lost relationship?
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9 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
22 Dec 12
The kinds of love you describe all have 1 thing in common which is: not able to go on with your life. Not able to set new goals. Clinging to something old, even if it's bad for you because you do not have the courage to go on. This is not about love but about wanting it the way it once was (although you know it stinks). Till the moment you learned your lesson, you did develop, did learn your lesson and are able to set new goals, to go on, nothing will change. You will be in love, loose, feel miserable, end up/or stay and feel miserable, while your life is passing by.
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
Love must be fairly treated and not hurt anyone who feel about it. Love must not be jealous and always carried on the benefit of both partner not the benefit of one. If your alone to feel such things in a situation where the person unfairly device you as a tool of happiness. You need to consider something to think what is the option you follow to make a wise decision when that person comes into your way with nothing to give you but hurt...
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
23 Dec 12
A love that is out and in again all the time, is hard to give up. No matter how hard I try it seems to be not to be able to give up.
@zoey7879 (3092)
• Quincy, Illinois
25 Dec 12
My fiance and I definitely fit the mold of the first two... We've only been together for a year and we have already faced a great number of difficulties that would make most half-sane people wanna run the other direction...
But we truly love each other and we pulled through it.. Knowing that others were so desperately jealous that they would create numerous lies that could have imprisoned my fiance... Despite the abuse that he goes through on a daily basis from his family. Despite occasionally having hurt each other.
We're just not gonna give up so easily! (=
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
23 Dec 12
All love faces road blocks.. Even a family love does. But we seem to get over the family ones more than a mates love. But if both truly love one another, youll get through anything.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
23 Dec 12
Love knows no barriers and no condition. I don't prefer one over the other. I prefer i love to love and it is free in the world. However for the discussion sake, I could choose the love that had gone once and grows back again. I am a hopeless romantic, I love love the second time around.. they say, it is sweeter. Which I agree, because more or less both parties have settled down their indifference and knew already the likes and dislikes of one another.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
all love counts. no matter how it starts and ends, if it is love, then it must count in our lives. the good things love brings to our lives are innumerable compared to the miseries it brings. i am not particular how love enters our lives, i am more concerned on how it impacts on our lives. i would say it has tremendous positive impact on our lives.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
I haven't been into many relationship so I can't say what kind of love is hard to give up.
But on my experienced- I have loved and lost the only person that I have loved.
I know I did all my best to save our relationship but my best wasn't good enough (like the song)
I never regretted loving him nor losing him- because I know that I have given my all to save him and make him stay.
But sometimes- love is not enough to make someone stay.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
23 Dec 12
Hey friend.A good relationship will never broke your heart.Or the right one is coming.It's indeed hard to choose which one to give up.Well,i think you need to be conscious about true love and see which one is your perfect lover and maybe everything is settled.