Do you like the people who doesn't express themselves with frankness?
By HuaZhao
@HuaZhao (457)
China
December 23, 2012 6:19am CST
Hi, mylotters, how was your weekend?
Recently,I found that too many people--too often--instinctively don't express themselves with frankness. They don't communicate straightforwardly or put forth ideas looking to stimulate real debate.They just don't open up. They want to make people feel better or to avoid conflict.I really don't like this kind of people. But in my country, our culture determines that there are too many people doing like this. I think, in western countries, the case maybe totally different.
Hi, mylotters, how about the people around you?
6 responses
@ShadowWolf1996 (147)
• Taiwan
23 Dec 12
Hey friend, you are from China!!!
I'm from Taiwan and I know what your feelings.
Actually in our culture, if we talk too straightly people may think we are impolite.
If you don't like the one who is too "oil"
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
I have also noticed a few of my friends to be that way. But I just let them be. It may be annoying but there's nothing I can do. Unless they would want to change themselves, then they'd be stuck up with that kind of attitude.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
I also don't like them very much but I don't hate them either.
If I had a friend I would like a friend who can be honest with me but tells me that information at an appropriate time.
It's understandable that people will keep quite to avoid unnecessary trouble but not being able to speak up for oneself is completely different.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
23 Dec 12
True , westerns are too different , they speak their mind not caring whether they can hurt or not as long as they have expressed what they wanted and what they felt. Some people aren't like this , because so careful trying not to hurt and give a wound to his fellow. She wanted this fellow will realize things by her own and do something about it. Frankness is good but it depends how one delivers it . Sometimes one delivers it with arrogance , so this is not god and helping but id done gently and kindly , this could best serve its purpose.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
23 Dec 12
weekend is almost ending now. why would you like to put some debate? aren't these traits consider as being tactful? and isn't it fine to avoid conflict. Why don't you like it? I don't like conflict so if there is someone who is pushing into debate I back off. 
@vernaC (1491)
• Romania
23 Dec 12
I like different kinds of people, they're one of my source of knowledge. I like to speak with honesty but more on with compassion. I don't want to hurt or offend people, strangers, friends or families. Although I tell them my opinion but I try to use gentle words as I can and explain in a way that won't offend them.
