advice ... imidiatly

@ma3791 (58)
December 23, 2012 9:02am CST
hello i met last night in our bar a nice girl but i too shy to pick up with her someone can help me with good advice
7 responses
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
24 Dec 12
If you really like someone,just go and get her.Coz love don't wait for people and need your own effort to make it.Just get to know each other and then needs time to understand each other.Good luck to you and i believe that you will get no regrets.
@ma3791 (58)
24 Dec 12
tanks!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
Just be natural, be calm and be yourself. Be sincere and kind when you talk to each other. Think of her as just one of your friends. Be respectful and be a gentleman!
@urbandekay (18278)
23 Dec 12
Just try and be natural, don't try any line. By honest and open. Don't sit there, thinking, "I could say this but it might not work because" Don't try and think why any particular approach might not work. Just go straight up to her without thinking and say what is on your mind. Smile, use her name, make eye contact and hold for a moment or two but break off before you make her uncomfortable. Don't worry, each time you do this it will become easier and you will become better at it all the best, urban
• Malaysia
23 Dec 12
Hi ma, how you want to pick up with her again when you met her last night in your bar, are you sure that she will turn up again?Ok i dont want to make you feel bad, assuming that she will turn up again and as a female myself i tell you what you should do if she turns up again at your bar. First don't brag, you must praise her like "you look so attractive and i can't help myself to talk to you", when you notice her smiling, ask for her name, then you praise her again for having such a sweet name, after that you ask her where she live, again praise her about the place she live, next tell her that you like to know her better and ask for her phone number if she gives you her number you are in and most importantly make sure you smell good and your shoes are clean, ok all the best to you if she doesn't respond to any of my suggestion find another
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Dec 12
What do you mean by: I met? If you meet someone you talk to that person or? So then you already took the first step. If not.. and you mean by: I met you just saw someone there is more "work" to do. First thing you have to do is make contact, which can be by looking at someone and see if she looks back (and what kind of look!) or smile to someone or say hi. Getting close to someone mostly only works if you have things in common. Same habit, likes, dislikes, way you are raised, etc. For the rest it takes time to get closer and it's better to start a friendship first (by greeting, meeting, being friendly) instead of jumping on someone, forcing things before both are clear about what they really want or feel. A pushy man is seldom appreciated.
23 Dec 12
jst try to approch her by saying could i buy u a drink or may i dance with u n talk to her then only smthing can happen
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
23 Dec 12
Just look into her eyes and speak from your heart. Don't break the eye contact.