..cried when i got to know about mom's illness..
By subhojit10
@subhojit10 (7375)
India
December 23, 2012 11:03am CST
Hey guys, some months back i had an emotionally draining session and i never believed that i could shed tears that day.
It so happened that some months back my mother had a severe back and neck ache and the pain was so severe that she was not able to walk properly then. i was very much worried about this and the very moment i instructed my dad to consult a doctor and they went to a doctor. The moment they returned, my mom said that she will be having some sort of operation very soon.
I got so much emotional after hearing this that i cried loudly like a small baby and my parents were shocked and surprised to see this. I do not know why but i cried instantly that moment. I said i wont allow my mom to have any operation. Thankfully my mom underwent some therapy at a reputed hospital for a month and now she is feeling much better. I prayed God that may all her health illness and pains be mine but never give any pain to my parents. I cannot see my parents suffering even a bit.
What are your thoughts regarding this? U had any such emotionally draining experience? Please do share your thoughts!
3 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
25 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Yes it was very painful for me that moment and i got emotional instantly, my parents never realized that i could shed tears suddenly and when i saw my mom shedding tears also, i stopped crying and consoled her. Yeah thankfully she is fine now and i am always giving massage on legs and knees so that she will feel good.
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
27 Dec 12
@Micmac-
Thanks a ton for your valuable response my friend. Well yes a massage therapy was the need of the hour and i felt i am the right person to give her this massage. i do it every day and she is feeling better with each day as she informed me about the massage that i give her every day. Hope my healing touch proves lucky for her. Fingers crossed!
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@kristeta_ss (36)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
I am happy to hear that your mom is doing great and responding to her therapy very well. Feeling emotional is normal for this kind of situation especially that I can sense you are very close to your parents. I too always pray to God for my parents health and if ever that they should go, it will be peaceful and no pains........( teary eyes when typing this )...... I will include your mom in my prayers for her past recovery.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
27 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Hey that is so sweet of u that u would include my mom in your prayers and i hope that she recovers from all types of pain so that i never get to see her in agony.
To be very honest, i am very close and attached to my parents and a mere pain on their face or in them will hurt me a lot and that is the reason why i got emotional that day.
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@GilMegans (241)
• Philippines
24 Dec 12
Hi subhojit10! Well, emotionally drained is actually a normal feeling/reaction of a person most especially if the family and love one's are involved herein. Normally, due to our too much attachment with a particular problem most especially such health condition of our family, unnoticeable plunge of tears can possibly the result because of a very distressing event wherein our eyes cannot hold the tears to fall that push by solitude and exhausted emotions.
With regards to the condition of your mother, I am very glad to hear that she's going okay now. Give your ample time and attention to cared for her because a comfort from the family is one of the best cured for an illness. Further, just hold your faith to God and everything will gonna be fine. Good luck to your family.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
25 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, i am attached to her than anyone in my entire family so i cannot hear anything bad about her in any sense. i do not know how but i got emotional within seconds and i could not stop my tears at that time. Yeah she is doing good and i am always there to help her and even i wish from the core of my heart that she recovers properly.
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