Thank you!
By Life11211
@Life11211 (452)
India
December 24, 2012 11:52am CST
Hi Friends,
Today i come across very good message and it was related to thank everyone who made us smile in this year.
The interesting thing about other part of that message as thanks was given to all included who hurt and left us (confused)
The message was very big, but i am writing only few lines which confused me
1. Thanks to those who hated me, they made me a stronger person (i don't think i will able to thank that person who hated me in the year or any year)
2. Thanks to those who left me, they made me realize that nothing lasts forever (surely i will never thank such person, who left me in this year)
In this process, i recollected few incidents in my life, where i stopped communication with my few friends, and also started communicated again with whom they or I taken initiative to make new meaning(beginning) to our friendship.
I thought, whether its possible or easy to thank all those who left us or hated us???
For me, if i want the person in my life or want that friend to get connected with me, i find no problem to send thank you, as i want to make the person feel, how he/she is important to me, and surely don't want to lose him/her.
So, my interpretation of thank you - I will thank those to whom i want to get connected,
If some one left me don't want to get in touch with me, i will surely make the person free from mylife.
And not even disturb that person by sending thank you (lol)
Like mylot and mylot friends - This is what i actually feel about mylot friends.
I want to thank my mylot friend who made me smile this year and helped me in all my discussions.
A very Big Thank you to all of you.
My understanding on this....
Without feel sending something is waste of time and resources..
Your take on this.....
December 24, 2012 23:19 (IST)
3 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
25 Dec 12
This is a wonderful thing - saying thanks to the ones who left you and or hated you. The most difficult part in this as I see and felt, is, never letting the hurt or the pain they gave you play on your mind and stay really calm and say thanks. As per what I feel, thanks is not just a word for the sake of it, it has a real deeper feeling and meaning.
There have been people who have hurt me many times and yes, earlier, I used to feel the pain, and in that pain say and think bad for them. But today, I have got a better control on my emotions and today, nothing keeps me down and sad for more than sometime. I am able to forget, forgive and also say thanks to these people as I know, their hurting me in the long run, means nothing to me.
As for mylot, yes, it has been a good friend, and helped me meet many good people who have and are helping me shape my life better and in a sense, helping me live again.
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@Life11211 (452)
• India
25 Dec 12
Thank you sid.
You narrated things so wonderfully.
I have not reached that stage where i can thank the person who left me or hurt me.
I will always forgive the person, but never forget as that help me deal people in more smart and better way.
I just understand, i don't want to give remote of my life in hands of others.
If someone says bad about us, we feel bad, and if some says good about us we feel good, why to give our remote control to others.
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
25 Dec 12
It is so nice of you to share it with us.We do need to express our gratefulness to people around us,a simple"thank you"really means a lot.And be thankful for whatever you have,get even lose.Give thanks a little,but we would learn a lot.
Merry xmas,have a nice day.
@Life11211 (452)
• India
25 Dec 12
I agree.
I am very expressive, so never faced any problem to thank those who are special (important) to me.
But when comes to thanking some one who behaved very bad, or rude towards me, or don't want to get in touch with me, i will never going to thank those people, i find very difficult to take initiative.
How about you?
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
24 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Yes u are absolutely right, we should be thankful to all people throughout the year and rather than thinking about all the failures, we should think about the positive. I know we all had ups and downs this year but at the end of the day we should be sensible enough to thank every one as it has been a learning experience for us.
What say?
@Life11211 (452)
• India
25 Dec 12
So, its easy for you to thank those who behaved very bad with you, hated your or not part of your life any more.
