A Doubt of Love
By stylewaves
@stylewaves (1060)
India
December 24, 2012 12:25pm CST
Hello Everyone, its been some very long time since i have deployed myself in here. I have not been here because i got a Job and i was working to be an Graphic Designer. The Problem i am facing now is really setting me to corner of the cliff. A Girl in my office loves me, Even i too love her. But the Problem is She is somewhat 6 months elder than me... I have brought this in front of her mind she told no problem with that , We'll surpass it by our love . 2nd : We both are of different caste, it doesn't matter in my knowledge but in our parents side i think it may have some effect. 3rd: She is much shorter than me. Actually by Mind i am very much keen to take care of her but i never realized it would turn up like this. Do any of you have any suggestions for this ? Can we really go ahead of what we got or should we have to go for any other option ? I can over come all other problem... But the big difference in Height within us really upsets her ! She fears what if it become a reason for Parents to get rid of us being married ?
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5 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
24 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation very well but i think height should not be a matter of concern for your relationship. I know there are many constrains in your love life but it your responsibility to talk to your partner regarding this. I do not want u to take any decision suddenly. Nowadays i see many couple who have a huge height difference and yet it has never acted as a deterrent for them. So better talk to your partner and consult the elders before taking any decision.
What say?
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@stylewaves (1060)
• India
25 Dec 12
Cool to have you in here and really thanks a Lot for dropping in here ! Yea i have consult the Elders for sure thats why i dropped here !
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
Why put boundaries on a love that is pure? Should everything else matter when you know in your heart and mind that you love one another?
My sister is almost 6ft tall and she married his husband who was shorter than she is. No big deal about that! So, why should height be a problem to you?
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
30 Dec 12
Its really great to Hear back from !
Our love is really really pure its like a Water that can have Penetration of light over 1000's of miles..
Our Love really started with care we had on both of us... On feeling that we may not miss Each other we proposed but We are in fear that What if we can't join !
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Jan 13
I don't see why your height would be a concern with her parents. But how can you know until you meet them?
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
24 Dec 12
I think height should not matter if you really love each other. There should be understanding and care for each other as that is more imporatant between a couple.
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
25 Dec 12
You are absolutely correct when it matches only two individuals... But what about our parents
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
24 Dec 12
Nice to see you here, I think most of us understand you well here. You do what you feel is right. But everything into it,, especially if its your love. Merry xmas to you there......
@stylewaves (1060)
• India
25 Dec 12
Merry X-mas to you also dear...
Dear Actually am confused of taking a decision, the decision we take once will remain as long as possible , she shouldn't worry for it at any cost !
