You do something wrong once and everyone starts bashing you!

Hi Aja! Whatever you said is true. Many persons (those include our near and dear ones) are merciless to us beyond our imagination. They just want to highlight our mistakes and errors and on the slightest opportunity they are ready to rip us apart. Perphaps by pointing out our mistakes they want to prove that they are saner and better than us. They simply forget our good deeds and start taking those nice gestures as granted or say routine. The moment we do something which seemingly feels unpleasant to them, they just pounce upon us and do not let the opportunity slip and they humilate us and let us down within no time. I wonder how heartless some people could be and they do not believe in forgiving you even once for your inadvertent mistakes. Sadly, we need to live up with these kind of people. Merry Christmas to you. :-)

Hi! I felt this many a times. I don't know why but some people just don't seem to understand. They never see our good part but bad. If ever we do something without any wrong, they say it's not what they expected from us.

Yea, it is quite interesting how often there are really people out there in life who are like this. They always want to find the WRONG and the BAD in everyone, instead of looking for the GOOD, just so they can then find a good reason to cut down and make Fun of you, and never think of you good enough for anything else as well. I often wonder if they would think about what if it was them, how would they remember to look at things then?

Oh yes.. I am very familiar with this as someone I am extremely close to bears a scarlet letter.. It will always be there.. always to follow us.. always to remind us.. :/

That would be my family. I'm ignored when everything is going smooth but the minute something goes wrong, they are all over my a$$ in negativity.

Hi, I agree with everything you said. When we always follow the rules and do what's right almost all the time, people will expect you to stay the same for the rest of your life, it's like they're looking at you like a saint. I hate being treated this way, when people expect me to be good all the time, even if it's in our nature to be respectful and good to others, when people expect you to stay that way, it starts to feel like an obligation.

I can say this is the sort of Law of society who they have created of their own. But do you know from where such things begin? It is being started from the family itself first, then within the friend circle and then society as such. When we do anything good we are being praised by our family members and friends, but as you said when one wrong thing is happen from us we are criticized. Keep in mind as human being we all do the mistake in our life and if we do it then we must try to improvised them rather than continue the same mistake.

Hi, Maybe the world remembers only the bad and forget the good if our good is not good enough. Mediocrity often does not register upon the people's minds but when we go bad, it always big time. We don't go bad halfway but people think we've done the worst even if we don't mean it. Is it because we are not capable of doing good at all? Are we inherently bad? I don't really know.

You love the world or the people in it? Since there is a big difference if it comes to that. I think we all know how it feels you always do good to others and one "wrong" step and you are kicked out, stabbed in the back or you have to pay for your "mistake" forever because people keep making you feel quilty or miserable. Why they do so? Because they made a picture of you, the person you are not for real. Also people do remember 1 bad moment forever, all the good things/deeds/help/advices are forgotten. Must be a human thing. Same with one bad moment at a day and you say: my whole day is spoiled.

I experienced many similar experiences in life. All good deeds of mine were forgotten just by single fault happened unintentionally. It seems society is eagerly waiting for faults of persons than positive actions from him/her.

I sure have. It's not like we don't feel bad enough when we make a mistake, hey we're more aware of it than anyone else, and then they have to go on and on of how we made a mistake. No. They blatantly tell us we were wrong. Their focusing on the negative instead of the positive. Really? They are so perfect they have never made a mistake, ever? I think we should all focus on the positive and this world would be a happier place. I make mistakes and I will continue to make mistakes. Why in the world would someone want to kick you when you are already down? These people lack judgment, character, sympathy and compassion. I would hate to see them make a mistake and have the hole world jump down their throat. I get ya, and yes it has happened to me. We just have to move on and try hard to not let it get to us. Happy Holidays.

This is how unique of the society. You will be forgotten for all the good deeds you've done, but you will always be remembered for a little mistake you've made. It's real and cruel. Human is never be treated as equal.

That's the world works and sadly it's what always happen, people often remeber your bad than your good, when you did something bad. No matter how much good that you already did when you did something bad once, it'll go "bam!", people hate you for that one mistake. Remember foul smell will draw more people attention that the nice fragrance. Just like this analogy, if you smell nice, maybe just a people who is close to you who will notice but what if you starts saving something with foul smell, everyone will notice and shout "what is this smell!". That is the same with good deeds and bad deed.

Yeah, people are judgemental by nature but since we have the freedom of expression and some have different thought about this freedom, they talk and judge you as if they are saints and gods. For a moment they forgot that they're human and made mistakes maybe even more. they feel like they have all the right to say whatever comes to their mind and not thinking if it's ok or not to say those words.