which i choose most!

@ungu89 (1999)
Malaysia
December 25, 2012 2:16am CST
i have try it twice. they are stronger, they mean a lot more. thrust is the biggest thing in a relationship, if we can trust a person who live far away from us, sure u don't get to meet, hug, kiss that person, the only thing u can do is hear and listen to them. of course with technology today you can skype with them you will fight less, laugh more that's why i really respect someone that have really good with this kind of relationship. why let distance ruin your feeling to someone? why i love it most but still do have any success on it? because for me, love is not my focus right now.
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10 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
I don't understand either why there are people who misunderstood long distant relationship. Where our time has many means of communication and no other reason for us not to communicate each other to stay in a healthy relationship.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
I agree with you, friend. Base on my experience trust is not just lose but because they are being fabricated sometimes. Both partner commit mistake and need alibi's as a escape goat to protect their own selfish behavior.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
always suspect on each other, but i also have know few that already success in this relation even until the get kids too
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 12
because they not trust each other.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 12
I had a long distance relationship with my ex boyfriend whho is my hubby right now we can make it for years and we have been married for over than 10 years he tought me to be loyal
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
maybe we are just meant for each other.. the key is we don't think to have something better than we have we feel enough with ourselves if we have some weakness, we do have some strength too and if we thing to have an affair, she/he might have the weakness that we can not bear it so we just stay stick each other
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
2 Jan 13
good u still together
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
wah! that's really great. then u should share with us your other secret
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
26 Dec 12
Despite the fact that technology does seem to make any amount of distance seem like it isn't quite as far away as it used to seem to be, I still think that there are a lot of different challenges that go along with a long distance relationship. Personally, I've never been involved in a long-distance relationship and it is something that I really don't think would work for me The reason that I don't think that I would be good at a distance relationship is because of the fact that I like to be close to my loved ones at all times.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
everyone want to be close with their partner
• China
26 Dec 12
In my mind,long distance really will does harm to love,so I do not have a good anticipation to the long distance love,so why not you come to your boyfriend's city or ask him back to yours?
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
i don't see him anymore, we try to be close as we can, but because of other responsibility , we just make it end
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
25 Dec 12
I have never believed in long distant relationships. I think part of love is being next to each other. If it works for you great, just not for me. Take care, merry xmas...
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 12
i love to try it again even i not good in it. haha
• United States
25 Dec 12
This is all I can say: Showing effort is not always showing love because loving someone can't be measured by an effort. It is a matter of sharing what you feel for that person without getting tired and expecting something in return :) Merry Christmas to you and to your family! Blessings to you!
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
love is really subjective
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
25 Dec 12
With the introduction of online technology many people become friends online and later some fall in love and that love turn out to be in relationship. Even though they could not Kiss each other, hug each other, not met personally but their eternal feelings makes them to continue their relationship in their life.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 12
yup! today we get to know by this medium, still need to meet for real for a real feeling too
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
25 Dec 12
If it's true love it won't get affected by distance or time. If feelings are true, they'll always be there, time, situations or distance won't affect it.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 12
yup! if you really love that person so much, all other thing is not a big problem for you
• Hungary
25 Dec 12
Of course we can fight against distance with today technology. But still love needs... well the kisses, hugs the real biological and let say it out physical contact. Skype can work for 1-2 weeks or 3 but not forever.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 12
yup! only when you really love and thrust that person, the relation will be going to work
• Philippines
25 Dec 12
yes, love knows no boundaries, yes, love can survive a long distance relationship but not for very long, to love someone is one thing and to trust is another, we can go on loving someone even if we don't trust that someone, and we can trust somebody whom we do not love, love and trust are two things which are independent of each other for their own survival, but just like trust, love has a requisite too, in order to develop and grow, it needs "physical contact" to affirm itself. and it needs it, and because of that, lovers will always find a way, by hook or by crook, to be near each other, no ifs and no buts. and if they don't, well i am not sure what kind of love we are talking about here.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 12
i know it really hard, i was so into it, but we just survive for a few month. everyday, thinking how to make our relation work. but still, it did not end well