Is it Wrong?

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I don't think it's wrong at all. After all, this is all about your comfort and ease on this site. If you are feeling overwhelmed, it's only natural to remove some of the things causing you the feelings of distress. This is, after all, a website you've chosen to be on, a website meant to interest and engage you, if something or someone is contributing to it being anything less than productive and enjoyable, I think it's okay to delete them. It's not hard feelings, it's just a personal preference of how you choose to enjoy this website!

You can delete whichever person you want for whichever reason you want. When I came back to myLot after not being here regularly for about 4 years, I deleted people who haven't been active for a year and more.

If you found yourself getting overwhelmed, it is not unreasonable to take such a step. Not everyone has that much time to spend on this site, and it does make sense to streamline things so that you can make the best use of your time here. Everyone has their own way of approaching this and other sites. As long as one is abiding by the rules of a site, one should take the approach that best works for her or him.

No I don't think so as deleting someone is not an offensive one as talking,keeping friends entirely depends on me.

I think its okay. You got the right to manage your friend's list. Maybe your friend's list is so crowded already then just do the right thing,haha.. which is the delete button. I don't mind my friends list. Anyway, I'm just new here so its okay if I got many friends. :)

I don't mind if someone loves to post. What makes me nuts is when someone who loves to post are always posting non sense. I love mylot and I like when people are on here to ask real question and to start real conversations. Of course be fun and funny... but asking things like what's your favorite color?? No okay

Hi Echo!!!!! Where have you been? I missed you! Anyways, glad to see you back and enjoying yourself here......right? Unfortunately, I've done the same thing with a few people. It just seemed every time I came to myLot it was a full page of all their discussions and I don't like that either...it's just too much. I like the people, don't get me wrong, it's just taking up so much space, lol! What can I say..haha. It's your decision, just like everyone here says. It doesn't mean I won't answer their discussions if there is one I like, I just don't want to see that many all at once, so I guess I'm like you. Glad to see you back here...

hi echoforever I do not think its wrong as many still have the mistake belief that if they made a ton of discussions and get a lot of responses they will be rich because of our work. that is so wrong as we who made the discu sions earn the money.WE type we earn, the discussion maker types back comments on all the responses he or she gets he or she earns well.

As soon as I read your discussion and some of the starting stuff of your description, the first thing that came to my mind was that you could use the stop notification option that you set to on or off. Accordingly, you will get or not get the notifications when your friends start a discussion. However if you set the notifications to off, then I guess you won't get a single person's notification. But if you have to customize it in a why that you want to block only a single person's discussions, then I am sorry, I don't know if mylot allows that. I guess, removing the friend from that list is the only option. I am not sure if the admin will allow to block only a particular person's discussions.

It is your prerogative my friend

Like the first response said I think it is up to the individual person who is on their friends list and who isn't. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with that at all. If you don't want someone on there you have the right to delete them! That is the beauty of us choosing for ourselves who we want on there and who we don't. =-)

I totally agree with you,though I am a new comer,I just posted one discussion everyday.Actually I would reply every comment from my discussion or the discussion I've ever responsed.It do takes me so much time but I love interaction.It seems much more important than keeping posting always but never reply to any response.I am now a mylot addict,lol.

HAHAHA! It's not wrong. It's your right to do it whether you like it or not, my friend. Enjoy using myLot! God bless you! :)

I've noticed someone in my friends list posting so many discussions daily. Her postings are nothing but her diary. For a while I supported her discussions but slowly felt bored of reading her life story. I don't know whether we are talking about the same person. Maybe. You have the prerogative to delete anyone in your list. No harm done at all

When I experience that situation I turn off the notifications instead of deleting the person from my friend list. Sometimes it can be a little difficult to find the discussions started by other friends because a friend who starts lots of new disscussions tends to dominate the "friends started" category, but I can live with that if I like the person and find his or her discussions interesting. Personally I never delete people because they start many discussions, but I don't think it is was wrong of you to do it. It depends on your choice and and the things that are important to you. If you find the many discussions annoying and think that the person takes up too much space compared to other friends who also start discussions you can delete the person. If you find their discussions interesting and "only" think that there are too many of them you can keep the person in your friend list and accept that the person is very active.

I think there is nothing wrong with that. If you are not comfortable with those discussions, then that is fine. In my case, I do not care if you will post a lot of discussion as long as it is interesting and I will be able to respond. But I guess, there are instances that some are posting too much topics and it feels like its a Spam email already, I understand that. But in my case, I do not delete friends as I rather spend my time responding to discussions.

hello friend. I run several discussions only when there is nothing to write. This happens for several days or even weeks but I can every day to write a few discussions this is something you should consider before you write. I think you did the right thing. nice day and Merry Christmas!

You are absolutely right and you have all rights as to what to do and what not to.Because it is your friends list and you only can easily choose whom to delete and whom to keep.As an individual every one has choice to do whatever he wants because it is his life and he will think how to enjoy. So don't get disturbed. You are not doing anything unusual or wrong.

I think you did the right thing. People need to be respectful, even online and yes, even on Mylot. I like Mylot alot. :) But I do have a life beyond Mylot. I do earn from other online programs, so Mylot isn't my only life. Perhaps, this is the only thing this 'friend' does. He or She still needs to be respectful towards others and not overwhelm other Mylot members. You did the right thing. You can only handle what you can handle. It is OK to say NO to other people. I wish you all the best on Mylot and in life.