feel lonely

@Sissi321 (130)
China
December 26, 2012 12:54am CST
Recently i feel lonely very much...the feel is stronger than ever before...how should i do?want to get married but also want to find someone suitable...so hard...maybe i haven't forgeton the ex...how should i?
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14 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
How would you get married if you haven't found someone suitable. First thing to do is find someone, get to know the person really well and decide whether you love the person or not. Sometimes being alone causes loneliness so I guess you just need to hang out with friends and go out with them. Enjoy life. ANd for sure you're gonna meet someone to love who will also love you.
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• India
13 Mar 13
Thanks for this discussion, welcome to mylot, so you loved some one earlier and he left you; or you left for some reason? One should be careful in choosing the right person, and stick to him her
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
3 Feb 13
hi, now a days its rally hard to find a person who will be fitted to us or a person that is perfectly for us,and in your situation i think you should go with your friends and find time with them,or focus in your career because maybe love is not yet time for you.
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
hello there! Feeling lonely is normal but we don't have to let everything to be affected. Take some time to relax, invite friends and hang out with them. To lessen the loneliness don't let yourself get alone. Have time to walk for a moment with someone. Hope you can find a lover that could lessen your loneliness.
@Zoe520 (61)
• China
20 Feb 13
Hi,maybe you should do some interest things to make full of yourself and waiting for the suitbale person.actually,i have broke up with my bf for half a month,and i feel lonely as you.but i can't be negative only be more postive.everytime i weep just think of him,i can't forget everything about him.you should take out with your friends and opne your mind to meet more people through your friends?maybe you will find the suitable people that you love and love you among them.best wishes and be happy happy.Move on!!
• United States
9 Mar 13
Do not allow this feelings make you rush into hasty decisions you will regret later. Find some time and hang out with friends, zero your mind till you are able to think without attaching emotions, I'm sure you would have been ready to take up any relationship challenge by then. Move your mind away from you ex and believe you can make it without him. Have this feeling that you had fun while it lasted but the time has gone.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
31 Dec 12
Hey unless and until you find someone, start liking that person, dating with that person, falling in love with that person, proposing that person I am sure till that time you will remain alone and for this you have to move and follow the step to hook someone as your life partner. I am sure as new year has come you too will add new partner in your life. All the best. Happy New Year 2013
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
You should spend more with your friends than sulk in a corner and think about your ex. There is no use in crying over spilled milk. Why not go outside and meet new friends? You really do not have to hurry on love. Love will happen at the right time with the right person.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
26 Dec 12
Hi, You can make full use of your time, make you busy so that you will have little time to think about other sad things. To forget your ex and to find your suitable new friend both need time. DOn't worry, I believe you will find your suitable partner one day. Just cheer up, when you almost forget your ex, you will be full of energy again, then someone will fall in love with you, as people love the one who is energetic. Just my opinion, hope you get rid of your loneliness soon.
• China
29 Dec 12
Time is the cure. You should keep in mind that someone is waiting for you. You will meet in the near future. Do not lose your heart.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
26 Dec 12
It can be just a period, connected with all this holidays, that will soon pass when you will be more busy. Someone suitable will appear for you soon, they always appear. Think it is just a bad time of your life and a great one will follow after.
@Wolf2012 (24)
29 Dec 12
From above we can know that it's EX-missing which make you feel lonely...If it's not that private question, I wanna know if your EX has already get his/her NEW partner,if the answer is YES, it shows that it's impossible for you to get recovery and pls you aslo forget the old days and try to start your new love affairs again... Good luck...
• United States
26 Dec 12
I feel you, get a dog ;)
@misjoseph (162)
29 Dec 12
People usually feel lonely when their happiness is gone, I believe you are feeling lonely because you miss a special someone who use to make you happy... in the past but you have not notice...