Is LOVE enough to make your man stay?
By val1234
@val1234 (59)
Philippines
December 26, 2012 10:13pm CST
It's been really bothering me why in most cases men can't really stay having just one woman in their life. Of course not all men are the same but I have noticed that majority of the men population does this. Whether they are married or in a relationship some men just can't help it. I've seen ladies who's giving their all for their man, just to show that they love them just so they won't leave them. But still these ladies end up crying and begging for their partners to stay faithful. So the question is, what does it take to make your man stay?
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11 responses
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
7 Feb 13
Thanks for sharing.
I am aware of this situation in your country, i was there as visiting professor in 2004, your country has more women, less men, no divorce , hence the men play foul, have more than one women, getting annulment is difficult and costly.
@misjoseph (162)
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29 Dec 12
I believe love is enough to make a relationship. With love couples can do any thing to keep their relationship it is like a power or force and also good communication skills, respect, trust, loyalty etc. is also required...
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
For me, love alone was not enough to make our man stay for the rest of our life, as a women we need to put some extra efforts to make them feel special. Aside from love we need to give our respect, loyalty, honestly and challenges.
@Bluebell18 (636)
• United States
28 Dec 12
Love is scary. Point blank. I'm at my wits end with my bf and he does not want me to leave. He says he loves me and doesn't want the relationship to end. Others are telling me leave. I don't want to end the relationship. Both of us need to change for the better and get on with our lives. Yes, me and him need to change. But we can't do it alone. Maybe love involves us and no one giving their opinions on what they would do 'If I were you...'
Like I said, love is scary.
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
yes of course, LOVE is enough to make your man stay, if he loves you, then it is all it takes for him to stay.
@earlou21 (7)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Love should be enough to make someone stay.. But as time pass, we are getting a bit demanding. We now require loyalty, trust, respect, and many more. Don't they know that when you love, you should give the complete package of being fully in love. If not, then it's not love at all.. Some men can't stick to one woman in their lives if they feel that they lack a certain part that a woman should give them or should let them feel.
@AdalieM (1134)
• United States
27 Dec 12
I agree with the first response. Love is all we need to make somebody stay in a relationship. However, there are times when men want more than just love, but afraid to ask their wives for adventures because they are afraid of getting rejected. Let's not blame everything on the guys, women are often left behind because they don't want to try new things with their partners. I can give you many reason. Not to mention there are times when women give all and men don't have to have anything to do with you. In order to know the answer, is always best to sit down and talk to your man to find out what he wants from the relationship. Talking can help people solve a ton of problems, but do we do it...nope.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
27 Dec 12
I think love is enough,for you care each other and know how to give other enough privite time,i think trust is most important in every cases.For if a man who really wanna go,then it doesn't matter how much a woman loves him.So finding the right person is so important.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
27 Dec 12
It needs to be a big part, of course many people say being friends and understanding ones needs and troubles keeps them together. Lets hope they are right. Also no relationship is perfect. Never happen.......
@GilMegans (241)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Hi val1232, well, love is quite enough but it definitely requires some factors to consider and need to incorporate to achieve total contentment and happiness of a man. Such factors are the following trust, patient, loyalty, sincerity and understanding. The word love can be easily uttered in a form of expressing affection or sharing intimate thoughts and feelings to a partner in either way of verbal or action form of distribution. But how to certainly determine a true love or a fake one? In a relationship, both partners or couples are tasked with the function in providing equal balance of love with each other for a sustainable rapport. One must poses unconditional love, trust and respect because true love is not only driven by one partner hence this should be reciprocated by both partners.
In most cases, they said man is probably the mere reason of blame and culpability whenever a certain relationship broke up. Some rumors often disclosed that mean are not contented, no satisfaction and don't know how to value the love establish by woman. Well, I just want to add some points pertains to this issue for further clarification relative to this matter. This is the most frequent question lodged in the mind of a man, why men are need to find security of love and total happiness? it therefore because when a relationship goes longer and longer the said important secret ingredients of love towards a happy relationship which is comfort, caring, romance and sweetness sometimes turned to cold most especially that a certain partner is too busy or maybe has less interest of lack of attention a reason why most of men giving up to a relationship. There are actually lots of factors that needs to consider but it can be rectified depending on the system taking up by both partners.
Henceforth, I humble suggest that we take a look on both sides of the fence and refrain in blaming in one side as the mere root cause of a certain break up. Designing a good relationship entails big responsibility by both partners and they need to act on this patiently because it definitely needs a long process. True love is not instant acquisition that we just need to put a stone and turn and then...presto...we got it right eventually. If we need that our partner stay with us forevermore, we should take consideration such factors above-mentioned. Thanks for sharing this discussion val.
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
27 Dec 12
What you need is a heart full of love,but only love is not much enough.Fresheness from time to time is a must.Coz a man who has an affair with someone else is that he's tired of facing a same woman without a new conception.Just my two cents.