Funeral on Holiday Season (the worst thing anyone ever wish to attend)

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
December 27, 2012 1:08am CST
Sunday, December 23, 2012 My 20 years old niece died I was on a 3 days out of town convention when I received the news. The worst unexpected news anyone wants to hear on this Holiday Season. Today Thursday, December 27, 2012 The whole family mourns as she lay down in her final resting place. The Family Reunion on December 31, 2012 -will go on - but, it will never be the same again... My niece (who died) and my son hosted the party (Family Reunion)for _yrs already. so long....a sad day... Hello Mylotters jaiho® forever 12-27-2012 3:07pm Thursday
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alottodo
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
28 Dec 12
I Am so sorry for your loss may she rest in peace my prayers are for you and family and also for this person young soul! I know I Am far away and I don't know you but please accept my big hug.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
hello alottodo, Thanks a lot for the hug and sympathy It is highly appreciated :) This is one reason why I share this sad incident here in mylot- because I believe that mylotters and friends' comment will help me a lot. And definitely I am right.
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bhabycatch013
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
hi jai, It is really sad to lost someone specially if it is a family member Holiday will never be the same again. My condolences miss yah
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
Miss yah too I miss our early morning food tips
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myfb2009
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 12
Jai sis, really sorry and sad to hear that you had loss your niece, just a few days ago. Why she have to handle her sadness by using that solution? Don't there is other better solution to help her solve her sad problem? Hope you do take care well. Life must go on nor matter how difficult it may seems.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
dear sis She really loves the guy that much. She can't accept the break- up or for whatever reason. It's so hard to understand my dear...we really cannot believed that she's gone and why she did such a thing. She's a fun loving girl...
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mimiang
@mimiang (3760)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Condolence. It is sad really. I also attended a wake of my friend's mom. It was so sad.While others celebrate, she grieves. Well, God has reasons for all this and trials make people strong.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
hello mimiang, Thanks for the sympathy :) I know there's a reason why God allow this to happen.. :)
LetranKnight25
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Hello Jaiho-sis, I want to express my deepest condolences on your family and to the beautiful lady who departed from this world. well, it's a sad day and no one could ever forget something like that. some how this is something that we could have never avoided, if only there was a real fortune teller in our wakes, we could have prevented this.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
dear LK, Thanks a lot dear brother Her farewell letter never discloses any reason why she did such a shocking move. They only find out about the break up in her mobile phone. In my opinion, she really felt rejected and useless- she was badly hurt- so bad... Knowing her personality, she's not a softie however, when it comes to heart matters- I know we can't judge anyone how strong they are when it comes to love.
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Cutie18f
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
This is indeed a painful Christmas for you and your family. Losing a loved one at such a time when everyone is supposed to be happy is a real challenge. I hope your niece is now resting in peace where she is.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
hello cutie, The worst holiday season for us. Losing someone during this time gives so much pain. While the whole world's rejoicing- we are mourning Thanks for the sympathy :)
MsTickle
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
30 Dec 12
How very sad for you my friend. This is such a terrible loss to your family, such a waste. You speak of your niece as such a joyful person and I hope that over time this is the memory of her that stays with you.
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MsTickle
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
31 Dec 12
You are a very sweet, thoughtful lady...Happy New Year to you and your family too.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
hello MsTickle, Thanks for the sympathy dear Yes, my niece will be remembered that way- as she always is. Happy New Year
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Dec 12
hi jaiho oh thats so sad o nly 20 with her whole life ahead of her but she is gone now.I can imagine this is very painful for you all and I send my sympathy to you all. Losing a young person is always a bit of a shock as we never expect them to die so young.we lost our only daughter when she was just 8 years old from pneumonia. It was so hard for us specially my hubby as she w as daddy's little girl. She would be 53now had she lived.Your family reunion will go on but there will be a empty spot where she should have been.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
dear Hatley, Thanks for your kind words and sympathy dear It's really sad that we lost her on this season- (oh, and the way she leave us) :( Nobody ever understands why she had to do it- but it's done :( Happy New year ma'm
trisha27
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
2 Jan 13
Oh, jai I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I read in a few of the post that she took her life from a broken heart and that is so sad. No one should end their life because of a broken heart, but I guess she could bear to go on. It is so sad to hear about things like this especially around the holidays. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Jan 13
hello trisha, Thanks for the sympathy dear It's really hard to understand why such a lively fun loving girl make such a drastic move. Anyway, it's done, now we're all trying to heal the wound she left us behind. Have a great day
MarksvilleandMe
@Pegasus72 (1898)
•
28 Jan 13
Losing a friend or family memeber is always hard for everyone. Prayers out to your family.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
hello Pegasus, Indeed the last thing we ever think of. Thanks for the kind words and have a great day :)
Pen_Pal777
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
i have met you only here in Mylot, and i am sorry for your loss, you are not even in my friends' list. but i wanted to extend my heartfelt sympathy to you. i have missed somebody so special too this holiday season. i wish you an early recovery, and be happy again. i have to say this also, may you have a happy new year.
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Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
hello Penpal, Thanks for the sympathy, it is highly appreciated I can see that you're a newbie here welcome to mylot