interesting posts? not anymore!
By earlou21
@earlou21 (7)
Philippines
December 27, 2012 2:47pm CST
Why are Facebook status messages becomes uninteresting? As we notice, there are a lot of people posting about what they eat, what they wear, where they are at, what they feel (physically), and even post about their rage to others. Don't they know that it's becoming more senseless? They post something about love but they don't even know what they meant. And some even post status that are from text messages! Will someone let them know that if FB asks for what you are thinking, doesn't mean you have to tell the world what's going on in your mind. Keep some things for yourself that only you knows. Please help those people who didn't understand what Status Messages really are.
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23 responses
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Dec 12
I have closed my personal facebook account for that very reason. I now only use it for promoting my husbands band. Honestly it was during the election that I made the decision to deactivate the account. It seems few and far between that I actually find a post that I enjoy reading. Humans are funny creatures and creatures of habit... It seems that facebook has given many an outlet that is easier than journaling. I find facebook to be a joke at this point but when you are using it as a promotional tool it is much easier to avoid seeing the ridiculousness in people.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
You are right jodylee, I know of quite a few people who use facebook to promote their business. With a good interaction some do get lots of loyal customers this way :)
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@jodylee (946)
• United States
29 Dec 12
It has worked really well for the band and I like to be able to use facebook in that way. I am not the type to write what I am eating or where I am hanging out for the night but it is the only way to get to the almost 5000 people on the bands friends list to let them know where they are playing and when new music and videos are available... very effective!
@rohanmona (159)
• India
28 Dec 12
That could be the reason I rarely visit FB. Well they got nothing great to post so they post such msg. They are in a war or something where they they want to update status frequently or they would be beaten by their other friends who do so. Hope this helps!
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
It has always been a personal choice whether to post or not rohanmona. I am more often a reader than a poster :)
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
I just ignore senseless messages and posts. They are annoying but it's there so I just leave them as they are. Those who posted them enjoyed what they are doing, they're happy about it. Maybe that's their outlet when they are mad or depressed and posting makes them relieved of their distress and loneliness.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
You got that right pahak627. Some people enjoy expressing themselves all out in facebook. As long as they are happy and not offending other people in the process, why not?
@Happielady85 (384)
• United States
28 Dec 12
I agree that Facebook has some ridiculous statements, such as what they had for dinner or where they went for a walk. I think it would be more interesting and worthwhile if people on Facebook would discuss the news. It would be stimulating to hear the various viewpoints on meaningful topics. It would also be meaningful to others if people on Facebook could give valuable suggestions as to the best places to shop and why. People could also mention great places to eat, and describe the menu, prices, and where located. There is so much information that can be given on
Facebook that could be of value to others.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
The fact is what topics are important and meaningful differ from one person to another Happielady85 :)
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
27 Dec 12
Well, that is the reason why I stopped posting a status in my facebook account too... For it really bores me. I was addicted with FB then but when I realize that the majority of facebookers are keeping on posting about unworthy things then got been likes by others then I found it stupid, and most of all I hate the copy-paste status of many... I understand if they post how they are in love or if they are broken hearted or if they are feeling hatred... I understand the status post about what they are feeling but I am not into liking someone's post just to indulge them...
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
Yes lots of my facebook friends post their personal and emotional matters. Some are long and winding. Only those having something that I can learn from get my like :)
@deiusz (193)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
agree with you, lots of people always update their status for what they do and what are they. Even for some status that they've posted will trigger some problem for themselves and family and get more complex on them.
But they still doing this, i dont know what of their brain and still do this. I think FB account is great to share knowledge, the new things about world, and other activities that can help other people.
FB is like paparazi for now what can i saw now, too many words that issued by people that dont know what they published on it.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
I feel the same way you do deiusz, however facebook is still the best place for me to search for my long lost friends.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
28 Dec 12
I know I am probably just as bad about some of my things on facebook as the people you are talking about in this discussion. I do not post anything religous or political on my fb , because there is way to many who do, and then there is all sorts of squabbling about who is right and who is wrong in my opinion it should be each persons choice to pray to whomever they like , and to vote which way they see fit.
I post messages to my kids & family for the most part. Sometimes for friends and i do post pictures I think are amusing especially if the content reminds me of someone. I do get annoyed with some of the people on my list (my cousins for the mot part) a few of them have the worst potty mouths or should I say potty fingers that ever hit a keyboard. Obnoxious and rude. But they are family and to keep up with my Aunt I can't block them.
I for the most part hide on my games in fb while there .
I do know what your saying about status' some of the stuff is just way too far out there.I am happy most of my friends are more mature about their posts.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
I like it when someone on my list posts amusing pictures or great youtube music videos. I always find them entertaining :)
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
28 Dec 12
I agree with that and as a result of that, I delete my facebook account, it was waste of time and nothing else...
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
We can do whatever we think best with our facebook account, including deleting it. I still keep mine, because up to date facebook is the only means I have to look for my long lost friends.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
I see nothing wrong with copying and pasting non abusive information that you think useful. Your good intention is what counts.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
some people are really like that. everyone is different and we cannot really control how people do and say things on facebook. it is kind of annoying sometimes how we see and read posts like this from friends on fb but as for me, i would rather not say everything about me and my life on status updates because some people really don't care that much and you are just revealing things that people on your list, even strangers or not so close to you an opportunity to snoop on you and your life and stuff like that..so it is not worth it anymore.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
You have a valid point jadoixa. It wouldn't be wise to let strangers know everything about you there is to know. It's always good to have something private that only family and close relatives know.
@liezel25 (292)
• Germany
27 Dec 12
I feel the way you feel. It's annoying already to see that they have to make a post of nonsense things about them. I they're just bragging where they at like a restaurant or club. Some were posting how they're mad at someone,hehe.. and what I'm so annoyed is theyre praying in fb,haha ex: oh thank you so much God for letting me pass the exam. Why they can't pray directly, sincerely to God without posting it through fb. That's it.
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
When you post your prayer on facebook, you indirectly make people pray the way you do as they read it. That is a good thing to do liezel25 :)
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
Facebook is one of many ways people communicate with each other. Whether or not we understand the reason is irrelevant.
@kitoplayer (65)
• Argentina
27 Dec 12
I think its because they want to feel accepted and that some people care about them, these things showed by the amount of likes or comments they get in each status. I don't write about that trivial stuff, just some jokes and important things, but i know some people comment the first thing that they see passing by their window...
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
Jokes and important things are good kitoplayer. Trivial things often show the casual and friendly atmosphere of a person though :)
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 12
I agree. Some, however, do copy and paste useful and informative things that I didn't know before. Those posts usually get my like :)
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Dec 12
On the one hand Facebook posts can seem kinda mundane, but on the other hand, they work in my family. There are some family members, for whom Facebook is their only way of keeping up with the rest of the family. I know it sounds totally atrange, but that is how an entire branch of my family communicates.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
28 Dec 12
Not all of us are born to be interesting and much more a writer, so I wouldn't expect much in Facebook. People will do what they like and want to do in it - they have rights, you know.
It is a social networking site and it is just a norm where it allows everyone a time to conduct their own reality show. You may find it uninteresting but there will be others who does not mind especially when they like to keep tabs of one and the other. It is just like everyday life where we ask each other what we are doing and so on.
It is just human here.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
28 Dec 12
I don't know. With the popularity of mobile-devices, Facebook feels more like a 'Captain's Log'-recorder (You know; "Captain's log, stardate 12282013, we beamed down ... a whole MESS o` stuff ")
Whereas Facebook status-updates USED to be mainly for 'events' (ranging from 'watching something on TV' to 'bearing new children'), now they're applicable to ... anything you feel like telling more people than yourself.
I guess stuff people post on Facebook is like the 'butterfly flapping its wings': yeah, maybe it 'starts the hurricane' or whatever; but more-often you let it blow over & don't really notice it.
@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
19 Jan 13
Most people really treat their facebook as their diary wherein they tend to put their lame and sometimes censored feelings and the things they do during the day. Furthermore, some people also uses facebook as a means of criticizing and ruining the images of other people.
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
I feel on you this; sometimes this is quite irritating and annoying. Somehow, such people aren’t that aware on their responsible usage on social media wherein they’ve taken overboard their freedom of expression by posting some unappealing contents over their social media accounts.
It is also in effect of some people who are new to social networking and are very fresh on their discovery in some sort, such people are blinded by the hype of social networking sites wherein they are quite curious that results to posting contents that are quite childish.
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
28 Dec 12
just like here also, there are discussions which may not be interesting. but in every bad side of things there are also the good things, it is the good things that makes us stay.