when your jealous dominate your brain?

You don't have any reason to be jealous if you indeed trust your partner. However, jealousy si a natural feeling of two people in love. Though, when it gets out of hand it is not good anymore. As much as possible, divert your mind to other positive things about your partner when jealousy is slowly creeping up on you.

It is not healthy to be in a relationship with jealousy as being the center of disagreements. If our minds are always polluted with things that may make us jealous, I do not think that we would be able to have any good relationship with anyone. Everyone has the right to be with anybody he chooses to love. But it does not mean that when you become committed to someone is you will stop being an individual yourself.

distract your mind when you realize that you start to think it playing games reading novel talking with your friends or positive thinking is the best way

Then you should end your relationship as soon as possible. Jealous is good when it's in its proportion. But over jealous only make pain in your heart deeper.

Hi adhyz,such occassions never come in our life.As you know,we both have extra marital relations and none of us has a problem with it.My wife keeps chatting with her bfs over her cellphone while I chat with my newly acquainted women friends.I know what she is doing and she knows equally well what I am doing lying by her side.No jealousy.We enjoy with each other and with each other and we both love each other.

It's normal my friend, sometimes everybody feels jealous, but it has to be a reason in it. The first thing that you have to do is to manage of your brain and heart and felling, coz if you don't manage then it will become mess. Don't you know that some times our brain (include control of your felling and heart) is source of hell. We can fell better or worst is just because of our brain. Sometime our brain controlled us and we seem that we cannot act differently from our brain want to. So you have to reorganized our inner brain. That just theoretical my friend. I know it is quiet hard to do especially I you have that kind of problem. I wrote just to share what I did before, and sometimes its work for me. I have a lot of experience at same situation like you. When I did it, its really heavy and difficult, but you have to face it and I hope it will better soon.

Jealousy is excruciating. There's nothing we can do to overcome jealousy. Perhaps, there are some theories that people say, to overcome jealousy. But, when we're jealous, theory or any trick suggested to us, there would be no point. When I was jealous, not much that I do, other than try to sincere. As a woman, I must be sincere, if I knew, my husband was in a relationship with another woman.

Jealousy comes from our ego this is human nature.You have to find it inside of yourself to defeat your ego.

That's crazy and destructive. Let things be and live a happier life. When a person wants to commit a sin, then he will no matter what but he will be answerable to his actions forever. This person will live in guilt and he or she owes you an explanation. But try to relax and be cool about things. Life is too beautiful and too precious to be wasted on negative thoughts like this. We only live once, so live it happily and fully, free from bad thoughts.

umh, i can't keep jealous emotion, i have to ask and know clearly the reason why or what happened, if not i could not do anything else, i will be angry and touchy... I won't make a new relationship when the love is not broken yet...but i need a talk to make clear everything...

I often have such problem. What I usually do is try to seek for answers. Or think of moving away from the person’s life. I know moving away can’t solve it. So sometimes I just think… and make myself busy. Trying not to think that I feel such jealousy. But once I was reassured then all the jealousy slowly vanish.

it is normal to feel it or make it control you some times, but not all time or not hurts any one hwen you feel like that , its ok to feel it though but moderatly is the key between normal and abnormal feelings of jealousy

Do you have ever see your partner doing something unfaithful to you or cheat on you? If you trust your partner, you won't doubt her and trust her but even though so, jealousy is something healthy and common for two people who in love. But if it's indeed get in the way if your daily activity, then it must mean there's something wrong, either you are too jealous or your partner maybe has done something unfaithful to you in the past and you haven't forgive her yet so the jealousy persist.

I think the question you need to ask yourself is why are you feeling jealous? Has your partner done anything that would make you believe he/she would be unfaithful? As part of a good relationship, there must be trust. If you can't trust your partner outside of your sight, then there is something wrong.

distract your mind when you realize that you start to think it playing games reading novel talking with your friends or positive thinking is the best way

I am not a jealous type person that is why I am cheated many times, and the worse part is- those people who cheated me are the ones who are close to me (normally it does) I trust people that I love and that's the reason why I do not feel jealous or think any doubt towards my loved ones. I know a lot of jealous people and too much jealousy often leads to bad things.

It's terrible if this occur with me! I can't imagine what I can do. Maybe I'll talk to my husband Or I'll control his cellphone Or trying to look for the secret...However, you should care yourself first. Don't be sad or worry too much.

hi, if that will happen to me of course i can not concentrate to my work or to my task,because the content of my mind is always about my partner,and for me if that will dominate my brain and my heart my mood will suddenly change to angry or mad for the whole day.

Love and relationship is all about trust. You can not go into a relationship feeling insecure. Insecurity stems from self confidence and purpose. So who ever the person male or female need to work on their self worth. Love themselves first before trying to love someone or for someone to love them.

I ain't a jealous type of woman but I admit that there are certain times that I felt jealousy is eating me... You are right that it is so hard to focus when you feel this green-eyed monster is eating your senses. Well, but this is for some advice to forget jealousy... 1st, relax and stop thinking. Brain dominates our whole body, it is always "mind over body". So if you think something to be fine then it will be fine... 2nd, make yourself busy so that you won't think of anything stupid (although it is hard to do)... 3rd, go out and have some fun with friends for they can give some advices too to clear your mind. 4th, attend some yoga session for they say that it relaxes our mind and soul. 5th, if you can't still let go jealousy out of you then you better seek for professional's advice... LOL.;) I am just making some humor here... Hope you don't mind. :|