What will you do if you fall in love with other guy's wife?
By ajith_kumar
@ajith_kumar (721)
India
December 28, 2012 11:56pm CST
Yes it is happening in one of my friend's life.He fall in love with married girl.At first he feel shy to expose his love to her.Later he said to her.And the interesting thing is that woman is also fall in love with him.Now they both love each other but she love with his husband .And both of them have age difference girl 4 years older than that boy.Is this will end in second marriage?.
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5 responses
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
29 Dec 12
Loving someone is not a bad thing but in general, when a man loves a woman then this word includes some physical desires as well and that's not ethical or logical when a guy falls for a married woman. You ask anyone or think logically, what could be a good end for this?
They should understand that society and the prestige of their family and if they think it's irresistible, this lady should go for divorce and then these two can think from there. 
@ajith_kumar (721)
• India
29 Dec 12
yes divorce is one of the option.But the lady is 4 years older than that guy in our country people never encourage these kind of activities they suffer a lot in future.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
29 Dec 12
I have never fallen in love with a married woman. I don't think that it is fair for my wife as we are supposed to be loyal to each other for marriage. So in my case, I don't think that I will fall in love with someone who is married with a family. Thanks for your discussion. Take care.
@ajith_kumar (721)
• India
29 Dec 12
Off-course many of my friends advised the same thing. But they are still in love let me see what is going to happen.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Dec 12
We do not choose we fall in love witj. wd co hzs a choice in how we hanle the relationships we are innolvd in.
@prashsweet15 (91)
• India
29 Dec 12
Ithink this guy and this married woman are not really in love with each other , otherwise why would she have got married with the man who is her husband ,was it for money or fame or whatever..such people can never be loyal to one person so my advise to your friend is toavoid getting involved insuch type of relationship which will result in breaking a home .
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
29 Dec 12
It is never fair to destroy someone else's love for your own sake. He has chosen to get involved with a married woman. He did not just fall in love, there is no such thing. He got involved with her and her with him. And even if he was 'smitten' with her, he should have some respect for her marriage and back off.
It is a mess and will only get worse. He is not making a wise decision. Either way, he will break his own heart, or break the heart of this woman's husband. And this married woman should know better. Does your friend really want to 'fall in love' with a woman who is willing to cheat on her husband?
