When you talk bad about others...

Instead of chatting with people who are talking about negative things then I really prefer to chat here or post here at mylot because at least I am earning talking with people in different topics. There are other people who are totally happy of talking bad things about other people where in fact what they don't realize is that they are becoming pathetic with themselves already and they hare having much hatred inside their heart.

What is bad talking? I think it's bad too to lie about how someone really is, to pretend that person is a great person but in reality stabbs you in the back. Interesting thought/question is: when do you speak the truth (it's reality/warning) when is it seen as "speaking bad" about someone? Am not talking about gossiping now.. which is a way to make yourself more interesting/putting yourself in the picture (way to ask for attention?) and frequently too a sign of jealousy.

Hi ifa don't you have another better job to do? Of course... You know I am at home... so I make good use of staying at home... I sleep when there is nothing much to do and when I dont sleep... I am busy with many things... playing games, listening to music, watching movies, working, reading. cooking......... [a big list] and in that list there is nothing mentioned about talking bad about others. I dont really talk about others and I think I am more egoistic to talk about me and me only Now, tell me, who has hurt you? Who has been talking bad about you... I will cast some magical spell from here and the one who hurt you will now care for you.... just tell me

Maybe they just jealous about you or something. They must feel that they are not good enough to outdo you.

Let's move on and be the better person by not letting them win and showing them you are not affected by all these trash they say about you. It will piss them off some more if you do that.