my first love "the X that you always remmber"
By farjun
@farjun (135)
Israel
December 29, 2012 7:51am CST
i had a girlfriend about 8 years ago. cute smart- you know she had it all...
since then i had 3-4 more and yet i cant stop thinking that non of the other girls made my feel the same..
is something wrong with me? how do i get over that feeling? and i dont think we are going to get back together... =]
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6 responses
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
29 Dec 12
The first loves are always the crazy ones. Hopefully you find that one person who is rightfully right for you. When she comes into your life then you'll understand why it never worked out for all the others. Good luck and don't worry about it too much. :)
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
29 Dec 12
This person is supposed to wait for us at the end of the twenty something road as some kind of reward for all the loneliness and heartache we experienced. We deserve them. We earned this kind of love. I'm telling you this not because it's true but because it NEEDS to be true. Everyone is entitled to this kind of love, so why not? Have it. It's yours. :)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Dec 12
Yes there is something wrong with you. You live in the past instead of the future. That girl is not the one she was once before. Go on with your life!
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
29 Dec 12
There is some part of me that thinks you are right, but not to worry its never too late for anything, never too late to change or grow. Live in the present, enjoy your life, don't look for love let it come to you. As the saying goes "depression is to live in the past, anxiety is to live in the future, to live in the present is to be at peace." :)
@sajujohn (1005)
• India
29 Dec 12
That is the beauty of first love. It's really really hard to get over it. Somewhere I read, we are so much crazy on our first love and the reason for this is that, that is the only true one, the rest we do or did are just for a fantasy or just for some envy. Even I ma also in the same state but the difference is that after my first love I have never hooked up with an another girl and don't want to be because still I love her that much and cannot even think about any another girl. I know very well that we cannot be together at any cost but still I love her. In my opinion if you want to forget your first love it's easy that you should make your mind and human mind has the ability to do anything what we desire and what we want to.
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
The thing is you just can't get over the girl. Even if a better person comes along you will over look her. until you completely accept that she is gone.
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
29 Dec 12
They say you will always come back to the one you always love, that means someday you will find your back to her and she will find her way back to you. I knew this because it happened to me once but I lost that love again but still I was hoping some day he will find his way back to me.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
For the longest time, i had difficulties of forgetting about my first love, even if I had other boyfriends after. I think that what makes it special is because it was the very first time you made yourself vulnerable and felt great.
Years after, I saw him in Facebook. I got excited and somehow at the back of my mind and at the very corner of my heart (
), I felt that there is still an insy bit of feeling towards him. But it just stops there. Nothing more than that should happen except to just be friends. He was 27 years late!
), I felt that there is still an insy bit of feeling towards him. But it just stops there. Nothing more than that should happen except to just be friends. He was 27 years late!