Is tiny cloths is responsible for worse activity rape ?
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
December 30, 2012 2:46am CST
I heard the senseless words of few politicians and police on TV news they said girls wants to attract the boys so goes with them for night club and wear the tiny cloths. So boys or men are do this worse activity. I want to say If celebrity can wear the tiny dress then why women can wear. I think women should learn martial art so they can face the cruel men with braveness and if required then she can beat them.
What you think Is girls has no right to enjoy their life? If a sister of a brother wear the tiny dress then the brother is not attract in her sister because he feel she is safe because I am a brother of her. Then why the other boys cant feel this every girl is the sister of him. Police ask weird questions to the victim if she goes for launching the FIR if victim will be his daughter then they cant ask the same questions no then why not?
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10 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
30 Dec 12
I think sometimes it can be. Ive seen photos here in mexico where young girls who were raped were wearing next to nothing. Im not saying they deserved to be raped. But they sure didnt need to dress, like that. Have a great day there...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Jan 13
Friend maria and aminu you are saying tiny dresses are responsible but friends when the cruel men do the raped with small girl 5 to 7 years age the small girl doesnt know what is happening with her because not understanding then she wear full dress then how happen this. I think the men cruel mind may be change at any time even the dress is short or long.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
2 Jan 13
Hi Maria, You are very right. Sometimes tiny dresses provoke young guys to rape and if they get those girls alone in the remote areas, they would be raped. Even , at the remote areas, well dressed girls may also be raped. Have a very nice day.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Dec 12
Thanks to share your view yes I need it and this is the big example even wear tiny dress but rape rate is low. How think this thought is fully wrong tiny dress means worse activity is more.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
31 Dec 12
Hi Surekharathi, I think Artauxeo is very right. I have got the opportunity to travel UK, Italy, Germany and Czech republic. In most of these countries ladies and girls wear very short dresses especially in the summer they wear very casual and mini skirts. Sometimes they are seen with almost topless dresses. But the incident of rape is very low those countries. Because they have strong law & law enforcing agencies like police, administration, judicial system etc and people are habituated to see these dresses. Visitors and tourists (who come from Asian and African countries) also do not commit rape there. Because all are afraid of law and law enforcing agencies. But percentage of rape is high in 3rd world countries like India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Myanmar etc where there are some flaws in the laws and as such corrupted officials & miscreants take the benefits of these flaws. That's why miscreants and rapists are reluctant to follow the rules and regulations.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Dec 12
Hi surekha to me nothing justify rape where you wear cloth or not tiny big or small if men can't restrain their urges then there is some thing very wrong with them!young children get raped and so do old women. People who commite this type of crime has to be sick some how.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
30 Dec 12
I think there is something wrong in that MPs thinking and the way he looks at girls that's why he comes up with such outrageous statements, were all the rape victims wearing short skirts and what about people raping 2 year old girls? There is something wrong with the attitude of Indian men and our politicians dont make things any better by making such stupid statements
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Dec 12
Great this is the point if they are saying such then why rapist do the worse activity with small age child. I also feel this statement is stupid and the Prsident's son says the protestation or moracha is the fashion.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Jan 13
Do people have any other option other than going on protests and taking out morchas? Politicians listen only when their peace is threatened or they get directly hurt by some issue, otherwise they are too busy making things more comfortable for themselves and furthering their interests.So no wonder that rapists and criminals think it is safe for them to carry on doing what ever they want...
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Jan 13
You are right sir girls are looking attractive in salwar suit and in saree not necessary if they wear short dresses means looks good. Self control is necessary for men. I observe now cruel men are more than innocent men.
@kunu111185 (211)
• India
30 Dec 12
I don't know why some politician are saying like that.Girls have every right to wear whatever they want.If tiny clothes are responsible then why small girls within 5 to 10 years of age are being assaulted physically, are they wearing tiny clothes ?? You will even get many examples of girls being assaulted wearing Salwar and saris.Clothes don't have any role to play, rather it is the mentality and mindset of a person which drives him to commit something like that.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
30 Dec 12
Yes friend in my mind also got this point why cruel men does rape with small age girl if tiny dress responsible stupid statement. You are absolutely right the men mentality and background is responsible. The main teaching should from house every parents should teach their son how can behave with girl and say a girl may be friend, sister, mother, wife but dont misuse her only for your worse purpose.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
1 Jan 13
A few words of advice from Grandma. If a girl or woman wears the minimum amount of clothing to cover her nakedness, she is doing so to attract males. Please be honest. If you were just giving to a girlfriend's house and didn't expect to see a male older than age 10, how would you dress? I may be a grandma now, but I was a teenager once. I remember doing things for which I am now ashamed. Whether we are willing to admit it or not, women dress to please the men. Dressing to please them is OK, but dressing to arouse them is not. Clebrities dress to attract attention and have to hire bodyguards to protect them from the kind of attention they arouse.
Regarding your question as to why other boys can't act as if ever girl is their sister, would you really want a boy to whom you were attracted to act as if you were his sister? I think not. The answer is to show some restraint in both your dress and your actions.
@arreolabryan (856)
• Philippines
30 Dec 12
People are responsible to if they wear provocative dresses. and they go places they get drunk then get raped.
@aminul842700 (861)
• Dhaka, Bangladesh
31 Dec 12
Rape does not depend on the tiny and mini skirts. A good number of factors are responsible for encouraging rape. In the third world countries, most of the guardians remain worried about the future of their daughters. As such, in many occasions, they remain silent and do not open their mouth and hence do not file the suit against the rapist. Police and judicial systems are also not very free from bribe and negotiation. Moreover, political power and nepotism are also responsible to encourage rape. Rape and eve teasing are not so serious in Europe/western and far east countries. We know western girls and women wear very short dresses to express their physical beauty but they are not affected very much. Because they have strong law and law enforcing agencies. In the recent incident of India, we have come to know that the girl was not short dresses because it is winter now. But she was gang raped and finally a rod was entered into her organ and she was thrown out from the running bus (shame for the humanity). Thank you for initiating such a nice discussion.
@Jennlee3 (292)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 12
Tiny clothes definitely can not be attributed as an excuse to rape women. There is no excuse. The fact of the matter is women should, in theory, be able to walk the streets naked and still men should be able to practice self control and not violate them in the most violent and extreme way possible. Also, at beaches, many women (and men) are in minimal clothing and it's not as though every time people are at the beach, rape occurs. This is because rape and clothing or lack there of have nothing to do with each other. Rape is about power. And trust me, whether a woman is wearing a snowsuit or a bikini, if a man is seeking that power, he will not care what the woman is wearing if she happens to cross his path. Women should be able to express themselves and wear whatever they feel comfortable in. We need to amend the lesson from: 'Don't get raped' to 'Don't Rape'.