You forgot to mention that

@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
December 30, 2012 8:53pm CST
I had contacted a lady about a place to rent, she had a whole 3 bedroom house and said to share with HER (and that she works most of the day). I emailed her, she repeatedly said her. I go to look at the place, I walk up to the front door there is kids toys all over the front deck. I am thinking is this the right house, it was..... she forgot to mention she had a kid, and her boyfriend comes and goes. As soon as she said this, I go you can show me the house, but I am not interested. I will not pay to listen to someone else's kid, now her boyfriend I could probably handle, as I mind my own business. She goes this is why I didn't mention I had a daughter, and my boyfriend comes over a few times a week. Well hiding it will just make you look bad, I apologized and told her no I am not interested. She was begging me, but I told her sorry, but by her emails and ad I assumed she was a single lady.
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• St. Peters, Missouri
31 Dec 12
I wonder if she would have appreciated it if you told her it would just be you and then come moving day, you moved in with someone else with you? Completely unprofessional and unacceptable.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
31 Dec 12
That's what a friend said to me. I declined the offer and wont move in with her.
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• United States
31 Dec 12
She lied by omission. She apparently is having money problems. I wouldn't trust her character just because she tried to slip something by you.
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• United States
31 Dec 12
Yeah... I'd be wondering what else she'd "forget" to tell me.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
31 Dec 12
That's what I thought. Now if she had of said the kid was only there every other weekend, I probably wouldn't have an issue, but the kid is there the entire time but every other weekend.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
I guess she did mention that she had a daughter the other times and could not share the house. Perhaps she should have asked for another woman with a child to share the house with her, and also mention the boyfriend so that people would not assume she is a lesbian. Also you should have mentioned that you prefer sharing with another single lady sans children. I would have been wary of the boyfriend, but that' me.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
Most people would say I have a child, or my none live in boyfriend. That's the last thing I would ask, or even think of to ask. She thought the person would just agree, why would I caare if she is a lesbian?. I don't swing that way nor do I care which way she swings, I would mind my business, and just have a place to live, most likely barely talking to her. But she has a young daughter that isn't even school aged yet.
@shaggin (72183)
• United States
31 Dec 12
Wow that is ridiculous. If you tell someone that it is just you that you are going to be sharing a house with its expected to just be that person and thats it. Her having a child should be one of the first thing she tells people. Not everyone wants to put up with kids all the time.
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
31 Dec 12
Exactly, now if the kid was only there say every other weekend, then I may have taken it. But the kid is there full time and gone every other weekend to the fathers. I am not paying to deal with someone elses kid all the time.
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@MandaLee (3764)
• United States
31 Dec 12
Hi Ricki, That is terrible. The lady should have been honest with you about everything from the beginning. No wonder you aren't interested. I don't blame you. I wouldn't be interested either. Happy New Year!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
Exactly, and I gave her a bad review as well. Pre warning others who go check it out.
@FrugalMommy (1438)
• United States
31 Dec 12
LOL what? Really? Did she think you'd just smile and nod and say "that's okay!" I would've been annoyed that she wasted my time like that. But on the bright side, at least you didn't have that sprung on you after you moved in...
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
31 Dec 12
That is very true, at least I didn't move in to find it out. Now if the kid was only there say every other weekend I wouldn;t have an issue, but she is there all the time.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
31 Dec 12
well at least you found out before signing a lease. My granddaughter rented an apartment in her friend house. She was told that she would have access to the internet through the friend and also cable TV. Well after my granddaughter signed the lease and moved in she was told that the friend/landlord was. canceling bot the internet and ta cable TV. My granddaughters mom and dad just bought her new TV for Christmas. She had been living at home the same as you do. This is her first time living out on her own.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
31 Dec 12
It`s absurd to "forget" to mention something so important when renting or shring a place. One would stat to think aboout what else is she hiding. I would not dare go to a place like that. Besides, in youe cae, moone is kicking you out of your place. So take your time. Luck!
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
31 Dec 12
She probably knows that mentioning her kid would lessen her chances of finding someone to rent the place.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
1 Jan 13
That's what I figured, but how many people would just smile and knod to it.
31 Dec 12
Really? That's ridiculous! Did she really forget to mentioned it?or just try to get a benefit? Omg.sometimes people lies. Have a nice. Day, enjoy happy new year