If you ex called you...

If my ex was to call me, it would be bad. As Ive told him never call me, unless something is wrong with my son. My son has lived the last 6-7 months with his dad in the usa. His dad and I will never speak again.

So why couldn't the other girl he was dating go with him? He had to call the EX? I don't see why? I would not have went especially if he cheated on me. I can be like that. I wonder if it was even a staged thing to get her to meet with him again, some people will do anything to get back with an ex at times.

Well, they do have a child, so are probably in contact occasionally. Maybe he had no one else available to be with him then. Who knows, since you are getting the facts second hand, they may have been seeing each other from time to time.

its really hard to say what you would do, unless your in that situation..i know i use to be the first to give advice and say i would do this or not do this but now in my pwn life i have came against obsticals and now i no longer say that... that would be her choice and i would support her in any decisions she made.. my ex called me out of the blue for the forst time since we have been divorced well actual he texted me and it suprised me.. he was just asking how i was doing because he knew i had been thru alot.. and that text meant alot to me.. wheter i take him back or not.. is not the question.. but i will always be my choice and my friends understand that and stick by me either way.. and that is nice..

For me, I would have to say that it would definitely depend on which ex was to call me. For example, my first boyfriend lost two of his children in a house fire a little bit over two years ago and his third child was hospitalized for a while following the fire as he was badly burned. If he would have called me and asked me to be there for him following that, I would not have hesitated. However, if it was any of my other exes, I wouldn't because I simply don't care about them any more. The thing with the ex that I am referring to is not only is he an ex, he is also one of the friends that I value the most in my life.

This is such a confusing situation. It's not easy to forgive someone who has caused you a lot of pain, let alone cheat on you and left you for another girl but I do know with God's grace and in a matter of time, people will learn to forgive but what's truly difficult is learning how to forget what that person has done to you. I mean yes, when that girl he was dating with went there with him on Christmas day to watch over him at the hospital for sure he had a lot of compassion towards him since no one else was there for him except her. But I am pretty sure as well that doesn't mean the girl is ready to go back to him. The care will always be there when you have a history with a person but loving the person back the way you used to? That seems pretty difficult most especially after that guy has cheated on you. I don't see any point in contacting back with an ex, most especially if you know that your ex cannot be a real friend to you who would want to wish you real happiness when you've found someone else.

Well if he had no one else I would go. Especially if he was the father of my child. I don't know. I mean unless I really had a reason to hate his guts, I'd go and sit with them.

If it was my most recent ex, I would be too busy laughing about his injury. Yes, I am a tad vindictive. However, as far as I'm concerned, he deserves every bad thing that comes to him in life. This girl should have told him to call the ambulance and go by himself to the hospital. Actually, the message should have been a tad more colorful than that...