I can't be with you

@meipan (746)
Philippines
January 1, 2013 6:50am CST
"I Can't be with you as your boyfriend but that doesn't mean that I don't love you.." - Tong of The Love of Siam (Thai MOvie) I didn't imagine that the last words of Tong to Mew was really a bitter-sweet message... I'd hurt but at the same time happy for Mew.. co'z eventhough the world against their relationship, atleast he know that the love of Tong for him was true and forever...
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Some people comes to our life as someone special but we can never make them as our boyfriend but we know in ourself that they felt something special for us. Only both understand what they got and in which other people will never understand it.
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@meipan (746)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
yeah.. only the both of them will understand that.. like mew's questioned to tong... " do you wanna say something after hearing the song?" and poof! all bounderies were crossed by two lovers that only felt by that time was expressed their feelings... tell me why does action speaks louder than words??? i just can't explain.. though it's simple to understand by other people, why does i'm confused, yet touched by others stories...
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• Philippines
1 Jan 13
Those are sad words. I almost said the same words to someone I've loved then. I had to take care of my family back then. We really need to pay the bills so I had to focus on work and family responsibilities. This made me pick a choice -- girlfriend or family. I had to choose family ultimately since she forced me to make a decision. I was too young to make a decision about living in with someone.
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@meipan (746)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
then, what happened to her now? is she's happy? contented? or you don't know what happened to her after breaking up??? what do you feel while saying those words? how about after saying those words? still hurts? or you made a right decisions? i wanted to know.. please let me know...
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• Philippines
2 Jan 13
We were sad for a while, and she found someone new over the course of time. I also found someone else so everything went okay for the both of us individually. When I reminisce, though, I could still feel how happy we were before we parted ways. It's really different if you really love someone. Even the slightest fold on her face when she smiles will register in your mind.
• Philippines
6 Jan 13
That's unfortunate. I'm not that hopeless romantic to kill myself just because I'm not permitted to be with her. I can still find the peace if mind to get my act up and move on.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
1 Jan 13
That would be a very sad experience. After all we hope that our love will allow us to be with someone. That our love and their love will allow for us to spend our lives together. It would be good to know that the person loves us but very sad to hear that the person we love can't be with us. It would be hard to adjust to that type of comment to move forward.
@meipan (746)
• Philippines
1 Jan 13
i put myself in mew's shoes after hearing of what tong said.. i didn't do anything but cry.. it hurts me... until now... if it happens to me, i think, all i can do is beg... and pray...
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@meipan (746)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
maybe, god has a better way but we don't understand that, that's why it hurts...
• United States
22 Jan 13
Yeah my heart goes out to you. It is excruitingly difficult when we can't be with the person we love at a certain point. I have experienced that in the past and it was hard to handle. I hope that you are slowly starting to do better. It can take a lot of time to cope with these types of situations.