Stay friends with a taken guy or confess love?

Let' see....this guy obviously likes you as a friend and she has clearly told you that he has a girlfriend and they are okay. So the reason why she hangs out with you is either, he sees you as one great buddy or wants to flirt as well. If I were you, control whatever feelings you have for him. You must just end up falling in love with him and destroy his relationship with the girl.

Hi ssgarcia! I sure know how it feels to be in a situation such as this, the thing is, you have fallen for him and that makes you feel really awkward. I too have had a guy friend and we talk for hours everyday and he would wake me up as well in the morning just to let me hear his new songs discovery. I think there is really nothing wrong with it but then he too has a girlfriend and that was crystal clear to me. I never felt anything more than a frienship kind of love for him too. I think you do need to re-assess your feelings. You could really be just too attached and you might actually just feel that youlove or like him but it could also be because you both talk too much and spend so many things and time together. This will pass, as it has with me and my bestfriend. After college, we have had a lot on our sleeves, the talk on the phone became rare, the phone calls become sms messages, and that too became rare. Just enjoy this time, enjoy his company and when a guy comes along and keeps you thinking of him, i would say you will probably shift your attention to him. It is always nice to have a guy best friend and i hope you can keep it at that. I am sure that your friend is not taking advantage of your friendship as well as he knows you like him.

Thanks a ton for sharing your discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i know how it feels like when u love someone who is already committed before. I think u have done the right thing by confessing your love to him and as u have said that u should not speak the same things again and i think that would be correct as of now. U should not try to say the same things again and again otherwise he would distance from u in the future. What say?

Well for me, I guess you've made the right thing. Because if you keep on telling him that you really love him, the tendency is, he might go in a relationship with you in secret which is bad, or he'll break up with his girlfriend and go in to a relationship with you which will be then followed with bad rumors and it will bad for your image, or he'll stay away from you which would be painful for you. Just keep on being friends and enjoy life, your true love will come and I'm sure it's just somewhere around you.