He relax and she does all the hard work

Maybe that guy is extreme traditionalists. I mean if a guy is too much traditional according to his belief like a woman should do all the work because that is a job's woman, then it might the reason why he acts that way.

If he respected her, he would be helping with the dishes and the children. If he valued his family, he would make a point of going out on a family outing to somewhere inexpensive but fun. Of course, it is this woman who has to be the one to stand up to him and say that things are not okay like that. She has to have enough self-respect to demand that he be a partner in their relationship and an engaged and active father to their children.

That sort of sounds like my brother's relationship with his wife except in his situation the tables are turned. Both my brother and his wife work outside the house, but his wife is known to take at least two days off of work every month while my brother is typically lucky to have one day off work each week. In addition to his working with mandatory overtime, she also expects him to cook and do the laundry while also taking care of their three daughters. It is pathetic if you ask me.

Hi Dee, I feel sorry for the wife. I mean, he was on leave the whole time...so she should definitely help his wife with all the chores... My dad is sometimes lazy but there would be times that he would just cook something for us. And yeah, I forgot about his daily chores on sweeping our backyard. I guess, my dad still helps my mom with the chores..And me and my sisters are also helping our mom. Is it from your experience?

He just treats her as a baby-sister I think.But when we accuse him,we need to think about the problem of his wife.She is willing to be a housekeeper than a wife.She indulges him too much so that he always thinks that it is a matter of course.

it happens all the time, when there are lazy type of man in a relationship... a man should me hard working and should be willing to help in the household.... I really feel sorry for this woman as well...

Some husband/guy are really inconsiderate when it comes to their partners. As if their wife/partners are slaves who should do all the things for them. I pity the wife for having an inconsiderate husband.

Sounds like he doesn't consider his wife's feelings. That guy should at least do the dishes and clean up if he doesn't know how to help her cook. I always do at least that much for my mother (I do not have a family of my own yet, so I spend holidays with my parents).

a sort of same story as mine. I serve aS a mother and father of my daughter.but I still find time to go outside and eat.The father of my daughter is very lazy and whenever I am trying to correct him it only leads in beating me. He is opposite of mine.

Yes, the woman is so poor, she needs to do everything in the house, from cooing to washing, but the man even doesn't give her a hand. I think that if the wife cooks the meal, then the husband should clean the bowls and kitchen, it is fair.