Have you ever met someone who's Fake and a LIAR?
By xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
China
January 2, 2013 11:27pm CST
I'm not a people person, I don't easily make friends and trust the person right away. I have less than 10 friends which i call my "FRIEND". Anyway, I met a person due to my chosen carrier and gave that person a chance to know more. This person is friendly, proper and "very entertaining" until she entertain my own business.
She underground me and start messing with my life. She loves to create stories in a safe way, it was like a Cinderella story, she's Cinderella and i'm her step sister. what the...! Until now she mingles with them and try to poison their brain. I can't stop her to penetrate more into their lives since she find ways to be with them and i have no control over that. It's their choice.
I shot my mouth and din't tell anything that will destroy her good image to them. Any advice on how to manage this situation without hurting someone? Have you ever encounters someone like her? any experience similar to this?
She underground me and start messing with my life. She loves to create stories in a safe way, it was like a Cinderella story, she's Cinderella and i'm her step sister. what the...! Until now she mingles with them and try to poison their brain. I can't stop her to penetrate more into their lives since she find ways to be with them and i have no control over that. It's their choice.
I shot my mouth and din't tell anything that will destroy her good image to them. Any advice on how to manage this situation without hurting someone? Have you ever encounters someone like her? any experience similar to this?1 person likes this
10 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
I did have an experience with such person. And at first, I thought she was a great person. I even treated her as my own sister. But as the days pass, I have noticed changes in her. Until have proven that she was just using me. And so, I turned my back on her.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
3 Jan 13
Exactly the same situation, she also used me! She use her charm and charisma to manipulate people and eventually attack you without noticing it. She's a slime-ball liar. And i regret those day i met her gave her a second chance. I should listen to my instinct! What i hate most is people don't actually notice her that she's exaggerating things and almost her stories are big lies.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Jan 13
I already dumped her and told everything i don't like about her but still she's always around, as if no confrontation happened. She loves to invite her self every time me and my friends go out, she's always around. She find ways to be with us.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Jan 13
I try to be friendly to everybody, especially to those who really try to reach out. The minute I notice something odd about that person, I might feel kinda turned off, but still I give another chance to redeem himself. But if after that chance and he still continues to be that kind of person, well, it is ADIOS, Amigo! (Goodbye, friend)
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
3 Jan 13
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well most of the time i have encountered fake people in my life and that is the reason why i have started to trust people very less these days. I think u should stay away from that girl as she is not your type and let her continue whatever she is doing, later on she will repent her mistakes and will get a good lesson in the end. Just like u even i have few friends as i find most of them selfish and self centered.
What say?
@simonelee (2715)
• China
3 Jan 13
As i observed people from from older generation and now are big different and i guess they are influenced by technologies or what so ever affect their personality. We rarely meet someone who is true and value friendships. I already ejected her before the year ends and tried to move on and ignore all her actions. This person is very eager to manipulate everyone that connects me. Every night i pray her that soon she'll realize her mistakes and stop doing bad things to others and also hoping that they won't buy her stories.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
3 Jan 13
Yes absolutely, even i see such people very rarely who value relationships more than anything. Every one wants to enjoy and at the same time continue with the relationships, besides u have done the right thing and ignore her and u continue with your life and i am sure she will realize what she is up to very soon.
What say?
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Jan 13
I just hope our path won't cross and put me in a situation that will make make me look like i'm the bad one. She's good in pretending. Anyway, i hope this years is a good start for me.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
3 Jan 13
Yep, a new guy was hired were I used to work. He was in a different group than I was in but he and his wife got an apartment in the same complex where I lived. It wasn't long before I learned he was cheating on his wife. He brown nosed with the department head and became the supervisor of his group when the old one left. The girl I was dating was in the group he was in and at one point he let it slip to her that he had faked the data for his dissertation to get his Ph.D. At another time he was supposedly organizing a ski trip and had asked a young pretty intern to go on the trip while he secretly from her was working to keep anyone else from going so it would just be the two of them; he was still married at the time. After I left the company I learned that he had transferred to another area and was finally caught doing something wrong and was fired and escorted off the property.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Jan 13
Glad mine was not worst.
If I'm in the situation definitely gone crazy. I hope in the future i won't meet someone like him.
If I'm in the situation definitely gone crazy. I hope in the future i won't meet someone like him.
@Archie0 (5652)
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3 Jan 13
Hi simonelee. I believe relations are like a glass mirror. They are very delicate to handle and creepy to perform with. I have had many relationships with many people around the world, i love making friendships but yes i have broken them easily too. There are 9 people out of ten who will break your trust, there are countless bunch of people who will gossip about you at your back and hurt you. I think the only way to heal yourself is to be wise the second time you make a same relation with anyone. Make relations because they are life, but remember don't let them ruin your living. happy living. 
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Jan 13
Now, for this new year i should trust my instinct. Instinct never go wrong, that's what i realized. Yeah, life must go on and should never stop making new relationship with others. I should be more extra careful and observant.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 13
I Have a friend who is a gambler. He likes to borrow money and gamble. In fact he is an incorrigible gamble. All gamblers are liars.
@ashu770 (36)
• India
3 Jan 13
i met many person who are fake and liars. i stay in hostel so i daily have encounter with such people. to tackle them is really tough job. m very socializing person so get a chance to meet fake and liar person almost daily.
i still remember one incident in second year of my graduation,my room mate in beginning she was very friendly and caring towards me. but as the time passed,i got to see her true colors. she started back biting me in front of my friends as a result of which my all friends were her friends. she started controlling my life an interfering too. my life became hell.
but in end god is great my friends realized how fake and liar she is. my all friends were my friends again. if anyone face such problem leave it to God by time true nature is revealed.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
12 Jan 13
I'll take your advice. I hope soon everything will be alright. I've been praying so hard that she will leave or vanish forever and in time her true color will reveal without cause so much damage. I don't understand why such people love to pull down others for them to stand out.
I've been praying so hard that she will leave or vanish forever and in time her true color will reveal without cause so much damage. I don't understand why such people love to pull down others for them to stand out.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
3 Jan 13
I work with a few people who are like this. You get to know them, they will trust you, even want to be friends, but don't get on their Bad side, and especially because of color, sometimes that will become an issue as well, and then it becomes all about them, and I especially cannot relate, and everyone should feel Sorry and bow down and believe them. Makes me SICK.
People like this need to wake up and realize the world does not and never will just revolve around them. They somehow need a real wake up call to show them how bad they are to others before something happens and it is too late.
@celticeagle (166910)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Jan 13
I am not a people person either and I don't make freinds easily. I am picky and go for quality not quantity. I have one person I can call my friend. That's my BFF that I have known for over 45 years. I had one other one that I thought was a good friend and she betrayed me. Cinderella and stepsister, huh? Interesting.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
3 Jan 13
There are so many instances where we ourself become liar or fake, depending on situations. It is a natural law that we can be 100% pure and genuine as our surroundings are based in such situations. I have a lots of friends but do not have much of interactions. Even our close or intimate friends may be having good or bad habits because it is difficult to live here without saying lies or being fake. It doesn't mean that we would be always in such a way. In many business, we are forced to say lies and it is part of our business. Similarly, people do fake things, docs, etc. to passify the situations. Anyway, when it comes to our onw choice and matter of friendship better to know how the person with whom we got friendship.
