The costs for holding a marriage

China
January 4, 2013 12:19am CST
In recently,it is more and more difficult for a male to get a love and a marriage. A girl reaches the age of talking marriage requires that the boy must own a big house decorated beautiful which may be assessed more than 1,000,000RMB and a car valued more than 150,000RMB, some other expensive jewelries which valued more than 20,000RMB besides the fees for purchasing the dresses and commodities as well as for reserving a hotel for holding the marriage.Then you can calculate that the total costs for holding a marriage activity is more than 1,300,000RMB.What a pity for a family to have a boy baby! How can a family to endure such heavy burden? I feel lucky that I am a girl and my little brother have marriaged, otherwise I cannot image my parents will be baffled with the problem. How is the situation in your country? I don't hope it is so terrible as the same as our country.
5 responses
@urbandekay (18278)
4 Jan 13
Such girls are wh0res and there are some girls that are wh0res everywhere all the best, urban
• China
4 Jan 13
In fact,I am worried about the young boys. Girls need pay nothing for the marriage but boys must pay so much for it.It is unfair.
@urbandekay (18278)
4 Jan 13
Indeed all the best, urban
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
Yup! There are such culture which need to pay something for the family of the girl before the marriage being consummated.
• China
5 Jan 13
Your understanding is exactly right.I hope this situation only exist in our country.
@farjun (135)
• Israel
4 Jan 13
well.. i cant say i have moneys probloms but still.. it is well know that holding a household isnt cheep-just stick to a plan that you and your partner agree on and save your money
• China
5 Jan 13
the key problem is that who is your partner.I have recommeded a few girls to my husband's little brother, each girl requested that many many criterias, everyone would like to enjoy the life.no one is willing to share your joys and sarrows.I do not know when girls have changed like this?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
Getting married nowadyas could be really expensive. But here in our country, people have the option to get a civil marriage instead. And owning a house isn't really needed. But atleast a rented apartment s sufficient for a newly wed if their budget allows them. But they can always stay with either of their parent's homes for the meantime.
• China
4 Jan 13
In our country, owning a house is the most necessary for a new couple,because the price of a house is much too high,and girl's parents do not hope their daughter will struggle for a house after the marriage. and the house I metioned must be in the city not in the village.
4 Jan 13
Womans are always talking about fair equality, but there's no such thing in one normal teenage relationship.I am the one who paid the drinks, the enter, the taxi, the dinner and many more.Sometimes i just have no enough money to be in a relationship.I don't wanna think what will be when i get into marriage...
• China
5 Jan 13
yes, the price of stuff is growing sharply, except the level of our salary.To be a man, you should pay for drinks ,the dinner ,the movie ticket,and the gifts and so on.What is more worse,if the lover say good-bye to you, everything you had done for her is of no avail.How pain it will be hurt.