Who do you go to when you have to solve a problem or share something?

I never went to my mom to talk about matters of the heart. Not even when I was really dealing with issues in my marriage. I just feel that nobody can really solve my problem but myself. It should be my decision...my choice. And all that I can ask from them is too support me for whatever decisions that I make.

I go to a friend of mine called george I think hes the wize guy and doesnt make you feel bad at what your doing such as "dont do it !! its bad their gonna laugh on you real hard" he doesnt say that he is always nice to most people and even the thing your asking him about if he thinks its bad for me he tell me to leave it in a polite way without hurting my feeling and every body likes him !!

As much as possible I keep a few friends only. They are the ones I grew up with or have spend almost my entire lifetime with. These people below know me to bits. I don't have to pretend or adjust. They would automatically know if I'm going something or not. I always have this special bond with my closest friends. So I feel comfortable discussing anything under the sun with them. The good thing about it is that they don't post judgments. The perfectly understand why I had to take certain actions regarding my concerns or issues. They're the ones I'm sure will go with me no matter how hard the ride gets. On the other hand, there are instances where I try to confide to a stranger. I dunno how you guys see this but telling someone you don't know at all about your deepest secret/s helps a lot. You get a totally different perspective other than the usual ideologies you get from your dear friends. So yeah, talking to a total stranger is another option to consider... :D

Yes, I understand your situation. I have one friend who knows almost all of my life stories and problems. Though, I consider my mom as my best friend, still I can not open everything for her especially my love life too. There are some off the limit issues that she should not know. lol. I have one friend and she understands me. She is really there for me and listens no matter what.

Hi! I share most of my little problems to my true friends. But when I have bigger serious problems, I share and ask help from my parents and my older siblings. It's actually good to share our problems or anything that is bothering us but we have to be sure that we are sharing it to the right and trusted person. When I encounter difficulties in my life, I try to solve it first myslef because I don't want to bother other people, even my friends.

I share my problems with my wife. Most of the times, I just need to air my frustrations and rant about it where my wife listens and provide her thoughts. Other times, I turn to blogging as my catharsis.

Much of the time, I come to Mylot although I don't actually share everything. But Mylot is a good place to air out our grievances. LOL

I have no one to open up too. The only thing that I trust is my blog and I write it on my own language, but still my name is remain hidden. I also open up to God because God understand me what I've been through all my life.

I don't tell others about my problem except for technical part or things that involved procedures then I will asked for others opinions especially those who have experience on it. If its about feelings or things I should decide then I will just solve it myself as for me no one will understand it.(^^)

Usually, my 'diary' (a blog, here on myLot, or just talking to myself); because it's usually 'a problem I have with the world not loving me right.'

thats great for sharing each other with parents, friends añd other trusthy person about anything. there's a time we can share our life and there's a time we can not, meet the condition with our trusthy person by age may be, because our age is different and different too how to think, the way of think. when different generation we have to try how do they think, why they said that. it's good if talked with the same generation with us. if we think about A is bad, may our partner will say the same thongs but may be different if we talked with the older one, they have more experience.

Each of us have different ways in opening our problems to other people or consulting other people. The best approach varies depending on the status of individual person, a single or married person. For me, for married person, primarily the best person to consult with is your wife or your husband. There are things that only you and your partner have to consider in making decisions which may affect or may have impact on the family lives and plans. For single individuals, consulting your friends is helpful but still the best to consult are your parents.

Hey there! I don't think there is one such person that I can fall back on. My boyfriend comes close but I'm sure I can't confide everything in him. I guess mom is always the other strongest support system I have. In all honesty, it's best to have a few people rather than just one individual to fall back on when you're low or in need. A group hug is always welcome =)