Happy ending doesn't always mean "Marriage" (in the end)

for me, anything that ends is never happy, anything that comes to an end is always sad.

Jane beti Here marriages are usually arranged, our Hindu marriages are supposed to be for 7 births, divorce is rare, there is nothing like annulment; my faith is marriages DON'T END, HOW CAN A MARRIAGE HAVE HAPPY ENDING?[i][/i] YES, True love gives eternal security without material expectation in return--I agree. Honestly speaking i am unable to get highly philosophical topics Hugs from Dada

I totally agree with you, Jaiho! The most important thing in life should not be dependent on other's existence but with the inner peace that you have.

Is that you in your profile picture, jaiho? Well, that's true. A couple can have a happy ending even if they aren't married. What matters that they love and understand each other. That would make them happy.

Hi jai That's true... we cannot consider that once couples get married, they're life will be perfect and happy. Coz there were a lot who got themselves locked in an unhappy marriage. What's really important is someone who will love you truly and unconditionally.

Yeah! I'll Agree to that, Life never have ends guys. we can't say happy ending or bad ending. Problems will always come to us as a challenge to us and become stronger in our daily life. Without any it, I bet our life is boring. Getting married is a huge decision. Its not easy as you may think as it is. Having a family needs more responsibilities. Are you responsible enough? Are you ready to pay your own bills? Are you ready to have kids? Do you have enough money to support your family? Are you a problem solver? These are the question that you should ask to yourself before getting married.

Well, it is true with many relationships, Marriage will not always guarantee it will last, even in the Best of relationships. A marriage is not something though people should take lightly as well. A Marriage is something people need to work on to keep it going, but many times it can be a happy ending. Some people have Happy endings who are single forever, so really what you want to be your happy ending in life is what you want it to be. And continue to work hard at it to keep it there.

Somehow I Just Knew that I would have to choose love Or marriage back when I was about 13. I chose and Choose love. I'm living my happily ever after. A guy has found me who loves me As Is! He doesn't have to marry me to make me into whatever he thinks I'll be. I don't have to transform into a wife , whatever that means. We will Never marry and yet we are One.

I agree that a happy ending doesn`t mean marriage and viceversa. But I see marriage as security as a whole and not material security. There are many reasons why you can lose your money. But mutual respect and patience with each other are, as I see it, more valuable and it lasts more.

HI sis!! In not that real world, they use that phrase simply just to end the story while in our real world like you said it is not always happy.If they put an effort to be happy I believe they will have happy ending before and after marriage- but its so rare~~(^^)

Hi Jaiho Ha ha.. Yes Surely it doesn't mean happy ending each time. As far I have heard experience of many, real story jut begins after the marriage. Then people have to face those real and sometime scary challenges. Lol

I agree with you - But I want to get married. It's every girl's dream to walk in the aisle wearing a princess-like gown.

hi jai, In this world we can't guarantee that everything has a happy ending There are people who are not married but they are happy there are married ones but got separated lately miss yah

jaiho2009 Happy endings certainly mean different things to different people...lol one can even get rid of someone they were fooled by and that would be a happy ending for them Men might say "dodged the bullet' women need their own saying...

At the end of the day nothing is secure and nothing is for ever to me all depend on the couple if there is real love then love may secure happiness and contentment but that some times is not easy to achieve. Marriage in it self is not a happy ending as the couple still have to go through their married life, have children and so on and then cope with every day life if they can survive all this and they grow old together then I would say they had a happy ending!

well said true love is eternal and holds more value that anyone would ideally expect and it means that they are in love and expressing themselves in the longer run and version of the game for sure

Hi jaiho2009, I certainly agree with you on this. Most of my friends from high school used to make fun of me during reunions because I am the only person in our batch who is not yet married. I have a boyfriend but I know that I am not yet ready to enter the bind of marriage, and we are both cool with that. Last year we had yet another reunion and finally they have stopped making fun of me because while I am still with my boyfriend, most of them have already broken up with their husbands and are now dealing with the hassle of getting an annulment.

Jai, you are right, not all the love or marriages end with a happy life, as you mentioned marriage will give social security. Not all the persons blessed to marry their beloved persons, some people are in need to marry another person due to various reasons and they are just living with their partner with half heart without the eternal security.

well said, dont need it to end in a happy ending and be married. We can become friends for life without getting married. Have a great day there....

Yes, you have given a nice discussion. I agree with you happy ending always doesn't mean marriage, after marriage also if happiness is not there whats the use, what important is love between partners and trust on each other, if love and trust is there than happy ending will come automatically.