think about new baby..
By aravocal
@aravocal (54)
Philippines
January 5, 2013 2:34am CST
hi all my friends, i am a 21 year old mother in a 6months old baby, i am not sure if its positive or negative that i am pregnant again. i don't want to go to the doctor to check it or buy some pregnancy test, its okay with me and with my husband if we have a baby again.
but i am not yet ready to have a baby again, i'm scared of giving birth to another one baby, but if its the give by GOD we accept it.
if you were in my situation what is your decision to do?
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3 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 13
I had my first baby born when I was 22 years old. I didn't have my second baby until he was 12 years old. My second baby was born when I was 34 years old and amazingly my daughter was born when I was 36 years old. It is wonderful to have two children close in age. I regret having such a big age gap between my first two kids.
I was scared to give birth to my second baby however I need not have worried. His birth was quick and easy. My daughter's birth was more like my first baby's birth. One of my friends had a baby girl born in May 2007 and a baby boy born in May 2008. Your six month old baby looks ever so sweet.
If I was in your situation I would buy a home pregnancy test. Good luck.
@aravocal (54)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
i use it already and the confirmation was positive, i tell it to my husband and i think it is our blessing so i realize i need to take care for my second baby, my husband said not all women can give a baby to their husband so we are lucky one to have a children. thank you
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 13
Congratulations. 
I am so pleased you got the courage to take a home pregnancy test.
Yes, you are so lucky as not every lady can get pregnant. Life is strange sometimes. A lady I know tried to get pregnant for 8 years and then she gave up. Amazingly then she got pregnant with twin boys.
I hope your pregnancy is happy and healthy. Always the second birth is easier than the first. The body has been through labor before so it knows what to do.
I am so pleased you got the courage to take a home pregnancy test.
Yes, you are so lucky as not every lady can get pregnant. Life is strange sometimes. A lady I know tried to get pregnant for 8 years and then she gave up. Amazingly then she got pregnant with twin boys.
I hope your pregnancy is happy and healthy. Always the second birth is easier than the first. The body has been through labor before so it knows what to do.
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
9 Jan 13
I've heard that the delivering of a second baby is easier than the first. If you take really good care of your health, it might help too.
Coconut oil is good for the heart and fresh vegetables and fruit of all kinds too. If you also eat some fermented food, you will have a better digestion now, and the child will be healthier too.
One of my friends said that she rather takes care of two children than one, as they have good company from each other and can play together. 
@sunshinesophie (794)
• China
5 Jan 13
Hi,first of all,congratulations.The baby of your profile looks cute and lovely.I think you should love him very much.
Well,it depends on your financial burden of your family.And also if you have enough energy and time,it should be ok to welcome another new baby.
Try to discuss with your husband carefully and make a quick decision.You know about it.Best wishes.
@aravocal (54)
• Philippines
5 Jan 13
hi thanks.
we already talk about it. but like me he doesn't know what should be the right things to do with this. he said that it is my decision if i can do birth with another baby, but i didn't know yet what will i do is this kind of situation.
but if the baby is for us we will accepting it with our whole-heart.
thank you for your comment
