What words or manner of speaking would you like to see gone?
By dragon54u
@dragon54u (31634)
United States
January 5, 2013 11:12am CST
Lake Superior State University has released its list of words banned in 2013. Some of them are understandable, like "fiscal cliff", "trending", and "spoiler alert".
But I would like to ban something else, the habit of speaking in the interrogatory. We have all heard it--"Do I think that it is an awful thing? Yes, I do!" That just drives me BONKERS!!!! It seems like even ordinary people on the street are speaking in questions and answering those same questions as a way of making a statement. This technique used to be used infrequently to make a point dramatic but now it is just maddening, at least to me.
Is there any way of speaking or any words that you would like to see people stop using in 2013?
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18 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
5 Jan 13
very interesting, never really thought about this.. id say id like to see all bad language words gone/ You know the ones.. the ones we seem to hear when people are mad or fighting. I really hate hearing all of them...
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
I didn't mind when I was younger, although my mother always told me that people who use such words don't have the intelligence to express themselves properly. I think it's laziness, too.
We hear words like that all over the television, in the movies, in books, newspapers and other outlets. It's as if they are part of everyday language and it's really sad.
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@echoforever (5180)
• United States
6 Jan 13
I too don't like bad language though I use it. I was doing quite well for awhile. Though when I'm angry I can't think fast enough to come up with alternatives for those to express how I feel. Laziness is also a factor I guess.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 13
One word in particular I definitely want to see gone, and I blame text speak for it, instead of saying 'later on' some people can be heard saying 'laters or laterz' there isn't such a word as laters or laterz, it really grates on me, and now I have started hearing it on television, in particular, soaps. Is it really necessary to abbreviate words to make them sound cool? Ooops should that be 'kewl'
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
I haven't heard that one but it would get old very quickly! The prevalence of of text-speak generally irritates me, particularly when people write "u" rather than "you" and other abbreviations. In fact, the entire English language is deteriorating from texting, it seems.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
5 Jan 13
I would like to see all taking the Lord's name in vain gone. I would also like to make it illegal to have words that make something that is illegal fine and good. Other than that, I think political correctness has gone too far and assuming some words have a disgusting meaning. For instance, here we can no longer use the shortened form of Richard, and I would not be surprised that in stead of saying pots and pans, we will be relegated into saying metal containers with handles that sit on the stove.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
7 Jan 13
It seems as if the wicked people have decided that we should not offend them. I think with the Lord's Name in vain, it is not honoring God and not giving Him the glory. The actions of theft, and the clergyman who joins a holy order in order to get more boys to molest is the result, not the start of taking the Lord's name in vain as if cursing and other verbal insults. After all, once one blasphemes God, it is easier to have the incentive of doing these other things.
Maybe we should have those political correctors who want to change "Deck the Halls" to not make those weak cry baby homosexuals to feel better, write every carol out by hand very neatly of every Carol book. I am sure there are thousands or rather millions of them to go around. Aren't I mean?
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
PC can be pretty ridiculous these days. I heard this last Christmas season that children singing "Deck the Halls" had to say "don we now our warm apparel" instead of "don we now our gay apparel". Absolutely insane!
I would also like to see people quit taking the Lord's name in vain but that extends so much further than words. For example, when a man of the cloth molests a child that is taking the Lord's name in vain as he is supposed to represent God. People who steal money from charities are also guilty of taking His name in vain as they are supposedly doing the Lord's work. But to your point, yes, I would love to see those curse words gone. It cheapens us as human beings and showcases our lack of gratitude and intelligence.
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@AmbiePam (93983)
• United States
6 Jan 13
I was thinking about that the other day! I really am tired of people doing that. I'm sure I do it and don't realize it, but it certainly is something I rarely do, if at all. Another thing that bothers me is when people call things sexy that have nothing to do with being sexy. Like on ESPN an analyst will say for instance, "Picking the Packers is a sexy pick." Or, "I know going with the Colts isn't sexy, but I'm going with them." I hate that!
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@BarBaraPrz (47683)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
6 Jan 13
"At this moment", "at this time" or even just plain old "now"...
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
My mother used to say the exact same thing! "Your children are not baby goats!" I also agree with "at this point in time". It makes me think that they are trying to sound grander and more articulate than they actually are.
I also think 24/7 has run its course even though I'm guilty of using it occasionally.
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@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
6 Jan 13
I couldn't think of any Dragon. I think I like new language and I want to be updated on terms that the new generation is using. And yes, I have noticed that way of speaking in which the speaker would hang the end of the sentence to make it sound like a question, it does sound effective but when overdone like one star I know, it sounds plastic or too artificial.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
6 Jan 13
I was surprised at a lot of the words on the list because I'd never heard of many of them. Words usually don't bother me but when they are used by everyone at every opportunity they do get a bit old. Talking in questions is one example of a technique that was originally meant to be dramatic but that turned into a trend, lost its effectiveness, and is now just ridiculous. But it's a great way to run out the clock if you're being interviewed and want to dodge some questions!
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
9 Feb 13
Quite interesting ... I can see some of these words being annoying and some people wanting these to quit being used, but I really doubt some of these could permanently disappear. But in the length of things sometimes, people refer to something and a new word is created. Just really depends on who starts it and uses it as to whether it is worth sticking around.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
18 Feb 13
Some things aren't worth keeping but are repeated so often in the media that they stick like spaghetti thrown against a wall. Sometimes I think we're little better than parrots repeated what we hear and thinking it's cool.
@BarBaraPrz (47683)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
6 Jan 13
Upspeak?
I don't like upspeak?
That's when people make statements sound like questions?
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Is that what it's called? Have I ever heard of that term? No, I don't think I have. Does the technique make me want to grab the speaker and choke the life out of them? Yes!
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jan 13
hi dragobn54u to start with how about the f workd , that really gets me and even here in my lot they abbreviate it but it still fry's me. Also the bottom line like we cannot afford that, the bottom line is bah blah.Also have a good day done over and over an over. A lso abolish this on mylot where people go u cannot du this or that,yu ar not able to do this or that. also kwim which drove me
nuts until someone told me it means know what I mean.
A lso"are you alright" asked to me a zillion times a day. NOw if I looked deathly ill or was limping or staggering I cou lde understand being a sked that but I am not.Also the tongue twisting latinate words a ne
w doctor will use to discuss your problem just put it in common English words we non latins can understand.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
7 Jan 13
I agree with you about the f word. It's used so commonly nowadays that it has lost all its shock value and no longer has any impact to speak of but it's such an ugly sounding word, even divorced from its intended carnal reference.
Yes, "the bottom line" has become irritating and "have a good day" is merely a variable of the "have a nice day" of the 70's. Can you believe a phrase has been around more than 40 years?! And an insipid, insincere phrase at that!
I just though of one more--"how are you?" People ask it and rarely mean it. I listen to radio all day and hear people say "how are you? I think that....". See, they don't even wait for an answer usually because they don't mean it, it's just a knee-jerk reaction to being greeted. I have answered people by saying, "I'm great, thanks!" and they look bewildered until I tell them that they did ask how I was, after all.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
7 Jan 13
"You know" is very irritating! But it's so much a part of the language now. People use it every few words, it seems, and no, I don't know or you would not be tellng me!! I think people use "per se" in an effort to appear knowledgeable but to those of us who know what it means it has the opposite effect.
I find that a lot of misuse of words also occurs in the media. Even on national news shows they misuse words. I heard a commercial a few months ago that is still running where the narrator said "You'll be shocked on how fabulous the selection is!" I considered emailing them and telling them I'd never shop at a store that hires such inarticulate representatives but saved myself the effort--it would not matter to them. They are speaking to the public at large which seems to be lacking basic knowledge of the grammar and has a very limited vocabulary.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
5 Jan 13
I would love to see all bad words gone and the word that starts with n and ends in r. That has to be my most hated word on the univeral. I don't care if its a song, or referring to your buddy or using it in hatred way. I can't stand the word and I wish people would just stop saying it already. It is a very ugly word in my opinion and I just can't see how people continue to use it.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
I agree with you both, I would love to see that word gone. I think the problem is that people don't really know what it was like when that word was in common use. I was born in 1954 and heard it often when I was young. My mother and her family despised it while my dad's family used it regularly. I grew up thinking of it as a very, very bad word. And when I became aware of the attitude with which it was used, it was even more offensive.
Today the word seems to be merely a word and people who hear it have a knee-jerk reaction of oh, that's awful and that's not right. But they don't really KNOW the demeaning nature of it, the rabid scorn with which it was used in bygone days, the hatred that made it such a horrifying word. It has lost its meaning, especially now that it has been incorporated into "art" and culture. That's really sad. Soon, if things keep going like this, it will become a word like any other. Some people might think that would be good but in my opinion it robs us of a time in human history that we should never forget, lest we repeat it.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jan 13
I prefer if that word gets eradicated rather than become decrepit, because it's obvious that the weaker it becomes doesn't destroy it. I have noticed it as well, so many movies now incorporates such language in them and I am starting to find it disturbing.
It hurts even more when you see a child under 12 is on the cast of a movie and that child is the one saying it. The limits to movies now a days is being destroyed to the point even a 8 year old can curse bad word in a movie and they, the writers, find it amusing.
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@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
5 Jan 13
I am black and I would like to hear that word gone as well. As I observe my surrounding I notice that sometimes it is us black people that is calling it down on ourselves. I just look and you hear how the word is used among us without any problem, there isn't even a flinch when one black refers to another as that. The problems starts when another race does it, so I became confuse.
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@garson (884)
• United States
18 Feb 13
I hardly use terms in my interaction with people, but I may notice everything I said to people. As far as words, expression, or phrases that should go into a shelf or oblivion, I am not sure. I personally would not want to see the word 'unemployment' covered too much in the media. Somehow, people will keep discussing or talking about as this economic recession lingers. 'Economic recession' or 'recession' is another word that I would hope to go into a shelf any moment. I'm not really sick and tired of the words/phrases. It's just that I hope this phrase would subside at some point in time.
I am sure there are other things that could go in there. It's just that I'm not able to distinguish or dig any out of my mind.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
18 Feb 13
I think those works will go away when the conditions that they describe do.
I remember when the word "gnarly" was popular and how glad I was when it went out of fashion. Another irritating word that is, hopefully, on the way out is "sick" to describe something that someone thinks is great. I always feel like I'm getting old and out of touch when I say things like that because I remember how my elders criticized my choices of words and phrases as a teen and young adult. But they do get irritating as one gets older and gains more appreciation for language and grammar.
@hoseasmate (720)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Under freedom of speech I don't think most of the bans will stand the litmus test. However, the thing I would like to have banned is the media coining new phrases and catchwords. Like Obamacare. This started with Watergate and has continued ever since.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
7 Jan 13
Of course it's not an actual ban, just a wish! I do agree about media-coined words. It's irritating how each faction picks them up rapidly and within a day you can hear it on every radio and TV station and also in the printed and internet media. One of the buzzwords I dislike is "Obama-phone". I do not like inaccuracies in the media and the free cell phones are from a program started by former president Bush, not Obama. That is just one example of how the media manipulates through words.
Buzzwords and catchphrases are the tools of people too lazy to be original.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Jan 13
not sure about a particular phrase but theres a few words that seem to be seeping in daily to tv and especially movies id like to ban. the main one is the lords name in vane . like the gd word. and that darn f....four letter word. you can hardly watch a movie or anything without it any more. maybe im just old fashioned. but thats how i and some friends feel.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
5 Jan 13
Have I ever spoken in the interrogatory? Yes,yes I have.
"Yolo" is already there as it should be. They need to put "swagg" on that list too.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
I don't hear swag as much but I've heard a lot of "yolo" in its longer form. I wish people would think for themselves and not use buzz words. It would make conversation so much more interesting!
@TheKingMan (292)
• India
5 Jan 13
What really pisses me off is people talking irrelevantly. I don't feel the need for restrictions in the usage of words or manners of speaking. Versatility should be preserved. Not all feelings can be expressed in a restricted language. What I don't like is people missing the subject and talking irrelevantly. I would also like dishonesty, lies, to be disappeared. Oh, and I would also like to see people stop using non sense statements just for the sake of the argument. And how can I forget to mention, I would like to see fallacies become history.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
5 Jan 13
That is quite a lot of pet peeves!
I remember when I was young I was taught that I should speak correctly and mind my grammar. Correct spelling was also emphasized because if someone is forming an impression of you through your writing you want it to be favorable. It seems as if people don't care much about that anymore.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
6 Jan 13
Sarcasm. Well I use it too... I just mean that it is harmful for our communication though because we will be sarcastic more often than ever speaking our real feelings. I know I use that as a defense mechanism.