Why life is like this?

This is just too much and too sad. Well i guess the more you t hink that way the more it may happen . I could not say dont lose hope for God is wuth you because i don't have any idea how frustrated you are now. I can not say things are going to be fibe because i don't know how impotaent this is to you. I cannot convince. You to feel okay, because i simply have no idea at all. But t here is this one thing i would suggest. And hopeful that may help you. And this is in every plan you have always have a second or alternative plan, so that when something happen and achieiving the original plan is impossible then you have some thing to turn to. Hmm i hipe i made sense. I mean dont just stick to one plan and putting all your effort to it.. Always have plan B...personally i call this as "pull in case of fire plan".

I understand you there, maybe you dream or set goals to high for yourself. Try something small and work your way up to something bigger. Take care there.. its all going to work out well for you..

In everyone's life this kind of situation will happen,Every one will not be happy with everything.Life is like that. We should not get frustrated as you see your life.Life will have ups and down.we should take it in a positive way and move on.We should not hate our life. Once you come to know how to face life in these kind of situation then only you live a long and happy life.If everything happen as our wish then life will become some thing like boring.Please change your mindset and live a happy life.

I have felt the same as you to do with lots of things that have gone wrong in my life, as well as what the future looks like and I will say that we all have to keep trying until we reach a goal of some sort. I do feel that some days are harder than others to cope with when nothing is going right, but that is just the way life is, not just our lives, but with others lives as well.

most of the time life is quite horrible and the tyranny which it takes is quite unbearable for sure and we need to overcome

There's always a reason why things happen. it doesn't always favors us the way it should be, otherwise we won't be learning and has a sense of experience. Most of the time it's another way around to teach us something, to make us stronger and to test our faith. Without God we are nothing ;), as long as we live there's always hope. We are always given a choice that's the beauty of life. When we struggle and encounter obstacles God wants to send us a message and to learn or better yet to change some ways. Don't give up. Give us a damn good fight. Better to lose when you have done everything than to give up doing nothing. ;)

Well, you can't loose faith in God and I don't know how old you are but you have a lot of years in front of you and you are responsible for making it what it will be. We all go through what your going through...it seldom happens that life will go the way we want it to. I always say "God doesn't give us more than we can handle". Keep the faith.

It's silly to lose faith in God just because things are not going your way. Maybe doing those things you want to do aren't good for you. Maybe you plan a trip and it gets cancelled and you are angry but if you had taken the trip you may have been in an accident or bitten by a snake. You don't know why your plans go awry but you should adjust and make the best of it. I'm not being mean, I'm just telling you what I've learned in 58 years on this earth. I've had plenty of frustrations and ruined plans and looking back at them I see it was for the best. Adjust to disappointments and find something about them to be happy with. If a trip is cancelled at least you have more time to spend with your family/friends/catching up on work, etc. Be positive. Learn to plan better and plan for the unexpected. I hope things get better for you. Life is easier with a good attitude and the ability to adapt to changes..be happy!

Everything happens for a reason ! Not all of us will shine at same time , one might shine ahead over the other but definitely there is that time for each of us. Let us just keep working in our dreams and goals , let us not surrender , one day we will be rewarded and will shine. Don't mind those failures and obstacles along your way , they are there to make you a better person and not break you! Life is all about believing and trusting God. It is all about rising every after each fall. Today might be grey but i am sure next days the tide would be different. Life is simply like this.

Not all you plan will work the way you wanted to.. everything has its own perfect timing.. if it is God's will.. I came also in that situation.. I'm actually felt hopeless and helpless., but God is so good that He provided me things that will lift my spirits., though what I planned and expecting didn't worked., He still gives what will make realize me something about life..

you are not alone in that, those things happen to all of us, and what made you think you were the only one who has that trouble in life? maybe you are just wishing too much, and never have tried to work on in it, well i don't know, it is not clear what your problem in life now is. don't just watch things to happen in front of you, fight for what makes you happy and work on the things you want to have. and THINK POSITIVE.

Im sure you want to give up now. Never lose hope. The air you breath only signifies that you still more hopes. Dont stop dreaming. I also get depress when I lose something or get frustrated but I keep my faith all the time. Just pray and ask Him for guidance,,God Bless you.