a man can't accept his son is gay

Yes,nobody wants his son to be a gay and his daughter to be a lesbian.Still the gay have founded their society and are agitating for gay rights.Obama,in the USA,perhaps have accepted their demand.However these things are not a taboo in the western culture.But this is India.I don't think gays will ever be able to gain social acceptance in our society.

That is normal for a father not wanting his son to be gay. But if it can't be helped, I hope that the father will someday accept the situation. After all, parents just want their kids to be happy. Hope everything will go all right between that father and son! Good ears you got there, hehe

I am sure it is a shock when a parent first learns something like that but that man just sounded to be ignorant. Hopefully he never does have a son that is gay because I am sure that he would only add to the frustration of his child. The most well-adjusted gay people that I know have a strong support system that starts with the parents. The world is tough enough on them and having a supportive and loving family is so so important.

My husband said he will not accept our son if he turns out gay either. He said he would disown him. It breaks my heart that he feels this way but I guess some people are not as open minded as others... I would accept this fact if any of my children turn out gay, I will love them the same. I only want them to be happy, if their happy then that's okay with me. =)

thats bad... being gay is a part of life. its every where. i feel, if they dont bother anyone with it.. its alright.

Hahaha. You were eavesdriopping. Hahaha just kidding. Anyway, but t hrough. Twist of fate those who are gayhaters are having gaychildren. Arrgh such a twist of fate and such the joke of nature.

We all have different perspective for different people and their behavior. We cannot blame them. The way we think that being a gay is up to their lifestyle and their decision, same way other people might be thinking being a gay is something cannot be accepted by nature and human laws. As these things are taken as taboo at some point in some countries.

I suppose it's understandable for the man to be unable to accept a gay son. Being gay or homosexual is not something that is positive in many cultures. In fact, in my religion it's a sin to be gay. But a child will grow up the way he's raised by his parents so if his parents don't want their son to be confused about his gender, then they can teach him the proper role that a boy needs to fill in society.

I guess some people find it hard to accept this but there are some who readily accept. I would like to share a situation. I have an uncle who had a gay son. He always reprimand his son about this. The son tried to act as a man in front of his father. One night, both son and dad met accidentally in a bar. The father with a girl and the son with his gay friends. You know what happened thereafter? The father accepted the fact that his son is gay because he did not want his son to tell their family about his vice (women).

I have a son and two daughters and the last thing on my mind is what their sexuality will be. I honestly couldn't care about their sexuality - it is the 21st century and I would prefer them to be happy in life rather than living a life that conforms to backward views