What is your standard to choose boyfriend or girlfriend?

I want someone whose vision of the future is quite similar to mine. Like my happiness will be their happiness too. This way, they won't put me down for wanting what I want and liking what I like. They'll look forward to making the each of us grow and become better persons in the company of each other. They also have to be mature and they'll understand and accept you for what you are and who you are. They understand when you have PMS and don't get grossed out by your normal body functions. And they must be attractive( to my own individual personal standard of course) and that they respect themselves enough to want all these things fom me as well. :)

I basically go for the looks and body. I like men who has a nice well toned body. Lovely face to look at. Above all, they must have a good sense of humor, someone caring, tustful and must be fun to be around. I do not like boring men.

i would like a rich and handsome man but we dont always get want we want...sometime our heart beats for the exact opposite of what we want

All I ask for in a man is honesty, I want him to respect me, I want him to love me and I want him to be at least the same height as me or a bit taller. I am almost six feet tall and I don't like to date short guys. I also want him to be financially stable and be responsible at work--I don't want a guy who gets fired from his work every single week.

I don't believe this is true. This besides of the fact that what one person finds beautiful the other doesn't find beautiful at all. It's way more about attraction and if you like it or not in the end a man just wants a "good" wife. So someone who is a great cook, listener, keeps the house clean and if necessary to show off with her. Everybody is able to look great and make a great impression. I am + 100% sure of that. It has to do with self esteem, the way you walk, behave, you look people in their face/eye. Even with old clothes you can still look like a queen if you behave like that. True love .. love, is something that has to grow and will grow if both are willing to work for it. If not it won't last. If it comes to true love both will see the inside, the real person and accept and respect that. It's also not true that every girl wants a rich men. There are plenty of women married with a poor basterd, a jobless one (I am one of them). Also there are plenty of men who are hunting for a rich girl (scammers, pimps, loverboys etc are them for example). My standard is a kind of attraction but if it doesn't last I am out. I won't waste my life by hanging in if there is nothing. Also the person has to take care of himself (clean clothes, shaving, etc) and be attentive and respect me.

in my case, i don't look for a girl then see if she fall under my standards (which i actually never have) then try to fall in love with her. the first thing is, i must fall in love with her. if she feels the same way and she is not beautiful, well i wouldn't care about that, i am in love and it is all that matters, and if she is beautiful and she would feel the same way, well, i will take it as extra benefit. and who wouldn't want a beautiful girlfriend?

for me, I am single and my standard for a girl to be my girlfriend is so simple that it does not require them to be as perfect as a perfect girl should be.. what i really mean is that they just need to be themselves and to be as simple as simple.. not that much concerned about money and a adventurous one, a girl whom i can spend my happy days with :D