On special gatherings: Fiancé+Girlfriend+Ex-Boyfriend = AWKARD!

That's hard to put up with. I wonder if the woman was really thinking of the ex's feelings. I doubt it. I guess life goes on.

Probably the best thing to do is quietly leave. And to view that as a closure. A sad closure but nevertheless, it signals that it is time to move on. It would do no good for anyone to create a scene. Best to show that you are polite and respectable.

That could be really an awkward situation. Well, I had also been in a similar situation. My batchmates have been constantly having mini get together since we graduated from High School. But unfortunately, I never had the time to join them until on after the 22nd year. I was pretty excited to see them coz really, most of them I last saw was during graduation. I was greeted by a very close friend of mine who was also one of my son's godmother. As I was going around to greet everybody, my close friend suddenly told me that my ex-boyfriend was there, and with his wife. Well, I didn't know how to react about it. And frankly, I was a bit worried coz they were teasing me and the wife might hear it and would just get mad. Anyway, I tried avoiding my ex and his wife. And just sat by my real close friends. It was ages ago since we really had a time to chat. Then my ex went to me, gave me a kiss on the cheek and said that he was glad to see me. I said the same, but also told him to go back to his wife a I feel uncomfortable being beside him. What he did was he called his wife and introduced her to me. Hi and hello, and that was it. She doesn't look enthusiastic meeting me. I am not sure if she knows about our past, but nevertheless, I was friendly with her. But during the succeeding get together, I have never seen her eye to eye. She avoids every time. Not that I care!

Well, i think even if there is no closure, the fact that the girl has her new fiance, would mean to ex-boyfriend that there's nothing to revive anymore. The batch mates should not have been tensioned like that and just treated it like an ordinary one.

Maybe the ex-bf can bear looking at his ex with another guy. That's why he went off.

I have a somewhat similar situation...my one of my best friends (who happens to be a guy) has a girlfriend (they have children) and he lives with my son and I..he is my ex (the only ex I have that I get along with) and sometimes I really think in his mind he is in relationships with me and his on again off again girlfriend..it is weird because I don't consider myself with him. He doesn't like anybody I date and I don't think his girlfriend likes me but we tolerate each other..I don't know it's all too weird and very awkward. He is my son's godfather but I think he also thinks he is his father in some ways...I should write a book!

My son is going to have to go through something like that. Next month my ex his dad is getting married. he told my son he wants him to be in the wedding. My son feels bad for me. i told him dont, Im glad someone wants your dad. That way he will always leave me alone.