Should he know his ex-wife is asking about him?

I think she needs to know how he is. Was her reason for leaving was just for the job or was there something else? I mean, why didn't she send a word for the past 6 years? I think his husband deserves to be happy. And I don't think that by sending any message now would make his husband run back to her.

Hi Dee, I think you need to be honest to her. I believe it is OK for her to know those things to you rather than to other people. She might end up getting hurt more knowing that you already know those things about him. Have a great day.

Yes. Well, I can't see anything wrong if she tell her. The truth will set us free. I think she won't get hurt and I think she already moved on because you said, the guy divorced her. Unless she does not know that the guy divorced her for good, but if the two had a talk about that situation, I thinks its fine.

I think why not... Being friends with both of them means in good and in bad to be their friend. Besides, there is nothing wrong in telling her that he has moved on with his new family, so that she realises that he had put their relationship behind and has a new life. Asking how he was doing maybe, as well, just a matter of courtesy, knowing that you're still a friend with him. Just tell her the truth and everyone can go on their path.

I feel so bad for him. That was awful what she put him through. I don't think she has any right to know how he's doing after what she did. Yeah it is best if you don't say anything to anyone. He is about to get married and he definitely doesn't need to feel sad about this time in his life. I hope that this person he is with now will treat him like he deserves to be treated.

A difficult situation to be in - not sure that I would even let her know that you are still in touch with her ex. If she walked out, then she had to know that there were consequences and that she hurt his feelings and heart. She just can't expect him to cater to her nor wait for her. She choose to walk out and she needs to know that there is no returning, especially after 6 years. I probably would not say anything to her. And I probably would not say anything to him. You don't want old feelings to be coming back to him, just when he is getting married. I would at least wait until he is married and he and his new wife are settled into their new life before letting him know that his ex was asking about him. If you do need to say anything, you could be vague and say that 'you heard' or 'probably he moved on' - that way, you are not giving him away. And you are giving her a little info that hopefully will satisfy her. She does not need to know where he is living nor what is is doing, especially just before he is getting married. I would keep them separated at this time, especially for his sake.

I don't think that there is anything at all with your letting your friend know that her ex-husband has been able to move on with his life and that he is going to be getting remarried in just a short time. However, I really don't think that you need to tell her ex-husband that she is asking about him. You see, I tend to think that when a relationship ends that there are still some feelings for your ex-spouse and for that reason you always maintain some degree of concern for their well-being.

Yes, you have to tell her since she asked about him. They are divorced anyway. Maybe she just wanted to know how about the wedding. There is nothing wrong with that. And if it will hurt her, she's to blame abo. Ut failed marriage anyway.

Even if you tell the guy I guess it doesn't matter to him anymore, as you said, he'd moved on. Maybe you should tell the ex wife too about the progress of her ex husband, who knows, she might be thinking of coming or what, she should know so she won't be creating disturbances to her ex husband and the future wife.

I think you need to tell her the truth, because he has just began his life anew, it is a good news. And if his ex-wife is clever enough, she will know that the best way is to give him greetings.

I believe that it is rightful for you to say that to her. It wouldn't hurt your relationship with your friend. It is the rightful thing to do so that she too, can move on. Have a nice day and happy mylotting! :)