What's your theme?

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
January 7, 2013 4:02pm CST
I've noticed that we have a lot of "theme posters" here. For example, one person mostly posts about travel, another about online earnings, another about cooking, etc. Myself, I mostly post about things that are happening in my life. Easy for me to come up with a discussion idea when it's something that's actually happening to me. "Write what you know", so to speak. On the other hand, some people here post about pretty much anything under the sun. How they get so many ideas, I sure can't fathom it. So what about you? Are you a theme poster? If so, what's your theme? Why that topic? If not, where do you get your ideas?
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@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
8 Jan 13
I haven't even though of a theme. I guess whatever relates to me. ME! I post questions at this point, as I am still new to Mylot. Still trying to figure it all out. I do appreciate that people post about themselves, like you do, dawnald. We are all people and it's great to be able to connect with other people. I have learned a lot about others on Mylot. And thus, have learned a few things about myself. :) Sometimes, my mind goes blank when I get on Mylot but I have thought of a lot of things to ask and post when I am NOT on the computer. I should write them down. :) Where do I get my ideas? They just seem to pop into my little ol' head but now, to remember them... that's another whole issue. Have a great day, dawnald.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
When I think of a good topic, and I'm away from the computer, I try and get on my phone and e-mail a reminder to myself, otherwise I forget.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
Usually my posts are about life..what is going on with my life and things happening in my life.. or what food i ate, what stuff is happening with my kids probably these things because i get to talk about it a lot lol..
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Me too, not food so much, but other than that...
@AmbiePam (93739)
• United States
8 Jan 13
Maximax is the travel poster! As for me, whatever pops in my head I guess. I do associate one poster with cats and Doctor Who.
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@AmbiePam (93739)
• United States
8 Jan 13
ElicBxn
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Yep, she is. Then there's politics, frugal living and s*x, though those last 2 aren't around any more.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Dr. Who? Seriously? Who?
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
7 Jan 13
I never think of things to post. They are really just slices of my life, so to speak. I stay away from politics and religion usually even in answering so I suppose that I am really theme-less. I do use mylot to vent sometimes (well -frequently, if I am honest) I don't do stress well at all and life has become so stressful lately. As to where mylotters get their ideas from always amazes me. What a variety of people we have here!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Jan 13
Yes, some days it's really interesting. Now, as to you. You are not allowed to have another stressful year, so you will have to find yourself another theme!!!
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
8 Jan 13
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• Philippines
8 Jan 13
i like cythiann's discussions, just like i like yours, dawn. i think it's because of the way you see things which reflects the way you write about them. if i don't post anything in them, it's because everyone else has said what it, but i did enjoy reading them for the chuckles, the misty eyes and the food for thought they gave me.
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@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
7 Jan 13
I think I know those theme-posters you've mentioned... Would "venting" qualify as a theme? I wouldn't say I just type up discussions so I could vent whatever is troubling me, but I do post a few things that I have trouble wrapping my mind around. I would like to post a discussion about how I'm so much behind in my notifications here, and how much I would like to catch up, but I think that would be counter-productive.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Jan 13
I actually did post a discussion about how far behind on my notifications I was. Venting could be a sub-theme under "Dawn's life" along with: Relationship issues Medical stuff My children Work Funny things that happened to me Places I visited etc.
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• Philippines
8 Jan 13
"venting" just made me think of "inventing" and i think when we post a discussion or respond to it, we're also "inventing" in that we're all trying to see it from different angles. "creating a scenario" as a discussion or response is also "inventing," but in a positive way because we're considering all possibilities. that includes the silly and the serious and in-between. i guess what i'm getting at is mylot can help you be more open-minded, uhm, even if you're minding or eavesdropping on other people's business.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Oh, butt in any time....
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
8 Jan 13
Um, since I don't post discussions I guess my theme would have to be uh, nothingness. I suppose if I had a theme I might be able to make a discussion. But, then again, maybe not. I'm themeless.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
It probably only themes that way.
@vandana7 (100526)
• India
8 Jan 13
Happy New Year deazil..
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@deazil (4730)
• United States
8 Jan 13
dawn, Good one!! vandana! Holy mackerel! Happy New Year to you too!
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
8 Jan 13
My theme is probably family as most of my posts are about my kids.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Kids, in-laws, job and school.... :D
@Archie0 (5652)
8 Jan 13
I have never heard of these theme posters before. We don't have anything of that sort here.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
sure, I can think of people who post mostly on one topic, but most people here are more varied.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
I really don't have a theme when i post. Usually, i posts about some things i observe , what i feel and what i experience. Mylot is a site where i can express and outpour whatever it is that comes into my mind and being.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Are there people you don't invite here because of that?
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
No my friend, actually my posts are open to anyone who can relate.
• China
8 Jan 13
Good topic! however I am stuck by your question.You know,I have started few discussions here on mylot, not to mention having theme with my own characteristics.I fall in with your views ,there are indeed all kinds of theme posters here.It is exactly what is called "the style being the man".But then,there are not a few who don't write what they know but brave it out writing what they don't know well.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
some people who do that research the topic and do it very well, others not so well...
• China
13 Jan 13
Some can't be bothered to do that.All they want to do is losing no time in making money.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
8 Jan 13
I'd like to think my "theme" is 'self-empowerment.' I think that was Jesus Christ's message---that 'Our Father gives us everything to deal with, so He trusts us with it.' That's one way Christians make me sick ... claiming G*d 'gives us all this power,' but "relying on Him to-shelter us from the storm, -kill off the weeds that we-ourselves plant -everything short-of/including wiping our ... noses when we get a sniffle."
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
I think God is too busy to wipe your nose. :D
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
8 Jan 13
i do wish i were as passionate as others about one or two particular thing, but i guess i'll never be an all or nothing person! it can get boring reading the same topic so that out of 10 they put out, only one or two catches your attention, and out of two, one might trigger a response. might. i think the way you write is also a theme in the sense that it reflects what you think about the topics, not just the topic itself, so that you can make the silly serious and the serious silly. and, well, most of us are ordinary folks living simple ordinary lives, trying not to worry too much about the future, so we tend to relate more to everyday topics and how to make it funny for a while or see beneath the surface now and then. i know i like posters like you.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Early on I tried to post things that were really unique, and they got little attention. (Course I wasn't "famous" back then.) Then I found my comfort zone, which was writing about myself mostly. You are right, people tend to gravitate toward things they can relate to. Thx for the vote of confidence.
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
it's really about putting a different spin on them. you definitely have your share of fans here.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
8 Jan 13
When i make discussion i always consider the learning the users may get... Actually even when responding to some discussion. Sometimes i share some personal experiences but not too private ones. Since it is experience definitely people will learn from it too.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Although I do sometimes learn things from discussions, that's not really something I consider when posting. I just get things off my mind, basically.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Jan 13
Oh yes... That is someting to consider as well
• United States
8 Jan 13
Theme poster.. I am not sure what that really means. But I would post things that are not to personal but enough for people to help relate and give feedback to help make the situation i'm in or anything to be voiced and responded. I would talk about school.. School is a major part of my life and i hope to own my own bussiness and become a managaer of a company that recycles :)
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
In other words, posting discussions that fall into one category like travel, politics, etc.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
8 Jan 13
Mostly what I post about here, Is stuff about my life and things going on or experiences and thoughts with it. I could never come up with s many discussions as some people start here.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Me either....
@ElicBxn (63638)
• United States
8 Jan 13
I suspect that you would say I am a "Cat poster", yeah, I think I know who you mean about posting about travel... I, too, wonder where they get all those ideas..
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Cats, Dr. Who and the roomies... :-)
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
8 Jan 13
I really have no one subject that i am truly knowledgeable about. But I am more at ease with topics on people, love and life. Other than that i find it interesting to engage in religion and politics.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
If I venture into religion or politics, I put on my battle armor first.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Jan 13
I try to think of what others in my friend's list would find interesting and would be sure to respond to. Usually a movie I've just seen or something I heard in the news. I also use Mylot as a sounding board if I have had some weird experience or need opinions.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Usually, if I think it will be interesting, it doesn't do well.
@vandana7 (100526)
• India
8 Jan 13
You tell me..lol I think I pretty much write about things that I think about...and honestly the ones that disturb me... At times its politics, at times its my life, and at times its English...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
Hm, I don't recall one about English...
• India
8 Jan 13
Hi friend, i don't have any theme i just creating topics while getting ideas. I am not interested in creating topics within a theme, always our topics must be useful to every one and deals about various things
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 13
I don't think people deliberately pick a theme, it's just that some people are very passionate about one topic.