Self-esteem

Hi friend, self esteem is important for every one. No one is inferior and no one is superior, each and every one is equal in front of the God, if some one dominates you, don't give up your self esteem and prove your self to them. Your activity must make them to feel shame for their activity and give importance to you.

Self-esteem comes from you alone. Nothing and no one can make you respect yourself and hold your head up high in confidence, but you. No matter what other people say about you to put down your self-esteem, don't mind them, do not be affected because most times, these people are just jealous. They don't deserve an iota of attention.

If you believe in yourself, see the good and great things you can (there is no need to do everything), if you are happy with the person you are (incl. your bad and good days, your health, etc), if you know you can count on you (and others who do the same for you can count on you as well), if you love yourself and pamper yourself you have a lot of self esteem. And I can assure you there won't be any person in this world who can affect it. Since it's NOT important at all what others say or think about you but how you think about yourself. You are the one who has to live with you. So hug yourself, respect yourself, accept yourself (no need to be perfect, a hero, famous, or (so called) important), pamper yourself. Show you have character, and you are someone because of that, not just one sheep in that cattle crawling around to be accepted (mostly by people who won't accept you anyway no matter what you do or say).

hi i agree self esteem is very important. some people really try to hurt it.well its difficult sometimes to regain our lost self esteem.i hope this helps you http://psychcentral.com/lib/2006/how-to-raise-your-self-esteem/

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, self esteem is indeed very important for oneself and we should always see to it that nothing is being done to suppress our self esteem. We all have a self respect and dignity and should always strive to protect it as it gives us an identity among the crowd of people. If any one pin points on our character then it is our responsibility to stand and fight against the same. What say?