What do you think about Cheaters?

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, even i do not love cheaters as they tend to hurt our feelings and do not respect us. They think that they are the most intelligent people on earth and hence whatever they do would not be known to us. But they forget the fact that by cheating they are not only cheating themselves but are also loosing out the relationship that they had formed with others. What say?

I take the humble road. People easily slip into high-mindedness, part of which gives them the feeling that they can take whatever they want no matter what 'the rules' say (that goes for sins from 'Eve taking the fruit that Adam told her about the rule-against' to 'your lovers thinking they can share the love with others when it's NOT THEIR LOVE TO SHARE ) If my lover thinks she deserves more than 'just-me,' she can have it---but she can't have 'me-too'

I don't like people who cheat because there is no reason for it. If you cannot stay faithful to that person, then just leave that person. Tell that person that you are not in love with them, and that your feeling for them have changed, and that you cannot be with them anymore because it isn't working out. That would be better than going behind their back and being with someone who you shouldn't be with because you are hiding your relationship from people. It's not right.

cheaters are losers. They are not worth of time and attention. They belong to worthless people not worth of trust...

I too don't like cheaters.And i avoid talking to them.One incident i want to tell you that occured with me.One of dearest friend had cheated me when i talk about positive thinking.He was never like a cheater,but then he cheated me and he did not behave me a well liked manner.His langauge was bad when he used to talk with me,because simply he did not like me. But now i don't believe what he says.After this incident,he phoned me and told me that he was wrong and he wants to say sorry.First i did not believe on his words,but now i used to talk with him sometimes.But now also i don't believe on him.

me too don't like cheats. They are dangerous and heartless woman being.

I don't think there is anyone that likes cheaters, except for the cheaters themselves, maybe :) What I think about cheaters and cheating is that not even the act of infidelity is that important to get angry about. The act of cheting is an act of disrespect to the person one's cheating on, and that disrespect hurts even more than the affair itself. Cheating speaks for the person who does it - disloyal, unreliable, disrespectful, superficial... Maybe there are some cases when people forgive when the cheater had the so called excuse (got drunk or something), but everyone has a head on their shoulders and must think count to ten before doing anything stupid. Hurts a lot of people after that...

Hi friend, No one like cheaters. I read a news before that women has the ability to tell if a unfamiliar man is cheater or not just by looking at its face. Sad news men doesn't have this ability. I am not saying that woman don't cheat but most unfaithful on were MEN. (Sorry guys!!) Some people don't understand the value of trust and loyalty. Respect to one another makes a relationship last. That's what our grandparents do.

Hi shante2 I hate cheaters very much as you do .I don't understand what they want to prove ? they might want to prove they are superior , intelligent etc they might win today but will definitely fall down some day or the other.

Cheaters are never intelligent and are too blunt to understant the totality of things. And due to their bluntness they are shameless too. Cheaters think they themselves are intelligent and the rest of the people people are unable to detect their trick. Cheaters are too blunt to understant that they will have to loss everything of this world and the hereafter.

I hate cheaters. Me myself do not want to cheat someone. I believe in "karma" and I do not want that to happen with me. I'll just love someone the way I know they are being loved. If I like someone other than my partner or lover. I will assess my feelings first and so if who will be my more love then I will choose him and dump the other one.

No one like cheaters at all. If there's one... maybe there is a personal connection or attachment with them but most of people don't like cheaters. Cheaters are envious people, they are not satisfied of what they have, they want more and they want what's yours reasons why they cheat. I don't want to get connected with cheaters also.

I hate CHEATERS specifically those people at work who sued to claim something good but they didn't work for a good result!-see a lot of emotions there, based from my bad experience before my supervisor asked me to do something and after doing so, a few months ago when he is not my supervisor anymore he was given a reward from the work I worked for. cheaters never wins if they succeed sometimes at the end they will pay the price that for sure it will be harder when God gave them due punishments from their actions :)

I don't like cheaters either, such a disgusting behavior. I've been cheated many times, done that!!! I'm just wondering why are they all existing to those who are faithful enough to take the relationship. Why can't they just be fair in a relationships. Cheaters doesn't care whether they hurt anyone or not as long as they enjoy what they wanted to do to satisfy their happiness. such a jerk!!! Anyway, not the victim's loss but theirs. LOL!

I think cheater is always a cheater if I base on my experience. They are not trusted person, and look very dignified and live with integrity but those looks kills someone who believe in them...

Hiya shante, Once I saw someone cheating on someone else I knew but did not know how to tell them as they were so much in love with the person who was cheating. So much in love that they could not see anything wrong with that other cheating person. I did not get to know how it ended but quite a few cheaters stories I have heard about and they do cheat themselves in the finish as they forget to look for the love they really need so they cheat themselves more than anyone in the end.xxx

Yeah I agree with you. Cheating is so wrong. Yeah we should expect the person we are with to be loyal to us and vice versa. Expecting faithfulness is just common sense. Otherwise why even be in a relationship. That person may as well stay single if they aren't going to be faithful.

Hi friend, you are right. We must treat others as same and give importance to all persons. Never try to cheat any one. As we know cheating is a bad activity, so we must surely avoid it in our life. God is watching all our activities, surely cheaters will get punishment from god, be good and loyal to others and expect the same from them

Cheaters are liars too. And I don't like liars. We can't get anything good from cheaters and liars. It is just like talking to someone who is fooling you. God is truth and satan is a father of lies. Let us be in God's truth. God Bless

I'm proud of you :). it's good that you have self respect.