I dont like this feeling

Maybe you can explain to your grandmother and your aunt, hoping that they could understand you and also you can tell them that you will back home next week as soon as you meet with your BF. I think that they will understand the situation.

If your boyfriend wants to see you but you can't at this time,he will understand. If he wants to see you,he will.If there is a will there is a way. This has been happening with my 21 year neice. Her fiance is in the MArines and right now have a long distance relationship. They see each other when they can. Both have traveled to see each other. So as you can see it happens to others!

Hopefully things will work out. Why does your grandmother want you to come back? Maybe she will wait alittle bit. Especially if she know how important this is to you.

That's alright. Missing someone only means that you care about the person. so much. This means that you'll be more excited when you see him again. It'll be slightly different because you both missed each other for an amount of time.

After reading your post I come to know how much you are missing your boy friend. It is but natural it has happen to me also and I am sure almost every lady must have gone through this state. Any way happy journey and meet your boy friend. All the best

Well, I must say that the two of you, that you and your boyfriend, although you are not married, you are very close to each other. I believe this is a good thing in a relationship. You feel very lack of him, so that you are also willing to cry for him. I think he will try the same thing to your comparisons. Love and agreement, trust and loyalty are the milestones for a great relationship!

I'm sorry to hear that things aren't working out for you the way you hoped. That would be very frustrating. How else will you get to see him if you can't wait until he is done with his trip? I hope that you and him will be able to get together. Do you live in the same area or is it a long distance relationship?

I'm a little confused by what you said here. You don't say where you are staying, but if you are in a hotel, then I can see where you would need to leave early. But if you are staying with a friend ir relative, I would just wait on him a bit more. I don't know how old you are, but if you are an adult, then if your aunt wants to go home, I would just let her go and I'd stay a bit longer to wait on him. Do you know what is keeping him? Do you keep in contact with him by email or phone? If so, I would make my decisions accordingly, and let your aunt go back home if she refuses to wait it out. I'm sorry you feel so much like crying. Just try to make some definite decisions and work through this problem. Long distance relationships are rather difficult for similar reasons. People get their wires crossed and end up getting upset when plans don't work out like you want them to.

As I understand you have to make an descion what to do now. 1. Your granny to ask you travel back because of .... reason or waiting for your friend who visited the doctor and you did not see for a long time. Personally I would choose for my boyfriend. You both are young and he will need you. Unless the news your granny gave you is that somebody very close to you is dying within 1-2 days.