Do you take over the passions of your beloved one?

I wouldn't say I "take over" the passions or hobbies of my significant other, but if I want to see more about who he is, I might dabble in whatever his passion is so I can understand him better. I remember with my first husband, I went "salmon fishing" with him. He enjoyed fishing and I tagged along. It was fun for me even though I didn't go in the water and fish with him, but I was there drinking my hot chocolate and also felt the excitement when he hooked his salmon for the night. I also went deer hunting with him. We sat in the woods with our snacks...just sitting there, quiet as ever, waiting for the deer to approach us so early in the morning. I only did that one once

Don't you want him to go deeper into your soul? Don't you want him to understand you as well as you understanding him? Doesn't he like to learn about you - as you are learning about him? Both my husband and I love to read. We both will read passages from our books that we want to share with the other. He enjoys listening to me read from my book as well as he likes to share from his book. We also take turns choosing the movie - we alternate between the chick flicks and the action pack movies and sometimes, we even find a movie that we both enjoy. A mutual relationship in which there is equality is when BOTH take an interest in each other. My husband likes to cook breakfasts and will cook my eggs the way I like them for me. I enjoy cooking his favorite dinners. When he is sick, I take care of him. When I am sick, he takes care of me. How can you really go deeper into his soul if he isn't going deeper into your soul? For the relationship to really grow and deepen - both need to be there for one another, sharing and supporting each other.

Not really. I never got into sports even though he loved sports. There were things we both liked, but we already loved those things separately. If I got into things my husband liked and did things that he enjoyed because I was interested in those things already. There is a danger that one might get into dangerous things. I think when you date, you look for similarity in your outlook. We cannot change ourselves to meet their expectations, It backfired.

Sometimes I try so that I would understand why my partner is into that thing or hobby. Sometimes I find it fun and sometimes not. I am telling my partner the ones that I liked and suggests that we do it together like bowling or fishing. But those that I do not like, I make it a point to give my partner space or time to do the those things. I try it because it's new and it can be my new hobby or food that I may like to eat. I think that it's interesting to learn the things that our partner loves so that we can understand them fully.

Well,I am not sure if it is healthy in a relationship.But I am afraid I will be another him if I do everything he likes.I do agree even we love each other,we should try to be ourselves.And be different from any other gril,I mean,in some positive aspects,you'll be unique.He may love you much coz you are attractive to him.I hope what I say do not offend you.Have a nice day.