long distance relationship chance

If they both loved me as much, I would choose the one that's financially and emotionally stable and is more physically attractive than the other. I would choose someone that I may love less but loves me more than I do. i would choose someone who's family likes me more. There are a lot of factors that need to be considered in choosing between the two. No two person can be both perfect, and have the same qualities. They may have equal intensity of love towards me, but again, a successful relationship is not just about love.

Such relationship is quite hard to comprehend most especially that you are torn between two people that you feel you have a strong attraction with. One should realize that you know that having two relationships at the same time is not a good idea, because you are cheating with one person to another. You should know that in such relationship, we all do have to make sacrifices and one should pave way in either breaking up, or staying with the relationship. If I were on such situation, regardless if it is near or the person is not proximate, you should consider who really is mutual for you. And who really paves an important role in your life because probably you are just having a sudden attraction to the person, because you are longing to have someone near you, or rather you are just provoked by temptations.

Hiya adhyz, Toniganzon has a really great answer there. However living that kind of life must be really hectic in the finish although it could be true that in a big city they can themselves away more easily and meet up in lots of places rather than if they lived in a very small village say. Small villages hmm they really would be the talk of the town for sure as there would not be many places to hide unless they traveled quite a few miles out each meeting time together. In a big city somewhere one of the persons involved in the situation talked to her professional beauty adviser and it got out like wildfire and the person who started the situation got found out and all the other people involved got to find out too so even if they are in a big city or whatever they would still have to be very careful and of course never talk about that situation to anyone.xxx Here I am talking mainly about the risks but the gains of such a thing going on could be very well handled I imagine as we were born with loads of imagination too. Personally I don´t think I could handle such a thing or maybe I could have never thought of it at all on a personal level. Great answer from this person well done.xxx

I think it is hard to be in such situation. And being with two different people at the same time could be hurting not only the two of them but yourself as well. So, I'd say, I would commit myself to the person that I most love.

Can a man love two women at the same time? Can a woman love two men at the same time? If loving two persons at the same time is possible, can any man or woman accept that his or her lover can be in love with another man or woman as he/she himself/herself is the same? Or maybe the minute when you fell in love with the second man/woman, you had in fact already changed. Your love for the first man/woman is no more like before. Long distance relationship is tough. It needs resilience from both parties. It needs patience, sacrifice and understanding to make it work. To be able to do that, both need to have a strong love for each other. But we are all fragile. We will always fall. We can be changed by the environment. Our views and ideas will change bit by bit unknowingly until one day when we wake up, we also do not know why we did like we did. We can change although we did profess that the love we had was a forever one. I feel that we don't have to choose. Just follow your heart. The one that you would like to be with all the time is the one that you are truly in love with.

if i. i will rather choose the want that near with me. like u said if both have same character that i like. sure i will choose the close one

Ménage à trois ? Joking That is something that would take some thinking. She'd have to figure out which one she cares for most. I've never been in such a situation so I've got no clue how hard or easy that would be. If she really can't decide, she should probably let them both go.

Well, frankly, I used to two-time two girls at the same time and later I found out that it was a bad thing to do. Why? When you two-time women, you have to tell many lies to them--you are not honest with them, aren't you. You may hurt their feelings when you are caught red handed with someone else. If I could suggest you, you'll be better off dating only one that you love. Well, you may have more than girl friends as long as you have no special feelings toward them, right?

Hi adhyz: I think that if I have one special person here I won't try to look for someone else in first place. If I have someone here why should I want to have someone else. I feel serious about this. I won't try to play with someone's feelings. And if the first person I met is the one I'm dating online if I love this person for real I won't look for someone new. ALVARO

There are some people in this world who keeps or likes to keeps such two relationship at the same time, not let it know to other partner. But when they keep such dual relationship what I feel is nothing but they are cheating their real partner as such with whom they claim or have the relationship. Personally I will never have or try to have such double relationship with two person at the same time.

Love don't depend on distance, my friend. I think that you should think about your love first. Then, you should choose only one lover.

I'd choose the one closer to me. Less complication. Less problems. You'd get to know more better the one is just living near to you compared to the other who is staying so far from you. If people who's just close to you can cheat and hide his/her real characteristics, then the one who's living far can also do that. But the advantage is that you would see personally the gestures and actions of the one closer to you and from there you can really judge whether s/he's real or not.

Genuine love knows no distance , no matter how far are you to each other if you have that real love then no one can stop and nothing can keep you from loving each other. If the heart felt it then nothing can influence or change it. You can not teach your heart . It listen to no one but to itself only. It sees no other beauty but the beauty of that person whom he loves. That one person he love is the most perfect for him. Distance is never an obstacle if you got pure love to your partner.

I would choose the one from the different area. For one thing, I could be in a relationship without really giving up my single ways. I think everyone wants to be in a relationship but none of them want to give up their single ways. Also, long distance relationships have their perks too. I remember being in a long distance relationship with someone and I saw them once a month, I travelled to where they work at the end of the mont. it was kinda fun cause I had something to look forward o and the trip is like a vacation it's so nice. Plus you hold your own time and you don't have any pressure around you as long as you keep in contact with each other. I kinda like that too, being notated by them a lot, it makes me feel really important. I think I'd like that better than having someone who is physically there but emotionally absent. Long distance relationships can work as long as you have a plan to end the distance and you have something to look forward to when both of you are ready. Plus it gives you the opportunity o rediscover them every time you meet them again. I have a friend who has been in a long distance relationship with someone for 8 years, they are okay and they are planning to get marred once my friend graduates fom her 3rd college course. And the marriage is going to be abroad too and get the perks of going abroad cause she's getting married there. :D oh so happy. :D

As long as no cheating is going on. All persons involved must be truthful with each other. If secrets are being kept, it's a pretty good chance that sooner or later you are going to get caught.

hi, for me if that will happen to me and i am in between to lovers i will choose or i am more prefer to the one who near with me rather than the other who are far with me,it because i could always see the near person and always have chance to be with him so the result i could fall so fast and love that near person more.

I would say right away that I choose in the same city. Because I've ever failed in the long distance relationship But well, of course there are many factors still to be considered. But you can't love two people at the same times. You have to choose. So my right answer is: I'll pray. I'll pray that God will show me His way for me to choose.

well freind as per i think a person falls actually in love only once. If it thinks that it fell in love twice than first one is mere attraction only because it is obvious we people think attraction as a love . If we are really love we would never love anyone else . As we only need that one also in love we understand each other very well so in actual love there is no chance of cheating