Feeling out of place

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

I'm talking about months and not just weeks.

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dpk262006

@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

9 Jan 13

Hi toni! Nice to see you on board. I try to be here on mylot as when possible. It has always been great pleasure and fun here to connect with friends through their discussions. At times I remain pre-occupied with my off line and office commitments during those periods, I miss mylottings. However, as soon as I get an opportunity to come here even for half an hour, I do not miss it. Have a grt day.

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dpk262006

@dpk262006 (58676)

• Delhi, India

14 Jan 13

Hi toni -

Yes, mylot will not interesting without some good friends.

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Thanks Dee. It's really good to see you here. Mylot will never be the same without old friends here.

KrauseHome

@KrauseHome (36448)

• United States

13 Jan 13

Well, there are times I have not been able to be here as often as I would like due to Medical issues, or being so busy, and it does seem awkward when I first come back as their might be people here who have forgotten about me, and people who have left. Or then there are the newbies here. But no matter what this continues to be a Great place to be, and one I would miss if I had to leave.

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

You're absolutely right Tina! this place is a great place to be and though i'm hardly here, i still keep coming back. You're the one person that's hard to forget, so i'll always remember you.

@echoforever (5180)

• United States

23 Feb 13

No matter the amount of time we can spend, or that we do spend, myLot will always be a great place to be.

allen0187

@allen0187 (58582)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

don't panic i'm here already!!!!

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return of the comeback

allen0187

@allen0187 (58582)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

i was solving the problem in the interwebs... did you put out the bat signal?

that woudl have gotten my attention...

allen0187

@allen0187 (58582)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

nice new avy by the way... how's thailand been treating you toni?

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

Where were you when I needed you?

MandaLee

@MandaLee (3760)

• United States

9 Jan 13

Toni, Welcome back! I also have trouble getting in mylot. We missed you!

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Thanks MandaLee! Nice to see you here again and hope to see more old friends on mylot. it won't be the same without old good friends.

Always smiling

@allknowing (136089)

• India

9 Jan 13

Many come and many go. I have not been away per se but I too miss many myLotters who used to be regular participants here and now I come across many new names. They too will I am sure with time become as absorbing as those who have been here for a while. I noticed your absence.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (136089)

• India

13 Jan 13

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Thank you for noticing my absence. It means a lot to me. Wish i could try to be here more each day.

flagella08

@flagella08 (5065)

• Philippines

10 Jan 13

you can always tap your old friends here. how long have you been gone here. i experienced being away for three months and i don't feel that feeling you mentioned. the mylot community members are always accommodating and as friendly as ever.i also know people here who comment that often in my posts and i appreciate their efforts. this is why i love mylot much!

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Beeng one for several months on and off. There was a time when i was gone for almost a year, then came back, then was gone again for several months. And may friends from way back are nowhere to be seen. How long you've been here?

@echoforever (5180)

• United States

23 Feb 13

Unless the friends have left.. that would be unfortunate.

Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

10 Jan 13

hi toniganzon welcome back and yes I have noticed a lot of new u

sers come responding to my discussions as well as some old friends like you. I just had not seen your n ame much lately. I am on my fifth year here so must like a lot of stuff about our mylot.Yes a few days back I had problems getting on too and a lot of run time errors bu t seems okay now.I believe when you see some of your old friends here you will get back into uour groove. lol

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Patsie Hatley

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

10 Jan 13

hi all this time I thought you were on mylot friends list as I did respond a lot to you but you are mot. so may I be your fri end,hatley here?

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Oh my harley! How i've missed you. And all these years i never realized we're not friends. I thought we were. We're already friends and you know my answer to that question of yours.

wongchoiyee

@wongchoiyee (7413)

• Malaysia

9 Jan 13

No worry, I was also like you these few days, I can't find any topic to comment on, mostly because they are not my friends lists. But today I am eager to comment on more and more discussions because some of my friends are here today, right now.

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

It's been like this for a year already. It's nothing new and the discussions that are started by newbies are not actually new and they no longer attract me.

chuyins123

@chuyins123 (2112)

• Philippines

9 Jan 13

You are not alone my friend. I too feel like a stranger when I try to visit mylot. It's good thing though that I get to read this post and made me come back to mylot again.

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newbie

strange feeling

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

I've missed you my dear friend. Wish we could exchange messages again like we used to. I'm going back home in the Phil in March.

alberello

@alberello (4752)

• Italy

9 Jan 13

Well, speaking of Mylot, the answer to your final question, in my case is NO. I work on Mylot every day (except when I can not because maybe I'm traveling), and every day I see my friends who post new threads more or less of my interest. I fact, I mainly use the computer, just to work on Mylot. The only thing I noticed is that in the last days, the site has a delay in payment. I do not know if this is an isolated case, or relates to everyone. You could you tell me something about it?

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

The last payment i had was when i was still in the Philippines maybe in September. I understand why you're here every day. You don't have a job to keep you busy. You have the luxury of time to be on mylot.

girl_thinking

@girl_thinking (1959)

• Philippines

10 Jan 13

I don't notice the delay in payment, maybe because I was paid only twice last year.

Haha, my earnings are not really big and not really fast.. It's okay, I'm not really logged in every single day..

Rick1950

@Rick1950 (1576)

• Lima, Peru

13 Jan 13

Maybe MyLot wants you to connect it only from your country and not from another place.

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connect

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

Could be! Mylot wants me back home. Will be coming home in March soon.

vidhyaprakash_2

@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)

• India

9 Jan 13

Hi friend, welcome back. Some times we will feel in this sort if we are away from the site. Day by day a lot of members are joining here as well as some members taking break from this site, so we will miss some friends and find some new friends, it is quite common in mylot. Don't worry, surely you will get back your friends soon

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

True and the new members are posting discussions that have already been discussed before. I see no fun in them anymore. I rarely participate because of those.

skyandgrassplot

@skyandgrassplot (1497)

• China

10 Jan 13

Yes those situations did happen to me sometimes esepcially when I changed my apartment.You said you just need to work 5 hours a day and four times a week,wow,is that a full time job I mean regular job?If yes then you are so lucky and I wish I can find some kind of job like you,because I often work overtime and really feel tired.

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

Yes it's a full time job. The government doesn't allow foreign people to work more than 20 hours in a government school. I'm an English foreign language teacher.

Blondie2222

@Blondie2222 (28611)

• United States

9 Jan 13

I haven't really felt like this as I wasn't active back then when I joined this site 5 years ago and wasn't really close with anybody. I have just recently become more active on this site last year and have become close with a few people on here. I did feel lost at first when I was more active on here but now I feel at home again. I mylot in the mornings before work and then an hour at night when I get home just to wind down from a days of work. Hope you feel comfortable here again and can make some new friends.

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@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Years ago there were lots of fun here and excitement. Almost all the discussions were new to me and there were a lot of humours being exchanged! But now I see the newbies starting discussions that were discussed years ago. Now i understand why active members here started to leave as well.

Yanzalong

@yanzalong (18988)

• Indonesia

10 Jan 13

Yes toni, some of my old friends have disappeared here in mylot. I think they are probably tied up with something else. I am sure they will be back again. About you, toni, I think you still have lots of friends here in mylots. Happy mylotting, toni.

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

Well i hope you are right about it. But i couldn't see my friends who i used to exchange humours with around anymore.

rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

11 Jan 13

Welcome back here Toni. So what could be the problem why it's too slow for you to connect here. Maybe it's your internet connection , toni. Anyway, even if we can't find our old friends here now everyday, some of them would once and a while would up in a discussion. But how i wish just like you that the old friends can be as active as before here. This is indeed one site that we can always go back, to express whatever our situation is now.

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

Will be popping once in awhile D!

rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

Despite that, i hope you will still be here once in a while Toni. I miss you here.

girl_thinking

@girl_thinking (1959)

• Philippines

10 Jan 13

Hey, I hope you recognize me. I joined your discussion before about back pain. But your avatar was different then. Your avatar was a girl before, I think in pink (or white) dress. Hope to see you around!

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

9 Feb 13

My avatar has always been me. I've never used anybody's picture.

@echoforever (5180)

• United States

23 Feb 13

Sometimes the friends we meet will disappear. Its hard when that happens cause we have to find new one's who we relate to in the site. The good thing is there are all kinds of people here so just try to get back into it as you were just beginning.

@toniganzon (72281)

• Philippines

23 Feb 13

Thats' the part that i don't really enjoy, starting as if i were just beginning.

@echoforever (5180)

• United States

2 Mar 13

Unfortunately none of us do. Its just a part of life tha twe have to work out. Friendhsis can hurt us too if we're not careful. I tend not to trust easily, these days.

Hence27

@Hence27 (450)

• India

9 Jan 13

Each and everyone has different life.They busy enjoying their lives.New come to this site and old gone out.Communication is still going on no matter from whom,whether they are old or newbies.

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