Can I adopt you? ....Anyone who wants for adoption?

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
Philippines
January 9, 2013 6:23am CST
I've been to a public market this morning with my teenage son and buy for our weekly consumption. On our way to the parking lot there's three young boys who ask for coins. My son handed them Japanese cakes that he bought for himself (there's 5 pieces left) Still the little boys followed us and ask for money (they're between 6- 8 years old) I open the back door (car) and tell them to go inside and I will "adopt them" - and they run away. I pity those little kids who beg for food, ask for some coins- and giving them one meal or loose change is not enough. They're supposed to be at school and enjoying childhood. What do you feel dear mylotters :) Have a great day everyone jaiho® forever 1-09-2013 8:22pm Wednesday
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
9 Jan 13
She might just get terrified with your offer sis. It showed that they never had feelings to leave their own family and know the rules- don't follow someone you don't know or stranger. No way!(^^) You are so kind, sis. If they really know your sincere offer I bet they will follow you.(^^)
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
hello sis, I think so, their parents told them not to follow any strangers (hahahha) Anyway, it's sad to see small kids who are in danger on the streets. thanks and have a great day always
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
For abandoned kids I can understand why they resort to become beggars- but if we allow these kids to live on the streets, the risk of danger and also getting involved with crime is possible. It's very sad to see them that way- but our resources is limited that we cannot help every single street child to have a better life.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 13
Yes, it is sad to see them that way. I could imagine if my little nephews and cousins are in their situation. I won't let them to do it. So I feel the same way but they got no other option to choose.
• Mexico
11 Jan 13
Hi jaiho: That's a really interesting story but it's sad at the same time. What would you do if they accept to enter your house? Would you adopt them? But for real, they are usually trained by elder people to beg, there's usually someone behind to ask them to beg to keep their money. That's children exploitation. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Jan 13
hello Alvaro, I will surely bring them to one of our orphanages. Yes, sometimes such activities there are syndicate behind and I pity these kids. Thanks and it's nice to see you coming after a long time
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Jan 13
Hi Jai! You did the right thing by asking those children to come along with you. They might have felt terrified that where you would take them and they just ran away (lol). I too feel pity on such children who are forced to beg on crossings and outside religious place. There are some rehabilitation homes here, however if they are sent there, they just run away from there.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
hello dpk, Exactly. that's the same thing here in our country. Some of those kids after they are put into care center, they run away :x These are common for adults (aged 12-16) they want freedom and doesn't like to stay on care centers. It's sad to see these kids wandering and wasting their lives Thanks and have a great day dear
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
9 Jan 13
One cannot help them out as they are brought up in such atmosphere. Its there living style and they earn much more than we can think. Its better to avoid giving them alams.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello jagjit, I understand there are kids who earned good from begging alms and for them begging is the best way to earn a living. That is why one reason why some kids run away from care center and prefer to live on the streets. Thanks for your comment and have a great day
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hi jai, I hate those parents who let their children be a beggar I am lucky that I did not end up like one of them I pity them they must enjoy their childhood years I don't give money to a beggar as much as possible it will be food. miss yah
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
You want to adopt one? I can give you one....please do not say NO MISS YAH
@rambansal (574)
• India
9 Jan 13
Begging has developed as a respected profession by the beggars at least and they do their business at their own terms, not of the donors. And many beggars are richer than middle income persons. In real terms, everyone expecting a donation to live on is a beggar. This puts all religious and spiritual preachers into the beggar's community, and they are super-rich.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
hello ram, I understand about those preachers who become rich, or enjoying their lives right now. And still begging from its members At least I know my leader is not like them. Thanks and have a great day
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Jan 13
I dont feel anything about them. at least they are helping their family in much better ways than many others who get all comforts and everything and then go out on the streets and commit crimes.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
hello sids, You have a point in there. Thanks and have a great day
• India
10 Jan 13
Jane beti Same situation here, you can see them near temples, in railway platforms and bus stands, they are kind of professionals; let me make it clear, some women 'own' them, they send them to beg; but are watching them, they have to give the money to this owner in full first, only after that they get food and little money, how sad.. Hugs and blessings from Dada
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 13
hello dada, There are many of them here in our country too (mostly in cities) Sad but what shall we do.. Hugs to you and maa
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 Jan 13
I think you did the right thing, so did your son. You offered food, not money. I travelled a lot, plenty of children are abused for asking for money (which they have to give away). It's always been that way (already since the middle ages) and it will always be that way. Give food if they are hungry. Or give clothes. I have met plenty of adults who did ask me for money because they and their children are hungry. As I said: go "shop" in my kitchen take what you want since I do not have food, they refused because they wanted the money. If you are hungry you take the food, the shopping stuff. There are also plenty of children who are given the opportunity to go to school (in Africa for example). If you pay their uniform, schoolbag, the schoolmoney for a year etc. they do not go to school at all. They (family?) just want the money, they sell the uniform and throw the stuff you bought, needed at school away. You and your son have a good heart, may you be rewarded for that but also do not let anyone make abuse of it.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9 Jan 13
Yes, sometimes it is a pity that the parents of these children are the one teaching them to ask for alms. They are doing this as a source of their daily living.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Jan 13
hello Aries, Yes, sometimes it is the parents who teach their kids to beg alms. I saw small kids running with cars and knock car windows when traffic lights stop. It's too dangerous but these kids ignore the danger for some coins. Thanks and have a great day