we are planning to become a parent

hi soora, May I ask if you don't mind she got abortion intentionally? or you mean miscarriage? Well I am not a parent yet but I have a 9 months nephew who brings so much joy in our family right now. I think she must avoid unhealthy foods and be positive in life always happy mylotting

Congratulations for finally taking your marriage to the next step - parenthood. Your wife should be always eating healthy. And she should also have enough rest. Try consulting the OB GYNE so that she can be checked prior to getting pregnant. All the rest can be given by the doctor. Good luck!

I am five months pregnant with my second child. I was on a high risk pregnancy on my first baby. Am just so glad that I'm quite okay now with my second pregnancy. Well my friend, all your wife needs to do in preparation for her pregnancy is to eat healthy foods like vegetables and fruits. She may want to drink milk for pregnant or soon to be mothers. Vitamins like iron would also be okay. Or may want to go to your nearest ob-gyne for consultation regarding the matter. If by God's grace your wife gets pregnant again, please try to understand her condition. The first trimester is very crucial. Some women like me, don't really have the appetite to eat. We are on our worst condition during that time, so just bear with her okay? don't worry it won't take long... hehehe Good luck my friend!

Don't for get to take viteams they are very important to take every day while pregnant, before and after.

Well, for a cute baby - they are all cute. So, not much you need to do to have a cute baby. :) For a smart baby - read to your baby. Even read to your baby before your baby is born. Babies can hear inside the womb. So, just borrow some children's picture books or baby books from the library and read to your baby. Read to your baby from the time he or she is just born. Also, talk to your baby - not just 'baby talk' but talk in an intelligent manner. When you change your baby's clothes, talk in a smoothing voice and tell your baby, now I am putting on your shirt. Isn't in a nice shirt - it is a green (or whatever color it is) shirt. It has a cute teddy bear on it (or whatever it has on it) and it has short sleeves. Now, we are getting ready to go outside, or where ever you are going. Reading and talking to your baby, first bonds you and your baby. Also, your baby hears and listens to language and the more a baby and young toddler hears words, the easier it will be to learn to talk and to learn about words. So reading and talking to your baby will help your baby to learn and be smart.

Try to provide her foods that contain double vitamins and proteins. A pregnant woman needs extra vitamins and proteins compared to a non pregnant woman. The extra vitamins and proteins will help the baby grows in the womb. For a better foods preparation, ask to midwife. May you have a happy family after your baby's birth. Cheers...!

First of all congrats for sharing such a good news to us. Asked to take rest and not to do any hard work and don't allow her to lift any heavy object since she had already had two abortion first. Meet the Gynecologist and he/she is the right person to suggest the correct diet so that your wife and child can be healthy. God bless both of them.

Like you my husband and I planning to have a child as soon as possible and we follow some diet to make us healthy for the preparation for my pregnancy. I think the best thing to do is to visit her ob-gyne for proper guidance about the pregnancy, vitamins and diet.

Wow,as a man,pls do not let your wife get abortion even for one time,2 times are really bad for the health of your wife. Any way,wish you two will have a cute baby very soon.

I can't believe this she had two abortions. Children are gifts from God. The pregnant mother must be healthy for herself and for her baby. She has to go to doctor too and pray always.

I got married last year,and my husband and I still have no plans of being parents.I am afraid of giving birth to a baby,my friends told me it was awfully painful.So I should overcome my fears first.