My FUNNY AND MY FOOLISH EXPERIENCE IN CHAT

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I remember before When I was in College.and cyber chat was introduced in 2000 .I was so addicted in chatting different nationalities before in romance site. I met Indian online and we had a relationship over internet. He is Indian but working in Abu dhabi, UAE. He sent me cards pictures on courier ( since there is no webcam yet on that time). and called me on land line ( and cellphone is not yet popular that time)We exchange email for more than a year.Till he decided that he is not going to India to have his leave because he will wait for me since during that time I am in my 4th year college and graduating. Then I applied for a job abroad going to Dubai to work there so we can be together and plan for our future. but I got a wrong recruiter and was been fake twice. He has so upset that I was not able to come on the time frame he said. sine he give me an ultimatum as he want to prove if I am serious to him. He said when he take a vacation in India.His parents will force him to have a fixed marriage as part of their tradition as far as I know. Then I told him that It's not my intention not to go there I just became of victim of illegal recruiter.Then He said he has nothing to do but to go there. And That is the end of our relationship He sent me pictures of their marriage of his new wife which only then he met.of course I cried and I never used internet for months. Til I decide to move on and find someone knew again over internet.Then I met this second guy we both are the same filipino. and just met in Mabuhay Chat. This guys works in Hongkong and he sent me a solo photo in email and he really look like an actor for he is so handsome and have a nice built. Then just like the first one we had a relationship and we do exchange email,, telephone calls and later since cellphone is getting to be popular he sent me cellphone , cards and solo pictures by courier.then he decided to come here and visit me personally.I was afraid for my look doesn't fit to his looks My face is just ordinary. I am not ugly but have an average beauty only unlike him .I had inferiority complex. I rebond my hair, I buy new clothes before the day he arrived here.Then I rent a van since he said he will be the one to pay for it. We talked before the specified time He asked me if i do really love him or just it's his physical appearance whom I love,I said of course I do love you for what you are in whole, and I said how about me if you see in person looks uglier than picture. HE also said the same.Then on February 13 5pm if I am not mistaken with the date,His arrival in NAIA.I with my friend as my companion waited him for almost 1 hour. the plane came from Hongkong I look at him,then the second plane coming from Japan. So I was on doubt. He might fooled me. Then suddenly my phone rang. and I saw the one who is ringing my phone.He wears red too as what he stated with Hard rock printed on that jacket. And this guy is opposite in the photos. He look old, ugly, and not as tall. And he saw me. I turned around I was surprised.And laugh. I didn't get mad on him i just laugh instead since I did love him for what he is. I accepted him for who we are even though he is double my age.He stayed with me for a week then came back after two months,but later i found out when I came back to mabuhay chat to visit other chatter there and tell our stories one of the girl there told me he met that guy before we met and he leaved him because he found out that this guy is not really telling the truth and he also have his own family in Hongkong. It's seems my world crushed when I heard that. He gave me the telephone number that she researched and found in the directory and dialed that number.And his mother answered it I introduce myself and she answered .. girlfriend? how can she have girlfriend.He already have wife and two kids.I confront him on telephone and he still lied and said it's their neighbor here from their old house in manila.And He treaten me If i wouldn't believe to what he said he have no option but to end our relationship.and since I am not ready to leave him. I still continue to have a relationship with him for months but I researched about him secretly and later I found out He was been married for more or less two decades and his wife is a manager in a bank in Hongkong.so that is the time I decided to leave him and find the right one for me. It tooks 9 months before I find a new one but no in chat again. I stop chatting since then. I just met this guy here in our place and He is the father of my daughter.