You Naughty Boy

@p1kef1sh (45681)
January 12, 2013 9:05am CST
I keep reading that women think that their husbands, partners etc are just children and sometimes ought to be treated as such. It crossed my mind that if they really did act like children then you might well discipline them. If you could do that, just what would you do? Do you think that your little man would obey?
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• United States
12 Jan 13
Oh, I have one of those! Jim often only thinks of himself in the singular, and spends our grocery money on little toys, etc that are for his pleasure alone. I will admit, he has improved, but he has weak moments. I scold him and let him know I'm hurt and angry, but because I'm his sub, I can't do more than that. Actually, I'm waiting for MY opportunity to be naughty, just so he can punish me properly!
• United States
13 Jan 13
I've tried, but I can't for some reason! Once clothing starts coming off, there's no hope for me to become a Domme! I rather like being a sub though...
@p1kef1sh (45681)
13 Jan 13
Me too but that's a different story....
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
You'll just have to become a Domme instead! LOL.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
12 Jan 13
Though I jokingly comment that I have 3 kids...including my husband, I'm not very amused with it and don't like to treat him like a kid. If I could, I would discipline him in many areas...and NO, he wouldn't obey. I haven't said it aloud yet but many things cross my mind about how he was raised. Many things of his annoy me and it annoys me even more when he doesn't let me discipline the kids either. His weird logic is that he can't discipline the kids when he does it(the behaviour that annoys me) himself. And when I do the disciplining, the kids turn around and ask me 'How come dad is allowed to do it". Sometimes, I answer "It's for his mom to discipline him and for yours to discipline you". Hmmm....what would I do? I'd pick all the clothes and towels that he leaves around the room and throw it in the garbage :-P How I'd love to do that (did it with my son once and it has stopped since ). I'd insist on having a meal together or else no one gets to eat. I'd do something his nail biting (I think he's working on that now). I'll have to figure out what to do about the negative attitude he has towards others around us. I could go on and on....but it is easier to discipline the sons than the father. So, I will stick to that.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
12 Jan 13
The smallest child of the house has the biggest ego! You trying to get me killed? :-p Anyways, I'm working now and stay in a different state with the boys. Hubby is alone and hopefully picking up after himself. It's a lot easier to discipline the boys now that I am managing alone and I can see the huge difference. Hubby sees it too though he hasn't commented on it...yet.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
The Boss rules this house and I do exactly what she tells me to do or ELSE! LOL. She doesn't treat me quite like a small boy but she can be persuasive. Why don't you try some of those things that you mention and see what happens?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
Perhaps he will understand and leave domestic matters to you.
@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
12 Jan 13
I kid you not, this new roommate, the totally blind one, seriously acts like a spoiled brat. Back on Labor Day (first Monday in September) she had a temper tantrum and I sent her to her room without her supper. The roomie's little great nephew was there and he came out and wanted to be sure everything was okay. I explained to him that it was fine. I told him that she had lied to us and then asked what his daddy would've done if he lied to him. "He'd've spanked me," he told me. "Well," I replied, "I can't spank her so I sent her to her room." After I explained then he was fine with it.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
In my scenario you can spank her. But sending her to her room....brings back memories....LOL.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
12 Jan 13
Honestly, spanking only works at a certain stage, and since D is more of a tweenie, she's past that point. Grounding and taking away privileges work better at that age.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
I don't mind the occasional spanking. But as to how effective it is.....not sure. LOL
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jan 13
OH I am pretty sure that he would not. But so far he hasn't done anything requiring punishment...
@p1kef1sh (45681)
13 Jan 13
You are just starting out on his training program of course. Not that he realises that just yet. LOL.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jan 13
He's been married before. He knows....
@GreenMoo (11834)
14 Jan 13
Send him to bed early of course I imagine he couldn't get there fast enough. His little man too.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
15 Jan 13
Hmm...this is supposed to be punishment not playtime! LOL.
@GreenMoo (11834)
16 Jan 13
Never heard of positive reinforcement?
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
12 Jan 13
Hello Pikey Long time no see but things are still going strong at mylot. Well if thinking of a naughty boy who a woman would want to make him to obbey would be to take away his (actually her's) toy, right ?
@p1kef1sh (45681)
12 Jan 13
That's so mean,,,,but I like it!
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