Children said their parents are boring for they never argue!

My husband and I also try to settle things in private so seldom that my children see as having an argument. With our eighteen years together I can say that we were able to solve little arguments peacefully. Have a nice day!

when they grow up and when they become parents they will automatically get the solution.Arguing in front to them is not good as it will impact them. As parents should behave as happy they can and make their children's also happy.

yes, i like to learn from these parents. it is quite difficult to contain emotions when one is in argument. it takes a lot of emotional quotient and maturity to control to fly the emotions out of the body. parents who are like this must be made a model for the children. people like me can learn so much from them.

I think they've found the perfect solution to show their children the right path to ride on. In most cases the strength and long lasting life of a marriage lies on the basis of preventing their children from seeing severe family disputes and arguments. Of course, there is no family without disagreements, but finding the right balance and private solution of any problems lay the foundation of the stable family for the children. Because children, grown up in stable and non-conflict environment are more likely to form a stable family of their own, because they will already have the example and role model in their minds. There are exceptions, of course, but fortunately they are not too many.

They are a good example to all the parents. I believe most of the children don't like seeing their parents arguing or fighting, especially for the young children. I know my daughter is afraid of seeing my hubby and I arguing, I saw her fear in her eyes. SO we try to not argue in front of my daughter, like them, we try to solve it in private.

My husband and I try to solve our disagreements in private. But we do let our kids know we have disagreements and how we solve them. Otherwise, they won't know how to solve disagreements in their own marriage. I don't want my kids to think that it is always bliss in a marriage. Both my husband and I think it is important not to fight in front of our children and we seldom do. But at the same time, we want them to understand how to overcome conflict in a marriage. And how to do in a mature and responsible and caring manner.

That is certainly admirable to hear at this age and time. I had only seen my parents argue once when I was still small, I think around 7 or 8. I admire a relationship with respect for the other partner. It does make the marriage harmonious.

Yup! Better for couple to talk any misunderstanding inside the family and explain it to their children the reason such conflicts between the couple for the children understand that their parents did not argue or fighting to each other. Because children is very sensitive at these days...

I think children should see their parents argue and I think they should also see them "apologize" and make up. If kids are not allowed to see their parents argue it will give them a false sense of what marriage is all about. Even the happiest couples argue with each other. Parents argue with their children. I think what matters most is how you interact with each other when you argue. You don't want to be screaming obscenities at each other, but discussing issues calmly. Rare is it if ever that you will find a married couple agreeing on everything. I don't think we should give our kids false illusions like that.

That is really perfect. Parents must not really argue infront of their children. They are really good example of a couple. I hope some coules out there would realize that is really bad to argue infront of their children. Thanks for this.

Those children are proud of their parents for sure. My parents were like this when I was a kid but they changed in time. When we moved to another place and and with our new neighbors behaving badly, they too behaving like our neighbors. My dad hang out and drink with his friends and my mom gets mad and argue with my dad with big mouth.Geeess..

Such good examples by doing, not just talking, are good for kids. They will likely do similar things to their spouses.The more parents do that the better the kids' future will be.

respect each other is one important thing part in our relationship, even we need to open and sharing each other without any secret. I learned with we open each other we can talk easyly when the problem is coming and try get the answer to solve the problem. Talk with children or not, i think depends on age of the kid, are they understood how the parents think or not.

Wow.. what a nice and a very inspiring message to learn. In my experience it is true that any hated arguments must be done in private. The children are very sensitive and can easily adopt to what they hear, observed and most especially if the source are their parents. The lack of parents arguments was interpreted as boring by the children. This is a good observation. It is true for sometimes it is also important that the children can observe a healthy arguments from their parents. A healthy arguments.. what I mean, is constructive argument. The children has the right to learn the basic. The parents in raising their children, must bear in mind.. Outside and away from home the children will be exposed on different environment. The home is the basic foundation of how they will react to some challenges outside. .

My ex and I do agree but not in front of our kids. We settle the matter in private and that's why our kids were confused when we finally call it quits.

That is one perfect relationship, I would say. Although it is really inevitable not to have arguments in the relationship, at least they have managed mot to show their kids those "ugly times". I think that if people would learn to have that respect towards one another, then every single household will have its peace.

I completely agree with you. They are a great example to their children. Every relationship should strive to do things like that. Couples should discuss those things in private. This will keep the children from feeling like they have to be burdened with their parents problems as well. This keeps peace and commitment in the relationship between husband and wife. They show respect for one another this way.

With only discussing problems in private you do not teach your children how to handle problems. BTW a discussion has nothing to do with argueing or fighting. So this answer doesn't make any sense to me. As a parent you should show your children as well that you are not having a solution to each problem, that you have your strugles, doubts as well and your problems. You should teach them how to express yourself, to make clear you are not always sharing the same opinion and not everyting is worth to fight about. Also you should be an example of how to deal with feelings as being hurt, angry, disappointed. If you are not doing that your children will only feel big losers if they don't share the same opinon with their friends or partner. You do not teach them that it's normal to be that way and that if both want there is always a solution and a problem is seldom that huge as it seems. I think the children are right and I can't agree with you these parents were demostrating their childeren how or what. What was really bothering them they did private, between closed doors.

Yes, I think that's better for the couple.Not arguing in front of the children should be practice by couples because the first institution where children learns a lot is in their home. Whatever , they have seen inside their home, they apply it outside and so the behavior reflects on what they used to do and what they had learned at home.

this is such an admirable couple.i also believe in my husband and i having our quarrels away from the kids,i dont think its good to see your parents shouting at each other or quarreling.do it in private ,this way you still both hold your head high infront of your children,can you imagine the quarrel gets overboard while in the presence of your kids and you utter a bad word to your spouse it will forever stick in the kids head,lets respect our children and hold heated discussions away from the children.