Me and My EX Are Back Again?????????????

By bhabycatch013

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

Philippines

January 13, 2013 8:30am CST

hi mylotters, Before some people who knows me reacts finish reading this first hahahah! Last week after I came from a three days vacation my cousin send me sms and told me that she wants to talk to me later that day I went to her place and we talked I don't know how I will react upon hearing the story she told me but one thing is for sure I am disappointed and bit mad about my ex. This is what my cousin told me at the middle of the night my EX live in partner send her message asking if I and my EX are back I was what the H****...........why she asked such things I mean we've been separated for six years if I am not mistaken and they already have children. I saw my ex a day before the New Year's Celebration but it was nothing I even saw his live in partner that time I don't have an idea until my cousin told me that my Ex and his Live In partner is having a complicated relationship my Ex told her that he still loves me and he was never been happy with his partner ever since he even said that he regretted of being with her. Honestly I pity the girl I know how much that words hurt her specially if that words came from the father of her children I hate my EX upon knowing it I don't have any little idea what is going on with them what shocked me more is he told his live in partner that ME AND HIM ARE BACK AGAIN? and he decided to leave her and the children because of ME what the ****

such an I*iot dragging my name I've been happy since the day we got separated I am happy with my life now without him in fact I am better person know the experienced taught me a lot. My cousin was shocked when she read that sms from the girl she knows me very well once I give chance and someone break it again I will never ever give him a chance again even how much I love him honestly I don't love him anymore and our memories are fading now. I think he is just using my name just to leave the girl and I pity I don't want to think it's KARMA for her cause she stole my EX how I wish they will settle things and I will be out of the picture. What a start of 2013 for me hope anyone is having a great 2013 Happy mylotting

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@jaiho2009 (39141)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

I never knew you had an EX

Miss yah

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

hi jai, Cause in the two of us you got lot of EX than me so you did not notice mine

I miss you more

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@jaiho2009 (39141)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

oh well I just broke up with Collin Farrell and.... uhmnn....right now I am loveless

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Whattttt???????? you are telling me I am the choosy one I think it's you not me Collin is Sexy and Yummy

I can't believe you run out of LOVE

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@Aja103654 (5646)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

Wow, that's a real interesting story. I feel bad for his new live in partner. Well, that's what she got for stealing him anyway. Has she not figured out yet that men who can easily be stolen are not trustworthy? they have the tendency to switch to other girls easily. I feel bad for the children more. The innocents. Your ex is a total irresponsible jerk who doesn't deserve any woman. And how dare he use your name for his convenience and much to hurt someone. Even if his relationship with that woman turned sour, he doesn't have the right to leave them. Slap him if you can and get him back to his senses! don't accept this wishy-washy man, ever!

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi Aja, I care more to the children not to them they are adults and they must know how to fix things up. He doesn't deserved any single second of my time. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@Aja103654 (5646)

• Philippines

16 Jan 13

the children... I feel so bad about the children. they have not done anything wrong... and it's not their fault he is their father. i think he's an irresponsible guy trapped inside an adult's body.

@elitess (5070)

• Ipswich, England

13 Jan 13

Hello bhaby catch ! Yes that sounds just the type of a lame excuse one would use to get rid of a serious relationship - although after having a child with that woman he should think twice and at least have the decency of telling her the truth and talk things out like mature persons.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi elitess, I think he is matured but a coward to face the truth thanks for the response happy mylotting

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

hi there! wow that was a big shock of a news hahahaha..Honestly speaking when I read your story I felt some mixed emotions first was I feel sorry for your ex it seems that all the way through his live in life with the mother of his child he was just doing things half-heartedly.I said so because why would he tell her live in partner that he wasn't happy at all with her :( after having a child with her?I mean come on what a happy go lucky man, ooops sorry for the term but I can't think of any term to call your ex.Sometimes boys/guys are really hard to understand.But I am happy for you! You are sure of yourself of your feelings towards your ex and it's a good thing that you don't have any feeling for him anymore ;) that kind of man cannot be trusted.I just wish that you can meet the man of your dreams to share your dreams and goals with . :)

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi tipay, I am really sure cause if I want him back I should do it years ago but I did not and I am glad I made the right decision. thanks for the wishes and response happy mylotting

@kingparker (9673)

• United States

14 Jan 13

I felt pity for that girl too. Your ex probably still falling in love with you, but he might not deserve you since he cheated on you first, right? If he never love that girl, and it was just a fling relationship, he shouldn't marry that girl either, and tell her in person in honest words. Now, things getting complicated, and he is hurting both sides. I hope that he should learn his lesson from now on.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi king, They are living together for years he got the girl pregnant that's why I call it quit after I found it out. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@nykalex88 (243)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

Almost all women are like that. My partner also think that I still have feelings for my ex. We have already 2 kids and she still think about that. I always told her that she will be the last woman in my life. I feel so disgusted every time she will talk about that. There's a time that I said to her that when I cheat her, it's gonna be a different woman, not my ex. Can you explain why women are like that? Living with their past...

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi nykalex, I respect your views regarding that matter You can't blame women even men sometimes thinks the same way thanks for the response happy mylotting

@SomeCowgirl (32191)

• United States

13 Jan 13

Let us hope the woman takes your cousin's word for it and realizes that he was just dragging your name along with him as a means to get out of the relationship. I feel sorry for her and for her kids since he left, and decided to try to use you as an excuse. I'd watch out though, perhaps he does still have feelings for you and will want to try to get back together with you. Better knock him down before he has time to try.

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

hi SCg, He will regret it for sure I told my cousin that he should not try or else I gonna let him eat all of his words such an A**hole

. Even he has feelings or not I don't care I don't want him to be in my life once is enough. thanks for the response happy mylotting

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@katsmeow1213 (28716)

• United States

14 Jan 13

Sounds like a nice guy.. LOL. It's good that you're done with him. Just ignore his drama and let them work it out on their own.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi kat, I was shocked when my cousin told me this that's why I reacted this way I don't have an idea whats going on with them. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@ANTIQUELADY (36440)

• United States

14 Jan 13

What goes around comes around. Once a cheater always a cheater.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi antiquelady, You are right

thanks for the response happy mylotting

• China

15 Jan 13

In my case, i believe that saying ,the same man never crossed the same river twice. I used to have two relationship before i got married. I both went back with my exs after we broken up. then,in the end,we broken up again.i know there are a tons of reason to break up,when you still have relationship,be serious to it,if you are broken up,then move on,do not mess up with ex again.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi mintlin, There is nothing wrong in giving chances but in my case it's a different story and the feelings are not the same, thanks for the response welcome to mylot

@chicgale (2982)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

I felt sorry for the girl. You EX shouldn't use your name just to break up with his current partner. It was not right for him to do that. If he don't want that woman anymore, he should have told her the truth.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi chic, He is not brave enough to tell how he really feels thanks for the response happy mylotting

@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

14 Jan 13

Move on.. you dont need the drama in your life. So how is life these days? hope all is well there. Have a super week there.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi maria, Life is doing good at my side I already moved on they are the one who needs to move on thanks for the response happy mylotting

@smiling_ja (261)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

Good thing you're over that person and you have nothing to do with him! If I am in your shoes my initial reaction would be "good riddance"! I mean it's been years and having had children with his lived in partner, now that things aren't going well with them, he'll come to your cousin and tell her he's still into you like nothing's changed, like there's nobody involved least of all his own children's future!

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@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

13 Jan 13

hi smiling_ja, I think the girl will not let him go that easy how I wish this is just some misunderstanding I care more about the children not to them. thanks for the response happy mylotting

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@jamieclavero (187)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

wow. that's kinda complicated. but there's nothing wrong on getting back together with your ex IF you are still in love and IF getting back together wont hurt other people :)

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi jamie, We've been separated 6 years ago I think he already have children though he is not married with the girl besides I don't have feelings for him anymore thanks for the response happy mylotting

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

14 Jan 13

hi bhabyhcatch oh that girl is something else and so is your ex to lie to her about your getting back with him. Guess hes looking for an easy out to leave her and I say shame on him. I do feel sorry for her having a man like that but still she did steal him in the first place.what a mess. Just be glad you are out of it. I hope the rest of this year goes really smoothly and happily for you.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi hatley, Nice to see you here

Well I am also glad that I am not involve with him anymore and don't have plans too.... may you have a great 2013 thanks for the response happy mylotting

@obe212003 (2299)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

I think your EX is quite a creepy guy having you in mind as an excuse, pardon me saying that. Obviously, the guy has issues, and probably a discreet psychological one, lol! Often I've seen people making up storied just to get away with something and i considered those people as cowards, mean and very selfish.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi obe, I agree with you he is coward and selfish even I loved him once it seems he is different person now. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@jenny1015 (13366)

• Philippines

14 Jan 13

Your ex could have been a more man enough to tell the truth about what he really feels towards her current partner. I mean, there is no sense in dragging your name when you have been separated centuries ago, right? I'd be mad myself it I were put in the same situation.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi jen, that's my point though in the past he tried to court and convinced me to get him back but I did not. thanks for the response happy mylotting

@Dominique25 (9464)

• United States

14 Jan 13

Sorry to hear that your EX is saying all of those things. After such a long time of being a part it would be confusing to hear that he is saying all of those things when they are not true. I hope that you will stick to your decision and continue to enjoy your life. Take care and don't let him stress you out.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi Dominique, I made a decision years ago and I will not change it now I am really sure to what I feel

thanks for the response happy mylotting

@pomwango (1353)

• Kenya

14 Jan 13

i think your Ex is probably realising there was something good in you or he is now regretting thats why he is using your name.i agree with you that its never wise to go back to an Ex,but i feel for his partner, after she got him from you now he wants you back thats really karma,let them sort their issues without involving you.

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi pom, Well I think so in fact me and the girl are really different in many ways I hope they will not involve me again. thanks for the response happy mylotting

• Hubei, China

14 Jan 13

In a new year,get a new start and try to make your life more colorful!

@bhabycatch013 (9150)

• Philippines

15 Jan 13

hi ww, I am happy with my life now WElcome to mylot happy mylotting