Do you often Criticize People?

Criticizing people if you mean trying to find out or publicize their shortcomings or weaknesses is a bad habit. Why pick innocent people? The habit bounces back to the doers telling them their imperfection and unsoundness of reasoning. Remember the finger rule: 4 of our fingers point to others while the thumb points back to us. meaning look in the mirror to see our mote.

I have been in your shoes few years ago. I always criticize anyone and I have already realized now that it is just because of my immaturity. Now, I never criticize anyone because I understand others' decision, feelings, and so on. I also learned how to forgive easily even if a person really committed a mistake. I thank myself for this and have felt that I have grown mature enough.

What we should be concerned of, is the intention of the criticism. Criticism is the act of judging the merits and faults of a person or object or anything. Criticism is not always bad. Various kinds of intentions are responsible for the result of the criticism. Criticism with the intention of appreciation, improvisation, jealousy, hatred, love is commonly observed. As a respected personality I often criticize people but never with a feeling of jealousy or hatred. But I criticize with an intention of improvisation. And my criticism is often taken well, accepted fairly, and sometimes even with greetings. I would suggest you to not give up criticizing other people but just change the your ways. Criticizing is not always blaming others. Improvisation helps to make a better world.

It is a serious problem. One of my friend also used to do criticize others. I think you are in depression so you are trying to figure out others mistakes. Try to change this habit...Stop thinking about others... Listen to some good music, Go to places which u like most this will help you to come out this problem..

I'm not gonna lie, I am guilty of that. But I only criticise traits of them which concern behavior or which have an effect on me. I'm not someone to pick on people just because of their clothing style or taste or wealth...

I think it is bad. You should refrain in doing that. It is written, "When you judge other people , you will be judge too." It will return back to you in time. Hope you understand. Good day!

Honestly, I do this too. It doesn't feel good to be so judgemental, but I think these things often. I try very hard to imagine myself in the other person's situation and to be sympathetic and patient, but I sometimes just think critical thoughts. I think I do this to make myself feel a bit better - like I'm doing something right and they're wrong so I'm a better person. I know this isn't true, it's just a trap I seem to have fallen into.

Are you with people who criticized a lot? Sometimes friends around you who are having bad attitude contributes a lot. If you have friends who have this judgmental attitude I suggest that you avoid these people and change your bad behavior slowly.

I try not to put myself in a situation that allows me to criticize anyone. It is really not doing anything to benefit by putting another person down. I believe that encouragement brings so much more to life than criticism ever can.

Yeah I agree, criticizing is a really bad habit when you're doing it in a negative way, well just only for my opinion you can use criticizing in different way where it can be a help for other people who needs to be criticize. But don't get me wrong here, believe me dude there are really people who are blind of themselves of what they really can do, and that's where you can use criticizing to open there eyes about truly who they are. It just depends of people of how they will deliver their criticize to other person, some in negative and some in positive which is very helpful. I don't know if you really get what I'm saying but it really depends on each person of how they convey everything in their thoughts. :)

If I can avoid criticizing people then I will avoid it because it will just take me no where and I might end up hurting someones feelings and I don't want it to happen,, I know someone who keep saying negative and criticizing people in there back.. and I see it as a bad manner so I tell myself that if I can't say anything good to that person I will just keep myself shut up..

On the opposite to you,I'm a person who never wants to critize others,even the person that I hate.The reason is that I don't want to hurt others. The only case that I critize someone is that when my brother does something wrong on purpose. Try to be good and nice to others and they will do the same to you.

Some ppl don't criticize anyone and of course we should admire them. And I am agree with that point. And I don't criticize any one, I mean I do it some time(occasionally :P)